Civil | Childe ease
I am very good all the time strange, the man is in the condition before the divorce, because compared with the woman, bear and they are exercising restraint before the divorce mostly.
It is some men even, divorce around, without giving thought to wife how to cry be troubled by, loath to part from each other, he have not has dropped a tear.
So, I interviewed me beside the man of 10 divorces, some are the kin in the home, some are classmates, still having a few is elder. I look for a few divorce men that can tell the truth with me as far as possible, what will assure their idea with this is true.
01 elder, marry 30 years, because feeling of husband and wife is on bad terms, be divorced.
"I feel to somebody affirms outside her. Day live well is otherwise good why should divorce. The child is so big, I want not to understand why she divorces really. She is outside somebody. Of good end of that's all right of this kind of woman. Of good end of that's all right of this kind of woman..
02 elder, marry 26 years, divorce after child the university entrance exam.
"Anyway the child also is raised to me big, from leave. Divorced I am not deficient also, house car is me, to her every bits of minute money also calculated. I return can freer drop later. I also did not plan to marry, how comfortable how to pass. How comfortable how to pass..
03 distance elder brother, marry 17 years, two children, contradiction of wife and mother divorces.
"After afraid child. One when she takes away is hated to part with. But also do not have method, I am raised do not remove two. Remain this small, who is looked at. My Mom is not willing to look for certain, had better choose fund to her, two she is looked at. Anyway I am the child his dad, everybody is changed at this o'clock. Everybody is changed at this o'clock..
04 cousins in, marry 14 years, because of the woman too the divorce that visit the home.
"Unfixed. I need not do relatives by marriage with such other people again eventually. Of course, I also feel to I am sorry a bit the child. Because she took away the child. But this also is the thing that does not have method. Later if the child comes back, should belong to the child's thing, I can give him. I can give him..
The uncle of 05 husband's family, marry 13 years, because the man betrays a family,divorce.
"I am early regretted. But take this one step also do not have method. I do not divorce, the woman outside is about to accuse me. I do not want to be imprisoned, can beg a wife to divorce with me only. Hope wife can be as good as me for the child had gotten together to come loose. Well a home was done not have, requesting this as can good as me have an easy time. Requesting this as can good as me have an easy time..
06 classmates, marry 10 years, the woman feels the man does not have skill divorce.
"I do not want to leave. Also can cross no less than going to really, the family's requirement I also short of, she wants to search better, go searching, I also did not bar. I cannot to leave her, did not want even the face. My old man also such. She has wanted to pass, had not wanted to leave. Had not wanted to leave..
07 interview an object, marry 7 years, because the woman betrays marriage,divorce.
"Lose face. Feel really too lost face. My this all one's life also is not married again namely on daughter-in-law, also do not want her. The face of our family is lost by her. The child, money, what does she want. She does not allow my have an easy time, he also cannot think of where feel well goes. This kind of woman does not have good end. This kind of woman does not have good end..
A 08 kin in the home, marry 5 years, because the man betrays marriage,divorce.
"Two people do not have feeling namely, wanting to divorce rapidly at that time, good marry the next. But the thing that also dare not allow her to know me, can seek bit of job to her everyday only, forcing she mentions a divorce first. How had not missed the child, that moment is not considered on the child, wanting to divorce rapidly, I am free body, also can be together aboveboard with another. Also can be together aboveboard with another..
09 classmates, marry 4 years, because a few words divorce.
"Divorce for a few words. I do not want to leave, want to procrastinating. The child is so small, divorced, who helps me look after children. Should leave also get when the child was brought up to divorce. The woman is too selfish, for him feel well, consider the child far from. Can pull how many time to pull how long, do not leave namely. Do not leave namely..
10 classmates, marry 1 year, because the problem of money divorces.
"I hold out those who hate to part with her. Although she follows me because of the thing of money every day,quarrel. But two people are sentient still. Besides, divorced, I became 2 marriage, worse to seek next homes. Still hope she can change one's views, I also can go out to earn money more after. She wants really cannot change one's views, after I also bless her, live well is nodded, had been in one case after all. Had been in one case after all..
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After covering these 10 men, my Ceng Shen considers an issue: Before the man divorces, return remnant to feminine feeling how many?
Not much really, major man is most before the divorce is in balance advantages and disadvantages, fear nobody raises the child, how does him concern pass later.
I discuss this conclusion with the friend of a few females in the circle, they said a paragraph of such word: "Balance advantages and disadvantages is before man marriage, balance advantages and disadvantages still is before the man divorces, also with respect to the woman foolish, from arrive end, talk about feeling, wanting not to love. Wanting not to love..
Although thin, but must say, when if the woman arrived,divorcing, still had better not want be swayed by one's emotions, strive for an interest more for oneself and child as far as possible.
Also ask broad men, before the divorce, pay close attention to the child's mental health can morely. There is feeling between husband and wife, can balance advantages and disadvantages, but the child is innocent, offer the child more care please.
