When past of turn one's head when, won't because waste time and compunction.
Life is 30 thousand days brief, , calculate come down, the time that belongs to us is very limited.
So, how be in finite lifetime, go out alive best oneself?
Above all, not prodigal your body.
Know netizen " Jason Wang " had told a story:
A graduation went China for, be in China to worked old schoolmate, before two years abdication answered Wuhan.
Before be being faced, I ate a meal together with him, I ask him: "Why to want from China to leave one's post? Waited for so much after all year, salary is good also, of stock what also have. Of stock what also have..
Because,he says to leave one's post is a very occasional thing.
That paragraph of time is driving a project, work overtime particularly fierce, original person is very poor, rectify what the individual boils to have bit of collapse, more appear form sell bone to stand, eye socket is nigrescent.
Work overtime a day night, come home called a taxi, too tired, was asleep on backlash.
Went to a place to just wake, woke psychosis is very dispirited also.
Taxi driver desire character stops again (a Shanghai uncle of more than 50 years old) , good still finally moral nature said to him:
Little brother, so young, this thing still had better not touch drugs.He says, heard this word that day, in brain with respect to a thought: Will carry tomorrow leave one's post, cannot again so dry went down.
Money is admittedly serious, but stripped not only when a job your full time, strip for a long time still when your Morpheus and health, you must discreet.
Resemble what often say in the film:
"The life makes money, also get flower having a lot. Also get flower having a lot..
Read the book of Mr Yang Jiang, one paragraph makes me special touch:
"In Zhong Shu disease, I seek more than him work one year only. Patronize a person, male be inferior to female. I endeavor to maintain oneself, contend for beg ' the husband is prevenient, wife after ' , wrong order is bad. wrong order is bad..I endeavor to maintain oneself, ability takes care of you when you are ill, ability cleans the site for you after you go, how deep love.
A person, no matter you have how great ideal, ambition;
No matter how many you have talent, sit have how many property;
No matter be to want to take care of parental wife more, if did not have health, everything is 0.
Remember forever, healthy ability is 1, had this 1, those 0 ability from the back can become significant.
Next, not prodigal your money.
In buying lottery ticket to American couple the large award of a huge sum of 500 million dollar.
After subtract duty, return remnant in one's hand 327 million (it is 2.1 billion RMB probably) .
After 5 months, the reporter goes interviewing, in discovering they resemble far from large award, the life because of them and before do not have 2 send.
The house of 300 thousand dollar, the car of tens of thousands of dollar, shop go around cheap supermarket, dress pine breaks down optional, handle rubbish personally even.
Without plane You Lun, without a person of extraordinary powers curtilage sweet car, do not have luxury even!
So, where is money? Does fund run which? Also did not see you are spent. The reporter cannot help asking.
Two people of husband and wife are laughing at an answer to say: "Made a few investment, also donated a few beneficent orgnaizations, with the research of oppose cancer, and solve children hunger to wait. And solve children hunger to wait..
They are straight-out:
"We are very satisfactory to present life. Of course we have consideration past consumption, but once the desire of the sort of material is ignited, can go out hard, gobbled up oneself finally, let us lose reason. Let us lose reason..After the reporter goes out this news hair, the instant is in net get angry, because of husband and wife the two manners that handle money.
Before belongings of a huge sum, have such regaining consciousness unexpectedly with reason, solid belong to god-given.
The case that money degenerates is too much, have a lot of person that tear open win a prize in a lottery of change door, lottery, if wash,do not have a few years of another deficient.
So: Rich, do not want please prodigal your money, that meeting lets you keep sober with reason;
Without money, more cannot prodigal money. Because live to need to spend money everywhere, there is money in the hand, just have dignity and bottom energy of life, ability when anything crops up dying is not random.
Remember please, can control the person of good money, ability dominates good life.
Finally, not prodigal others is trustful to yours.
More than 10 years ago, uncle and friend deal of a partnership.
The uncle is very trustful this friend that follows his partnership, give a friend to do yard full-fledged member, all such as quality of financial, production lets him guard a pass, oneself talk about the business outside every day, seek a client.
However, a year many hind, I heard the news that the uncle goes bankrupt.
That follows the friend of uncle partnership deal, taking money to run unexpectedly!
Manufacturing quality closes nevertheless, successive 3 batches of goods are hit by the client, keep long in stock of kinds or types of goods, capital have enough to meet need does not come over, the company goes broke.
That friend that in former days the uncle trusts extremely, became the executioner that pushs him to abyss.
The uncle mortgaged oneself house property and car, sold off appliance, sent salary to the worker.
He penniless, spent again full lustrum just is gotten with stage a comeback, its center acerbity unknown.
Hear of later, that coils money runnings of the road, in again " bunco " in be caught wearing, evidential authentic, be chained and thrown into prison.
Father ever said:
"The person does not stand without the letter, course of study is not promoted without the letter, the country declines without the letter. The country declines without the letter..One individual if breaks his promise at the person, it is those who lost cultivate one's morality to establish a lot is essential, those who lost a career is essential, can be punished eventually.
Do not want prodigal others to trust to yours forever, need a person with goodness and sincerity, ability can go further.
" iron and steel is how refine becomes " in have a famous remark:
"Such should spending of the lifetime of a person: When past of his turn one's head when, he won't because waste time and compunction, also won't because incompetent and ashamed. . . . . . ..Protect the body that cures you, had managed your money, be kind to the accredit of other, so where won't your life differ surely.
Body strong put oneself in another's position is strong, there is money in the hand, there is a friend beside, organic meeting laughs finally.
