[seek advice] hello chestnut elder sister, I marry fast do not have a child 4 years all the time, I had taken operating-table examination operation 4 times after marriage, I had taken a lot of Chinese traditional medicine very a lot of more, intestines and stomach drinks Chinese traditional medicine to give an issue, we each other have a few problems, my problem is he is caused, the department of gynaecology that brings about me is ill, the doctor calls him not to drink, just began him to hold to he lies between a day to drink alcohol now, I say to communicate with him well, he says to do not have the child to calculate previously with respect to me two over- , but I cannot selfish because he is a singleton,I should be his family consider, held to a few months not to drink, he drank this week 4 times wine, I erupted really today I was overcome, I feel my hold to no point, we quarrel I begged him to put me, time is fleet I do not think me many years old 30 still do not have a child to be recuperated again, I am a woman I do not think I hold to finally with respect to remnant loneliness one person, I make him pitiful have pity on me, I with respect to remnant little youth my cost does not rise, he said a word makes I did not insist to go down, I am pondering over despair I arrive marry after all for what, be love? Myself feels confused now, again I waited for the toilet 1 many hours cried eye of a many hour became swollen, he breathes out however breathe out to sleep greatly, I am very tired really I want to leave this, I am afraid that the family member fears I am afraid that my pa Mom is bad to do, I want to escape Yue Yuanyue is good, I cannot be done so now, it is difficult that when marrying, my Mom tells me husband and wife quarrelled to go out to take the door easily, I 3 hours go today, I plan to stay one night in the toilet today I want to let my want to think well, make a decision tomorrow morning.
[chestnut elder sister is commented on] your husband wants the child not urgently to pass ancestor receive era, you arrive is progenitive cancer terminal, desperately operation, take medicine to give birth to a child to give him family? Do you think your husband does not drink to you can be delivered of the child? Do you think you try hard to hold to can 30 years old before conceive a child? If you are sentient to Laogong, the thing of unripe child arranges its nature. If you think unripe child is more important, look for a man that can allow you be pregnant with respect to the divorce on the horse.
[seek advice] chestnut elder sister is good! I this year 29, female, there is a steady job in small town, appearance height is average, the word is not much, kiss a few times too, it is people look do not go up I, be rejected. Although such, I also promote myself in effort. Have 9 when be willing, feeling each side is poorer than me, do not be willing put up with, more be afraid of is others put up with I. Met a man student of adjoining county now, bigger than me two years old, chat each respect comes with what I chat, he says he does not take a fancy to appearance, basically see character, also care very much to me, I feel is the type that I am willing to marry, he says him or be in male, do not be willing female of optional associate with so odd all the time. But I have government service to work in small town, parental person is beside, he works in Shenzhen wage is average, have a few deposit without the car without the room, not random beautiful money does not smoke not to drink. If I think house car to be willing to work hard, be sooner or later problem. But I do not know I answer to should be not loved with his different ground, different ground marriage. If talk, work hard quite for certain, age became old also cost does not rise. If do not talk, I am afraid of do not encounter on such schoolboy. Since 3 months, get along still calculate happy. So, I want to ask chestnut elder sister to serve as outsider, help me be analysed.
[chestnut elder sister is commented on] you did not find suitable man all the time in small town, main reason is your accurate to him neither one judgement. Those you like but do not look to go up your man, it is your make friends with a man of higher position do not go up. Those look to go up you, the male talented person that you do not see go up again is to mix you are suitable. If you do not agree to lower a requirement, be afraid of only should be in small town alone eventually old. Anyhow, like you business does not suit such disposition and situation different ground is loved and different ground marriage.
