"Who who who emigrated ~ " hearing such news, a lot of people just perhaps are envied in the heart, discuss rarely " emigrant " this word eye. Because they think: Emigrant, be wealthy person only " prerogative " .
Actually, this is inherent to immigrant bias only, this kind of acknowledge is not accurate. Now, immigrant is not the world of wealthy person already, of abroad of immigrant of estate of firewood of average worker worker, far get more than wealthy person much.
Emigrant, represent the life of prospective happiness.
The Everyman that does not have money to did not counterpoise also can be had.
Small today write the emigrant story that tells an Everyman, let everybody see an Everyman that does not have money to did not counterpoise, what kind of life and state of mind are after emigrant Canada.
I learn an electron, oneself are studied after graduation study computer process designing, in home unit of a state-operated is written write a program. State-operated unit, do IT to resemble heat leftover rice-say or do the same old thing, anyway with respect to us a few people are met in an unit write a program, enough lead use goes, can mix went down. I so mixed fast 10 years.
Have a year, leader and an IT engineer are impassable suddenly, mutual heat is noisy add cold war do sth over and over again a few months, the leader looks for a person to miss the work that engineer in the dark next. When the leader affirms that engineer uses value without what, called him to come home.
Although this combat I am outsider, but, I also resemble see the clever boy that kills chicken, when thinking of oneself 40 years old, face full market " 35 years old the following " enlightenment of IT staff invite applications for a job, can I still have a meal to eat?
The leader has contradiction with someone else again later, he says to me inadvertently: "Want firm namely to the person, ability was done the job! Ability was done the job!!
In my heart cooler and cooler, more and more a strong opinion appears come -- will come 10 years, oneself do not know in domestic environment where can be treated one day. Taking the advantage of young, go abroad!
After balance, dealt with Canadian technology immigrant
Oneself have a technology, but financing is not abundant, so at that time balance very long, looked for intermediary to do Canadian technology immigrant. The heart thinks, how to also want those who be oneself to remain a rout of retreat in the future no matter!
Next I left my post from state-owend enterprise unit, although midway is troubled by very unpleasantly, the unit does not wish to put a person, but be being returned finally is recapture archives, free a body. In emigrant process is being conducted later, I also do not have at a loose end, go seeking job of company of foreign capital IT again. Solely invested company of an United States, salary is very high, I am mixed so that still calculate inside relaxed. But, cross suspend payment of a company. Sent cost of thousands of yuan of demobilization, employee cried. And I, visa came down very quickly however.
That paragraph of day before going abroad, I also became the person that be very popular
That paragraph of day before going abroad, I also experienced myself to become the person that be very popular suddenly. How to say, go doing once go abroad relevant matters concerned, with respect to old aunt blocked me to ask at the door:
"Don't you still have a girlfriend? The calling card that this is my daughter "
"I had gotten married " I am blurted out.
That aunt reaction is very sharp also " oh, if you have the friend that go abroad, also introduce my daughter please. There is connection telephone call on this calling card. There is connection telephone call on this calling card..
Return the home, I tell my wife this story, also gave her calling card. Does she say " can be I thrown? " I say, "Refuse " . Wife jokingly I " are you new the telephone call that mother-in-law gives you also is be willing to part with or use thrown? " " throw " . Look at the wife that looks cold and indifferent to me at ordinary times unexpectedly also part vinegar meaning, I feel the flavor that go abroad is on wings letting a person really.
The thing that the wife encounters more let a person find both funny and annoying
She calls go community inquiry: "After I went abroad, in case should come back to settle later, can each social security still restore? Can each social security still restore??
Phone public security bureau: "I went abroad, should cancel registered permanent residence? I in case later overseas lives not be used to, should go back to the motherland resident, is registered permanent residence returned do not restore to me? Is registered permanent residence returned do not restore to me??
