The person does not have perfect man, mom is impossible that all things are done correctly. Some mom the face to safeguard oneself, err finishs sth place a frame intentionally still not to acknowledge a mistake to the child, perhaps look for a reason to be him absolve. This is not advisability really lift. If mom always is his mistake " provide cover for " , do not agree to admit oneself error to the child, so the child can be formed " although mom is right it seems that, but often err actually " view. As time passes, the point of view that the child offers to mom and requirement also can generate doubt, take seriously no longer even. So the mother that lost conviction, when having education to the child again later, also become extremely difficult.
In fact, mom is brave in to admit after erring before the child and apologize timelily to the child, won't lose outer part not only, instead can the respect that Zuo gets a child and accredit. Because the child can remember how mother serves oneself defect bravely, this kind of courage and the words and deeds that can encourage a child to be brave in to be his bluntly are responsible, accomplish know a fault to be able to change. So, is mom apologizing to the child from time to tome what place is notable?
1. apology wants direct. wrong crop failure of seasonable, direct tunnel that becomes a child with respect to this, dilatory, fumble, talk in a roundabout way is no good. Some mom choose the way with correspondence, or it is to let the child's father help send word to will express regret, these are very difficult obtain a child approbate. Because this kind of means can let a child feel the apology comes too behindhand, lack sincerity too, have good educational effect very hard also naturally. But if the child can experience mom straightforward not the apology of be affectedly bashful, the child experts very easily also in the future to admit his mistake just greatly.
2. apology wants sincerity. The apology is not to say only sentence " I am sorry " with respect to everything is just fine, mom must let a child experience his sincerity, want to let a child experience the mood that remorses to the apology after he errs. The reason that mom errs to child him explain, by the heart hair ground apologizes to the child, just can harvest a child forgive.
