In the past, be in a country to marry is a big happy event, to parents, also be very glad thing. Right nowadays for many farmers, although glad also, but more returning one is plant " anxious " . Everybody should face marry, arrived especially of marriageable age 80, 90 hind people. But mention now marry, a lot of people are mirrorred, namely ruffian is increasing, this two the year's harvest are the topic that often talks.
Of course, ruffian problem just also is not in a country, also have in the city, just the country is opposite more. Know exactly about sth occupies statistic, at present the whole nation has more than 3 ten million to stem from single state. Rural marriage is difficult an ingredient that approves generally, it is betrothal gifts bring about. Do marriage to the child before, betrothal gifts also thousands of enough, also do not need to buy a room to buy a car, in the country lid house goes. Now not only betrothal gifts is expensive, 100 thousand, of 200 thousand is normal, this still does not calculate the expenditure of other side. To most farmer, lean cultivate land and work, a few years short time, it is to cannot earn the betrothal gifts money, money that buy a car to buy house fund even.
Of course, besides well-known day price betrothal gifts, difference of amount of boy girl population is prime factor. On the boy's more than the girl foundation, after still girl of a lot of countries arrives in the city, do not wish farewell country, this is farther aggravate difference of scale of rural men and women. The country has a such strange elephants now, that marries a person to had better marry the only son namely, brother's much family is taken no account of etc. Actually investigate its reason, or because of the son's much family, the economic pressure that faces later is very great. Come so, farmer family gives birth to a son with respect to this not much, enthusiasm also can be reduced. But not be however actually, the country still has a lot of families to give birth to son upsurge to be not decreased. To this some experts understand hard, old farmer said 3 reasons, very helpless.
1, the idea of burning incense of rural tradition continuance. For what previously rural family, the child is much, and the son is much also, among them a reason is passed namely ancestor receive era. Give birth to a girl after all, etc marry a person can reach mother-in-law home, the person that becomes a family. And for oneself here later somebody accedes hematic arteries and veins and belongings, still meet unripe son so. Besides, without the son, in the village the face also can be looked down on.
2, rural big environment. Although marry now difficult, betrothal gifts is expensive, but basically after youth marriage, also can want a son at least. If the first girl, still can want; The first is the son's word, the likelihood won't want the child again. Get the big environment that has a son at least in rural home, son of opposite of a lot of farmers is very enthusiastic still.
3, raise prevent old. Raise in the country prevent old, not be traditional ideas, it is thousands of years however such. After all parental age is old, the daughter also cannot be in all the time a married woman's parents' home. So, if do not have a son, oneself became old not only alone, and provide for the aged also is a thing. So, unripe son still is for later provide for the aged considers.
As a whole, although a few this years rural ruffian gathers together, farmer " want a son " upsurge is not decreased. But, more or less does the farmer also have new view to bearing an idea, e.g. unripe schoolboy Yo also can be accepted. Are to this you how look? The welcome leaves a message comment.
