Fair raise number: Castiron effort
I heard of recently so a thing: Have person of 30 thousand Switzerland, go to work by day in Switzerland, answer France to sleep in the evening.
Exceed because of Swiss prices expensive, half of French petty gain, these people choose to go secretly the France of Swiss border land is resident, have Switzerland / France is double the identity.
Actually, this kind of circumstance is in China very general also. A lot of people go to work in Beijing, the house is bought in Langfang; Go to work in Shanghai, answer Suzhou to live in the evening; Go to work in Qingdao, answer in the evening namely Chinese ink; Shenzhen person works in Hong Kong, live in Shenzhen.
The house price of big city and life cost are high, the choice lives in urban brim, took Gao Tie to also do not spend how long, what is there against it? However, it is so good to have really?
The backside that two ground running, it is unbeknown hardships and secret anguish.
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Have a netizen, go to work in Beijing, heibei Langfang buys a house, take Gao Tie to go there and back between Beijing look forward to everyday, went out at 6 o'clock in the morning, in the evening 10:3Just came home at 0 o'clock. Because often cannot see its figure, he by family joking return to give evening early " nocturnal pedestrian " .
Do " nocturnal pedestrian " have price. Besides go to work and hurry on with his journey, he accompanies family to have a meal without free time, chat, recreational, more do not raise contented interest and interest. Days of whole body and mind cannot be loosened, be full of full tired out feeling.
Arrive especially in the winter, day break gets evening, wake not to come, the flavor that struggling to get up is very afflictive. Connect diligent the distance is far, be afraid of again be late, days whole by long-distance the panicky feeling that hurry on with one's journey is being enveloped, it is painful very.
Netizens say: The person that two ground running, besides effort and endurance, what need more is abundant energy, also sleep on average everyday 4, 5 hours.
"I every day very tired, the place that answers everyday has a meal to bathe to protect skin, fast midnight. Family replaces me so tired that feel distressed. Family replaces me so tired that feel distressed..
This is ten million the true portraiture of the office worker that two ground running. For the job and career, they must give evening early to return, clockwork spring is tightened on, run on the road at any time.
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Writer Liu Mo Wen works in Shanghai, cummer A wakes in small town, two people very love each other, also want to hit very much in respective domain spell an one portion career.
Because different ground is loved,be only, back and forth the normal that two ground running into them.
Get tired of everyday rush about, two people have time to go out rarely recreation, lie fallow and repast. Every weekend, just seek idle time from all sorts of aperture, alimentary their love.
For this, liu Mo Wen still wrote the name is " special not romantic " the book speaks the love of two people.
Later, their feeling makes a round trip do sth over and over again is too tired, flat a week sees one side.
Get together every time, they cherish the each second that be together very much, but every time parting, a Xing cries pear is beautifully to bring rain. Liu Mo Wen dare not look, can coma ground goes forth.
Later, spell a career to hit, the job of Liu Mo Wen is busier, hook up the time of the toilet is done not have, for this, they must stop two ground to run.
Again later, their heart also becomes further and further as the distance, defeated end finally busy and but.
Because two ground running, the love of some people died without known cause.
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Hit in big city go all out so tired, have so much but, why do they come even?
"Because, big city catchs all resource in the hand closely, orgnaization of education of all sorts of big companies, company, scientific research and outstanding person are here in Caidouji.
Future, big city can continue to flourish, be full of a hope, and a lot of small towns are met atrophic. " a lot of people reply so.
Ferry of Lin Ge Beijing two ground running several years, although press muscularity, but never had wanted to want to leave town of a gleam of.
Lin Ge undergraduate course and Master are read in Beijing college, because the foundation is good, add knowledge seasoned, the work that come often is handed over to be able to make above satisfactory on the job. Yearly salary, profession also grows subsequently, from what become a full member the first year 100 thousand 200 thousand what arrive the 6th year, arrive from average employee sectional chief.
Such change, actual strength is on one hand, resource is more on one hand. If is in small town, be in very hard weak point there is so big change after a few years.
Run Li Xiaoming in Shanghai Suzhou two ground running, to alleviate pressure, the part-time job that she is working makes a building dish seek advice or do design of mobile phone theme.
Had these lives to accumulate, she still made pluralistic contributor later.
Spend as attention rise slowly, the contribution that she receives is increasing, can have the hundreds of income of on 1000 every months.
Finally, she relied on herself to buy a car in Shanghai, bought a house, all have loan, but be without pressure.
This is their choice even if two ground running, also want to stay in the reason of big city.
Here, want you to have active thinking only, hold all sorts of part-time job way, vigor chock goes struggling, can obtain safeguard. And small town thoroughfare is narrow, a lot of idea do not have method to come true.
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North bleachs Mr Wang, feel big urban pressure is too great before, returned native place to built a villa to have stable life too.
Passed 3 years, he discovers native place what is good without big city, the thing pilfer edition that the supermarket sells is much, see a movie to drive to look in the city of a few inside and outside even, the job like a provide for the aged also must like person domestication covet is easy and comfortable.
Was used to the common of public order fine of big city, face native place every day again the sort of having a meal sleep the life with multiply invariable offspring, a life that looks at in the end, he feels bored, the life lacks colour.
He returns Beijing again later, with the rest money scrape together bought a house, although very small, but how did his heart come down surely however. Although go all out in work very tired, but very dependable.
Not come singly but in pairs, fabaceous valve has one schoolgirl Su Su, work in Shenzhen, because enter not apply goes out, choose to returned small town to look for a job to find a place for.
She eats, lie between a few months to travel, the time passes satisfiedly it seems that comfortable.
But she cannot bear the sight of local very much. The person quality of a wide place in the road is uneven, throw rubbish everywhere, the circumstance everywhere that does not divide a circumstance to talk aloud is visible.
She has a meal except about a few classmates on the weekend outside, what to have very hard other activity. And female classmate also marries a person in succession, meeting is not the parent namely in short.
Su Su is overcome really finally the atmosphere of small town, become aware oneself are here is antipathetic, return Shenzhen afresh again. Work seriously, increase deduct a percentage, can take every months now 10 thousand. On this foundation, also can afford the expense that travels every year twice.
When you face difficulty and pressure, do not want to abandon easily, do not forget why to come to big city at the outset, have the reason that insists to stay.
If you like big city really, might as well try hard again, hold to again, after staying, felt to be worth really.
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The life is not written with easy book, live very easily without the person.
According to statistic, because of high price, tall house price, different ground is loved wait for a reason, the person that in big city and brim city two ground running has one billion four hundred and ten million and sixty-five thousand four hundred and eight,
Although two ground running very tired, but this is major person makes a process that go all out, hold out the past, meet promising another village.
Because pressure is too great and do not carry a small town, though the life is stable, but tired out small town, it is the path that is drag out an ignoble existence. Development chance is not much, the person can stay lazier more, volition of this very easy fritter away.
Life hundred years, do not be defeated completely not to win ground sit back and wait to often die, too drab. I came, I went, a few track can keep between the world, just calculate wade without Bai Laiyi.
Young should go out to enter swing, aged ability should return to cheek to pause.
Although hit,go all out very tired, but if you are a talent, the age choice that does not struggle in this please is easy and comfortable!
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