Is the person of the place of social security and public security bureau above all very strange ask me the wife " why do you come back even? " seemed to encounter a mysterious inquiry, encountered an impossible topic.
My wife also is asked foolish, patient still again come again problem, they just answer her question, and tell her, this kind of circumstance is less, at least themselves had not been encountered.
The wife still is not at ease abroad after all how, she calls me to go out first, find a place for come down, make she and child again next.
That paragraph of day that just went abroad
Went abroad eventually, look is not had close. Hire a room take up one's quarters, sought a plant, become automation line worker, had the income that stabilizes basically. Call wife child to come to Canada, hire somes big place again newly to be moved.
The earliest two years, the vague impression that the white-collar makes previously is in brain of brandish do not go, and it is so good that white-collar major of Canada works to be done not have again search, not be not to admit the job is experienced, encounter namely say to understand my English not. Hear it come a few years early is good to come a few years early, that moment needs IT talented person very much, again new immigrant also won't be cold-shouldered understand his English not.
I pound a table depressedly constantly, wanting to come over a few years not early why, when is feeling to do blue collar so build. But I also know I do not want to in returning the sort of domestic environment again, go. Because I am in what domestic place worries, had wanted to be clear about when preparation goes abroad.
During this, a Chinese of Canadian asks my amateur to do a subentry for him, cooperate with another Chinese doctor. Also chinese mainland comes to that doctor, very old book was read in Canada, sought job of an IT company later, before one just is cut into parts. I think, although be blue collar,I work this now, but be cut into parts not quite easily, the stable life of my family needs it.
Of course, I think the likelihood also is to contain ego to comfort composition so, because I am original,had not found a white-collar to work. such, I am measuring reality ceaselessly, recognize I the meaning that this blue collar works.
My Mom calls to me come, ask about me whether the wife works. I and wife decide, I work, she looks after children in the home. If she goes working, the child has to go Daycare. Calculate will calculate, besides should pay tax more beyond, those who be like her to work is very big one share cash gives even Daycare. Also do not know such calculating accurate.
And I have a self additionally. Because I am dad Mom husband and wife both at work in one's childhood, a key always is hanged on my neck, classes are over come back to reach neighbour home (my Mom gives money to be in me after school this paragraph of time holds them in the palm the home) , neighbour does not care very much to me. So I always hope the childhood of own child gets sufficient mother love. So I persuade a wife to accompany the child in the home.
Come down a few years, was used to gradually in Canada. Child defend together, it is very warm actually, get along very easily. And I rose machine operator gradually in this factory, salary also had promotion.
Of Canada is a cup of green tea very
Gradually, what I also savour a Canada is good come. Canada is like is a cup of green tea, suffering also is sufferred from not the dead. Want what the heart makes the same score to get along only, can know honest person is not in an unfavorable situation, can return a light Gan Tian slowly.
When the likelihood just came from home, seem be used to eats in individual mouth a lot of kinds of thick taste, be planted suddenly by this delicate frighten jump, because a lot of issues do not happen according to original thinking means, also do not explain its meaning according to original thinking means.
For instance, in home, think everybody wants to spell suffering painstakingly to fight do elite to exchange some kind of life to ensure, but accept hard namely work 8 hours everyday in Canada, the common Labor that works 5 days every week is versed in, a person can come true this kind of life ensures the family.
In home, think female also should be in all sorts of certificate classes and company to go all out ceaselessly dozen, just go. Be in Canada, female can do only however housewife. In home, think the child wants to not be defeated to just go on the scratch line everywhere. Be in Canada, the child is so not nervous, all the same the future is bright.
That is to say, home makes arduous efforts the day that makes elite and abroad cross wife child to heat up the warmer end of kang, final also be to achieve same a target: Family everybody lives have safeguard.
Canadian environment is good, need not worry about a flu of domestic, the child has a fever 40 degrees, at dead of night runs the hospital hits penicillin, child of adult do sth over and over again bears hardships. At least, child overseas has a fever the frequency is gotten lesser than home much (just catch up with) two years, and the force with which sth breaks out also is done not have so feral, basic agent of a few allay a fever solves a problem.