[seek advice] marital family kisses subproblem, the age is 28 years old, oneself have 2 years old of many sons, when marrying with former husband, appeared a lot of problems, because of him body not beautiful, after marrying, he is mixed to my parents I always am one pair we have seek the perception at him, whats are paid, even if is occupied had discussed with him, still say oneself are subdued later, hit me ceaselessly, not courteous to my parents, also not be very good to me, my Mom later foment dissension. There is the child later, he is cold to me when be pregnant force and put under house arrest a few times, say me all sorts of bad, I am overcome really, divorced with him. My meaning is, the child has asthma, after following me, education develops it may not be a bad idea, the child follows me, what doesn't he give alimony, I am early clear, since do not have method to pass,think namely, that is good had gotten together to come loose, each other is not disturbed. But the child is a bit bigger, he often should see the child, what responsibility is endless. I am very vexed also, him parents does not want to see such person, I understand, he and child how, I can how, I am very irritated also, the child admits namely at most hapless. But all sorts of requirement both sides when I marry let me say with the other side, I forever or suffers splint to enrage or to be become the gun makes. I am overcome really, a person looks after children very tired, but the child gave him to forfeit really future. Giving is not every day be mixed to sneer at to carry all sorts of black boiler on the back even by parental inhospitality. Or sees that person from time to time. I am being carried even, too tired, died repeatedly wrong, can be said irresponsible mom, not dead, more painful than dying
[chestnut elder sister is commented on] since be you at the outset,the requirement divorces, always not be your Mom quite foment dissension, adult should learn to bear the blame for his doing, just won't blame a weather by person, strange destiny unjust. If former husband pays alimony to let him see the child normally, do not pay do not let him look. Even obligation what qualification does never-failing man have to see the child? Parents is not willing to see him, you look after children to send to him, letting him less appear before your parents is not tickler.
[chestnut elder sister is commented on] when you talk about love, your husband with respect to summation a few have an affair with femaly, was solved several by you, has he still hit you because of this kind of thing? With respect to such man you also are married, showing you is a thief bold ah! Since there is brave to fight before your marriage small the experience of 3 and boldness, not be afraid of after marriage is to fight the aunt that aged color declines to still fight youth beautiful beautiful girl, you become lifelong fighter with hitting shrewmouse, anyway your husband is individual form Tai Di.
[seek advice] chestnut elder sister hello; Write a letter to appeal solid belong to but. Myself does not go to give odd group. Thank you first in this!
Bilateral and fundamental condition reachs the age: I follow husband 39 years old this year is green plum a bamboo stick used as a toy horse loves to marry from Tan Lian appear already fast 25 years. After the university graduates, we married at present my job that two have him, it is the young officer of own unit, have a lovely daughter this year 10 years old. I think my marriage is very happy oneself my sweetheart is very faithful. Stronger husband is opposite my disposition almost I am docile and obedient at ordinary times I have what thing to like to say with him, he is not talktive but it is the sort of man that has wisdom very much. The thing in the home is I am managed commonly, small bathe to arrive greatly to him buy a house but I can ask him the opinion, he says to still listen to you all right commonly, it is the sort of person that does not love to worry about. He is very clever, what to play perfectness what, he likes idle beyond time to play game.
Appeal content: Do I want to appeal chestnut elder sister I how faster go? How to make my husband right my be dead set? I am had necessary talk again with the other side, after I am wanting to clear up essence, I will be more recipient. How can let me do not have this stalk, I am too painful, I all the time him hold back is worn I dare be not carried with husband, I know to if pester,be in on a thing too long, again good feeling also meets me weak love my husband, I want to love this to had been managed with this home! So I dare not pour out with husband, I am afraid of the nerve that touchs him again, but my hold back is in the heart honest anguish, can appeal only so chestnut elder sister!
[chestnut elder sister is commented on] your husband and a woman have abnormal concern 3 years, you do not have discovery, this shows you not only compare at ordinary times strong and careless, it is so good that the feeling between husband and wife does not have what you describe more. The evening of discovery does not trust on behalf of you he can explain you care husband not quite only. He also explains to you also your step fell, do not nag these issues again. Want to do not have a thing to often check his mobile phone only, look have resurgence can.
