A lot of people often complain he live tiredly, but different is, some people can search shining exposed to the sun grow after had complained, and some people can crouch in the full of remorse in the shadow only.
We should experience the height trough of life, also meet the joys and sorrows of appreciate world.
So, comparing those who take it is more importantly to rise is to learn to be put down indifferently, more important than having is to learn calm ground to lose, more important than resentment is to learn to be excused leisurely.
The first, relax heart
Because feel unpleasantness for the estrangement between person and person or contradiction,a lot of people are met, but grow to be able to discover gradually as age, a lot of things are done not have really necessary.
For instance of each trying to cheat the other of the strife openly and secretly on duty field, shoppy, competitor do not support each other, we think conquer others, gained wanted name and advantage.
When just understand later, the mutual trust between person and person, understanding and include, far more valuable than making the one language that come more.
We are living, not be for benefit of float of a few undeserved reputation.
Can let a person feel happy, often be a few look seem footy petty thing, for instance the each other between the mutual understanding between the colleague, person of the same trade helps, it is adversary even encourage between each other.
A person is nice do not calculate good, everybody just is good really very.
Because,do not want greedy, go intentionally blocking the road of others, because everybody goes together, the road just is met wider and wider.
Because,do not want envious, go intentionally the thing of bad others, because others is too bad, you also won't very good over- .
Because had better be gotten the better of,do not want, go intentionally contending for ought not to the thing that you get, because heart do not deserve, often have aftermath.
Qian Yongyuan also is not earned, fu Yongyuan also is enjoyed very much.
But humanness is honest and kind and kind-hearted, take a place deficient, allow a few conditions, can bring the good lot with constant in a steady stream to you however.
The 2nd, do not pester
You had cried for the milk of overturn, had distressed to pick wrong way, for undeserved person sad over- ?
Life always has all sorts of greatly small regrets, compared with continue to pester, better choice is to stop in time actually caustic.
Lost stuff, no matter how are you redeemed again, also lost.
Love wrong person, no matter how you go back on your word again, also love a fault.
Major moment, we too much and worth while go the time of pursuit, exploration, experience and energy, expend was in undeserved, had missed, or it is the person that cannot change, thing, content go up.
But as stronger as its and the mistake in the past, be inferior to accepting it, face it, change it.
Above all you want to know, days won't go backwards, can continue only forth, you cannot come to everything again.
Next you want to know, without who enough perfect, wrong be about to admit, after admitting, ability may change. If just escape blindly, so the day can be crossed only jump over flooey.
Some things already cannot change even if, us still the state of mind of thing of changeable look upon.
The 3rd, little dispute
You are had for what thing, does be troubled pass at the bosom?
For instance the leader arranged a bit job to you more, you are shown all sorts of grouchy;
For instance friend skimp money of a meal, you always are engrave in the heart, try to let the other side still come back;
For instance the sweetheart said word of a firm more, you are taking a make a fuss about a casual remark dropped by one's superior, at any time old job bring up again, mouth not Rao Ren.
Actually, a lot of things we can need not go dispute, even dispute arises to also do not have much great sense.
A word says well, the broadest on the world is marine, broader than ocean is a sky, broader than the sky is the person's heart.
When you are capable, do bit of thing more, exercised you not only, the leader also can look in the eye.
When a meal cannot subdue you, written guarantee a few times more Zhang, friend more cannot forget you. When a few gas word cannot arise to you how old when the influence, do not go truer eager to do well in everything, love talented person will be nice yours put in the bottom of the heart.
If excessive plan the thing of a few trifles, meet instead try to save a little but lose a lot. Magnify pattern when you a bit, the state rises a bit, heart quantity relaxes a bit, your kink, painful, also do not meet flexibly a lot of less.
Be like your eye, if staring at the ground of the heart below the foot only, the landscape that when visitting distant place naturally without Bing , sees is so so so much, beautiful, open.
Someone says, life is inferior to meaning, nine times out of ten, but be being troubled for the most part among them is we can master with clear up.
Temporarily life experiences, the unfavorable situation that faces with us has particular concern, but the final state that you make an individual still is decided by your state of mind.
Wish you have lucky energy of life, if be done not have temporarily, wish you are in insipid in, the society is easy.
Wish you have good person reason, if be done not have temporarily, wish you are in misunderstanding, the society is good-tempered.
Wish you have good life, if be done not have temporarily, wish you are in misfortune, the society is compassionate.
Wish you have state of these 3 kinds of good intention, had passed gently, simply, happily each days.
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Li Saiyuan