The child goes to school very happy, also do not spend money. Afforest is good, need not buy entrance ticket, be equal to is a park everywhere. by this at 2 o'clock, so the child does not love to be troubled by myopia to also do not love to cough. Child outdoors is communal greenbelt runs, I looked to feel very good. The wife looks after children in the home, say according to her, the teacher does not scold the parent, achievement and corporeal life also do not vie between the child and parent.
See a disease also need not worry about economic problem too, need not resemble be like home: Fathomming this disease our unit belongs to that medicine to be not belonged to submit an expense account limits, to submit an expense account how many, really ill afflictive still weather one hit a phone to give an unit tomorrow morning in the evening, it is clear to ask go seeing a doctor again. Additional, after coming to Canada, affection is a lot of less also.
My overseas works a few years, assemble some of money, but oneself do not have what money really because of home, still be not very cans afford a house so. One gnash one's teeth sold country's only house, money takes happen by chance, careless buys a petty gain to get boarding house, also be the house that there were oneself in Canada.
Go back to the motherland not quite. Telling the truth also is to save defray. Ask dad Mom to come explore is close occasionally, they also often are two frank cling to the worker that pay worked all one's life, go abroad without what opportunity. After they came, the child has old person area, at the same time the wife vacates clean to hit a PART TIME to subsidize family expenses.
We also take dad Mom to travel everywhere without time energy money, take them to go on the weekend this city a few tourist attractions go, shop at ordinary times moment takes them to shop together. More moment is at ordinary times we go to work they look after children, receive send big child to learn up and down, taking small child to arrive around community amuse oneself, chat with parent of a few Chinese. In their eye, getting along with grandchildren is soulful very big contented. Dad Mom comes Guo Zaiyue's parents comes, by turns, everybody is fair.
Emigrant instead became another kind to use up filial piety
Respecting old person remembers with concern we, the old person says, can miss occasionally. But we are in home when, they are constant be nervous our working competition is intense, or the unit is human the case is complex, the job is bad to protect. Listening to kin between who who doesn't have the job, the job of the child that thinks of oneself can long. Now, be opposite at least I do not have concern this. And they did not worry about even grandbaby. Not afraid to the education expenses of grandbaby, and to will coming their life safeguard also does not worry.
The word that takes my Mom says: Capable to be an upright person with struggle go up person, also not be afraid of without ability starved to death, have a state (Canadian welfare) protecting them. These children also did not give dad Mom the pressure of provide for the aged, your provide for the aged is a country (welfare) wrapped. To your family, I was at ease 100 times just about really.
Did not think of to be to care us so at ordinary times before dad Mom live problem, just know we let them now 100 are at ease. Feel this also is the means that exhausts filial piety to dad Mom unexpectedly temporarily: Let them need not worry for our home.
Really, canada is very doleful, come compared with China, canadian mouth is exiguous. Walk out of the door to did not see a few people, also do not have what but of libertinism. But, in home, I and wife also are the unit in busy home of 2.1 line, without the habit that goes to public place of entertainment. In home, want to shop, basic it is to needed to use ability to buy, go a few quality assure, the inn of price material benefit. Go out to shop, most also it is Eye-shopping, a few money in bag never are drawn out easily buy luxury.
Ask a wife occasionally, do not suffer from with my suffering going abroad, she feels however compared with in home she is versed in feel embarrassed searchs, find the job to work so hard again, can become in the home unexpectedly now housewife, or although now and then hit a PART TIME to search easily also, still need not let work overtime to work overtime to often still love to bilk overtime to come like home, good how much to know.
So, to us this simple minded cling to hand in, the person that has no right not to have money is belonged in home for, coming to Canada is easy at long last tone, need not gingerly to live.
