Pure Brightness grows a holiday, is what everybody passes happy? The friend circle of flourish Mom sends barbecue picnic fly a kite, admire the beauty of flowers cate smooth ave, and the picture wind of my home, a bit different however. We bring up flourish goes to those who played a real swords and spears-the real thing striking discharge a contest.
The word says, li Darong will begin to drill wrestle knocks down October from last year now, already much time of half an year. Say with me when the coach, when they combine the other gate inn of the club to want to hold this activity, my the first reaction is me domestic big Rongcai drilled so short, did not go. But the coach still hopes I encourage great glory, although can not win certainly, but should letting the child stand on boxing stage what to experience is pair of real battle, all previous drills also is good.
What I feel the coach says is right also, make old scene quite good below his experience, be being participated in again. Then we agitate is worn Li Darong takes part in the match. Just meet boy last week actual combat when, firm him most those who fear is small broke up by force to put down (probable it is to be breathed out by good luck, small be being returned by force is fiercer than him) , be in self-confident heart to explode the phase of canopy, not how laborious, he agreed.
This is foolish the child, knowing iron basket is surpassed of course can not be them at ordinary times the sort of dozens small small smallness actual combat, the hole son in fokelore is me. Flourish pa came back to know this thing in the evening, dish pounds to say at the same time in past bowl at the same time: "Li Darong still calculated, in case arrange to him fierce how to do? In case arrange to him small how to do by force? " I am very relaxed still at that time say: "Family coach said, be the platoon according to the age, height, weight, small following Li Darong by force is not a level. Small following Li Darong by force is not a level..
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This time arrived at a draught the match that day.
In the morning at 9 o'clock, small fist hand people rally ends. Strike there is the Five-Star Red Flag on the wall of field, as if saying " the boy is strong a China is strong. As if saying " the boy is strong a China is strong..
Arrived the spot, we just discover, I am strapped go, this person is really much, at least has 559 children. Greatly small uneven, 5 small years old, several big years old 10, very grand, still have better girl among them.
The teacher begins check collection, from left to right be most bud height diagonal.
Great glory is in strike the house just opened business last year, so the age compares great master generally small, without big child, altogether signed up 4, the leftest and highest is captain, be exercise farthest, range estimation must have fist of two years age, those who hit is first-rate, also got the champion of their group later. The 2nd is Ling Darong become terror-stricken at the news is small strong, 6 years old, boxing age 8 months, the 3rd is Li Darong the 4th is Li Jiagao, 5 years old of fist age 6 months.
I swept the child of other club roughly, feel uncertain begins in the heart, feel great glory they are chopped probably namely the level that melon cuts course.
Check collection ends, the coach begins to tell about competition regulation to boxing hand, the character of actual strength brim of my home, the edge that takes in the team goes unmindful dig or dig out with a finger or sth pointed is worn nose ox, at the moment the match that what he may have not realized he will is faced with is what cruelty.
It is collective says to weigh next, since be the recomposition that press body, so weight is about the same probable the adversary that is great glory. Flourish pa is looked at at the same time say to weigh, at the same time expressional dignified. He says with me later: "Watch crus muscle of the family, you know the training rate of some children and range follow your son is not a class waiting for a quantity. " this word is to say again actually, your home Li Darong is inside these children, it is a weak chicken.
Of great glory weigh returning field, a bit more martial Pose is placed when the coach yields the level on everybody... haw, my home cotton covers Li Darong is a bit Wang Zhe's imposing manner is done not have really if really.
Say to end again, the coach begins to divide diamonds and La Fang, allocate diamonds sit inside red line, darongdi round it is square. The look that saw other child my this heart ah begin correct to rise, the prayer of continuously is big the group of flourish had better not be some of novice.
Turn the head sees Li Darong appear nervous not at all, play on cushion extremely. PS: What be together with great glory scuffle is Darongping the constellation that always often encounters in actual combat enemy -- small strong!
The match began, great glory is the 5th match, when other little girl begins the race, he begins warm up.
One bureau 3 minutes, altogether makes 2 innings, be about very quickly to was turn for Li Darong to enter the court, I go up to great glory belt protect, flourish pa begins to do the guidance before contest to great glory. The hand that my Mom says she is nervous is cool... I at the same time jest she, at the same time, cough cough, the hand sweat that brushs oneself... pa of my home flourish, dignified of whole journey expression, or else is former days what do not rely on chart is funny compare a young person.
Was about to enter the court, the coach is covered to great glory fist on tangle on red adhesive plaster, represent diamonds.
Stretch tight closely all over in us waiting to see Li Darong to battle when, be informed adversary abstained suddenly, bye of Li Darong epicycle, enter below one round directly.
