Hit in on-the-job field go all out, because certain person is good at intercourse perhaps saying to be good at carefully watch what sb is doing and saying, and be in day-to-day work also made certain outstanding achievement, often obtain the leader's credit the most easily in this moment, what concern the most easily also with the leader is close, but fall in this kind of circumstance, scarcely should think and lead relation spy iron, the result is toxic too deep, make oneself produce a few kinds of following deadly state of mind thereby.
[1] the leader should let east, absolutely not to on the west.
When the comparison that when the comparison of you and lead concern office iron perhaps walks along is close, be good to leading the maintenance of 100% and esteem, but forgetting duty field is a yard place, not be the place that mentions personal friendship completely, if say you perhaps did not think of among them interests carelessly, as a result the leader lets you go to east, you absolutely not westerly, once the leader's instruction appeared,the problem perhaps appears mistake, finally not only the leader suffers punishment, reckon you also can sit repeatedly accordingly. For this, no matter you and lead concern are in so that have how close, below the circumstance of 100% obedience, must look before you leap.
[2] depend on leader likes, licentious not convergent.
The comparison that once be in with the leader,the observation in real work discovers certain colleague is close, or concern of lead of compose a quarrel is done so that compare iron, can wanton in day-to-day work normally, perhaps say to talk and work irrelevant, and still like be before the colleague bully people by flaunting one's powerful connections, think to the leader is in oneself back up, the result is in the process that gets along with the colleague daily, it is licentious completely, and do not know convergence, the uses a lead jubilation that this kind of behavior is a model and favorite, going up to leader face bring shame on, this kind of person does not have an accident to stop, once have an accident to also often do not overspread even oneself leader, to at that time, even if you and lead concern again iron leader also can wipe away tears behead Ma Su.
[3] avowed be on speaking terms, the leader became wrong carry directly.
When you hit in on-the-job field when going all out, what if mix,lead concern is in is first-rate, it is very advantageous absolutely to your duty field career so, but you are sure to keep in mind to be able to be not used and head a concern close good perhaps, with respect to forget oneself, lead especially when problem or mistake appearing in working, and you disregard the error that reachs a circumstance to offer a guidance directly, do not give a leader completely outer part, this kind of your behavior and means, besides the affection that proves you business is small, the concern that also meets you and a none polite leader at the same time is torn off thoroughly, so, no matter you and lead concern are true iron or false iron, when mistake or error appearing in working when the leader, must learn to see a circumstance talk, or you are in what give you and lead the relation plunges into thorn.
Conclusion: The ability that relies on oneself in the job when you and method are built when comparing close relationship with the leader, must learn sufficient assurance and use this kind of relationship, is not to think what concern with the leader is closer, toxic bring about him forget oneself finally too greatly, to at that time not only destroyed oneself, return meeting put an end to badly your professional career in this enterprise.