The coach's contest is being written awesomely on the watch " Li Lin's bye " . Do not hide the truth from you to say, I am as if relieved of a heavy load, I can't help plainting: Li Darong, you can be dog excrement carry really.
Great glory need not be hit temporarily here, his good friend Li Jiagao just issued across boxing stage, nature is to be defeated. Li Jiagao kept disaffected tear, ferocious clamour is worn " I beat dead him certainly in the future! " go comforting before great glory, still give the cheese cookies that went loving to eat most to him. Li Jiagao is in whats do not want grouch, great glory is attentive still pack open hello break feed him.
Otherwise says, the friendship with best the world, it is a comrade-in-arms. We encourage children to undertake athletics moves, original intention often is not for what achievement improves the health however, but athletic sports glamour, often depend on a person, depend on feeling, the person that trains together competes to give aid to each other each other, it is very delicate, but it is the friendship that differs with average fellow student however.
The first round of Li Darong that need not hit, nature is to get at leisure, attendant edge begins to watch fight. Jump over the match from the back, the age and heavyweight are bigger, those who hit is more intense. And I look more, fear more, ceaseless head is filling Li Darong is attendant the appearance that goes up to be beaten...
This is the video that fact of flourish Mom spot sends, you looked to know, even if is small P child of a few years old, the station is attendant go up of metropolis real swords and spears-the real thing desperately. Do not come to what the child that I I am true miss to be less than 78 years old can hit unexpectedly so well, the freely that all sorts of fists and leg ability can apply.
I look at the back of the Li Darong that watchs fight, begin to worry more and more. Return originally very rejoice Li Darong bye, I feel however now is extreme joy begets sorrow. Of the 2nd round of promotion, it is fierce boxing hand, li Darong level of this dish bird, be to go up by the rhythm of KO?
I do not know Li Darong saw the look of others shadow boxing, make in the heart why impressions, but want him not to say with me only " I did not play mother " , I can encourage him to try all the time for certain. The person always can encounter the situation with fiercer than oneself others, all athletics projects are such, dare not face rival, what is experienced also bad.
The child's state of mind, it is good to often compare adult, looked so much after the match of fierce eldest brother elder brother, I laugh not to come out, great glory still can laugh to fight noisely with grandmother however, chasing after with teammate run, pay no attention to oneself to have the competition next right-down, want to save physical strength.
Nooning half hour, the 2nd round begin contest, great glory is the 3rd group, flourish pa begins to follow the 2nd warm up of great glory.
Warm up was over, li Darong plays with other little girl actually again... the whole world is in the match that is him is afraid, like asing if to only he himself is paid no attention to.
I am in coach there understanding arrives, the boxing hand of a promotion is a little boy of 7 years old, although height weight is about the same, but boxing age is afraid so that have 9 years. I also watched the first round of his game, to battle is the son of a coach, what two people hit is first-rate, final he was gotten the better of. I pray at that time, in group when must not follow him a group, the result still follows him really a group...
I still am in before rejoice, be in a group impossibly with small strong fraction, instead feels to still be inferior to following small swipe now, I am " really sweet mom " this sweet.
Face before entering the court, the coach takes Li Darong to drill again designedly movement. Right now, we are early do not expect Li Darong can win, hope he can resemble only small strong same, support match end, be not hit miserable became.
The coach also says, when seeing, they can make stop at any time... the implication of this word is... you understand, adversary follows the person that he is not a level.
Face before entering the court, flourish pa did the guidance before contest again. Hey, the heart of old father, be afraid also was to mention voice key point right now... after all he is the realises Li Darong may be no good person that has regained consciousness when we are blind and self-confident...
As to the process of the match, it is Li Darong is without for certain ward off blows the force of strike back, here with respect to skip over. Final result discloses below, li Darong was not hit enough the first bureau ends the contest, crying end.
After contest, the Li Darong that little elder brother will come express sympathy and solicitude for be hit to cry, still embraced him.
This may be sports spirit, we are adversary on competition ground, the means that respects you is exert main, after contest, we are new friends, the courage that you dare come to my admire on the station.
I think, this may be the reason that the coach knew perfectly well children not to win to also encourage everybody to participate in, the person with know what about the same age hits however to so much follows him so nice exists, li Darong just can jump out the bottom of a well of be pleased with oneself.
The match of great glory ends in the carelessly in fluster, I do not know how to many there is in his tear is grievance, how many having is scared, still adulterated to ache probably, but I care far from, I what did not hit nosebleed what already very satisfactory.
Originally we should come home, ke Darong says he wants to continue to watch the game. The shock that we think Darongke can give him because of the match is too deep, have bit of cannot recover after a setback, want Jing Yijing inspect and learn each other's work the match of elder brother brother.
But actual be...
Did not see much meeting, he is running to play together with other little girl. The child's world but really difficult, they do not have lost discreditable feeling it seems that, smoke more easily than our adult from inside unsuccessful compunction from come out.
Flourish pa sees state he is life having a place, because he feels Li Darong does not have bureau gas, be hit to cry suspensive match, how to meditate well oneself follow it doesn't matter play like the person. Flourish father says: "I tell Li Darong you, the what that does not listen to grandma of your Mom grandfather to say is defeated it is important to win. Any sports project, be defeated it is very important of course to win. All matches, it is to win, only you want to win, ability becomes the motive force that becomes strong, it is to be defeated all one's life otherwise. What these little elder brothers hit is good, because they train assiduously at ordinary times,be, use these mastery of a skill or technique neatly in the ability on competition ground so. Use these mastery of a skill or technique neatly in the ability on competition ground so..
What flourish father says is right, I also am agreed with, but look in me, however exceedingly of it doesn't matter is angry.
Ashamed feeling builds the longing that wins at be opposite, if the child wants to win very much, an idea should be taken the first, nature of play away match will be very sad, but Li Darong presses a root to did not feel he can win, saw so much field, he is early to the difference of own actual strength already the heart knows abdomen bright, he knows he does not win.
Young strong mother says with me, small strong the first word after coming down is: "Mom, I won or was defeated " , her mom said to be defeated, he asks: "Can then I buy a toy? " it is same actually, children win to be defeated actually and concept of it doesn't matter, even the mood of sad sadness is done not have, they more think this finishs the task to look for Le Zi next rapidly only.
I want to try this originally refine treats as is setback education, rangdarong sees his limit, continue hard. But actually, the purpose was not achieved at all. The reaction of great glory makes me clear, child of 5 years old, especially boy, intelligence did not leave, it is different that the child follows adult thinking pattern. The truth of those of course that you think, the child presses a root probably however Get is less than.
Swiss psychologist Pi Yajie ever used experience to prove, the 2 children that come 7 years old cannot understand conservation concept. Reveal two to fill to these children have wide glass of liquid waiting for a quantity, next among them a cup of liquid takes a long and thin glass. These children can think consistently: The liquid of long and thin cup becomes much.
Children can need the world with look selfishly only, they still cannot imagine a thing from the angle of others. Look in me the setback education that this match is not a success.
Be defeated is true, but the setback is false, we hope he can pass this work, know the brave after shame, train hard, look in him, probable just 7 years old of inequitable battle to 5 years old just, do not calculate what setback completely, natural also it doesn't matter is very ashamed, playing big nevertheless elder brother after all is very normal thing ~
Jade of bright and beautiful garment feeds present child, always feel they are too happy, experience a setback rarely, must get then will nod setback education, criticize severely the child obviously for instance, those who do is very good also do not praise, ask he does him this age paragraph the very inaccessible thing, reason that understands adult ability... these look in me is grow upping are self-righteous from hey just, the child does not understand at all, do not need probably also.
But this match still very significant, what is because experience went to his Rangdarong," actual inequity " .
Great later glory has asked me a question: "Mom, why does the elder brother that the coach wants to arrange 7 years old to me fight each other? " implication says, we the actual strength of two comparatives far from, why even am I hit?
I say: "Li Darong, you should understand, on true boxing stage, so much without the person well_matched adversary, be defeated only here win, pay no attention to the age, also not ask you drilled how long. Those who was defeated to drill namely is insufficient. No matter be to strike returning is football or other what athletic sports, it is the game of overmatch actually, you are strong you just have fairness. You are strong you just have fairness..
Small boxing stage, also be life, in real life same also, our at every turn can encounter opposite fairness very pretty good, what do have to measure the fairness with custom-built body. Duty field is the brutallest example, boss often sees a result only, not ask you have experience, qualifications and record of service, had done, the look does not get you to discuss those objective matters, do bad to boil.
No matter be life, still be boxing stage, it is same actually. Our adversary is met every time different, we can place the hope go up in body of the other side, not so much not battle and get the better of, also do not seek the person that all sorts of objective considerations will come obtain ego to comfort formidably because of the other side at the same time, real conference gives you unsuccessful a bitter pill to swallow.
Be defeated to be accepted, go next him burnish, strive for win next time come back. It is better to do oneself, it is overmatch. Want to go presumably, this match, of education is the child not merely, also we Your Excellency. Those who write down, encourage.
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