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To most and middleaged woman, the divorce is not their open-armed choice, they just want to pass a divorce this thing, let the man wakes up to reality from which and repentant, cherish well. The person is sentient, how to say again, that also is the home that her hardship runs a few years, which can say to abandon.
But some people, it is so ruthless, a bit is disregarded reach mutual affection of husband and wife, strike oneself wife violently, it is however before another woman, install the small sheep of a simple kindness.
A man can do least of all, start work namely dozen of woman, play oneself wife. It is again difficult to consider a day again bitter, the woman also can hold on with you, once you start work,hit her, her heart is cool also. Between husband and wife, make a noise more unfamiliar more, hit chiller more, give only feeling finally did not have, also answer again did not go.
Wu Qin sees the friend of former husband is encircled, the new girlfriend that he is taking himself goes shopping buy the clothes, immediately completely of the five flavors in the heart, say what do not come out is sad. Oneself follow former husband marriage nearly 30 years, from will had not enjoyed such treatment, even if he is him for company only,ramble supermarket.
Either the job is busy, do not have that heart at all however, even if have a bit time, also wanting to go out to have a meal only drink dozen of mahjong. Accordingly, also stopped last hope in Wu Qin heart, originally she still is wanting to resume marriage really, arrived after all this age, had wanted to choose smooth and steady time only.
02
The divorce is Wu Qin forces have to choice, the reason is former husband home cruel, the most serious, namely for the last time, it is difficult to walk repeatedly, the silt that goes up as to the body is green, it is without number more. Wu Qin says, family man is grow as the age, more and more mature, more and more sedate, can be his growth as the age, more and more eccentric.
Have a bit improper, right your be furious, a bit is inferior to meaning, strike you violently, is that where to get along? Each days get be nervous too, step forward dimension difficult.
For this, children also is troubled by deadlocked with former husband directly, do not be willing one year to go back visit. But former husband cares far from, before half an year, knew present girlfriend, the half alive that loves next, had not married, just met half an year, begin to hand in oneself salary by the month.
Kin persuades him, say Wu Qin is softhearted, want you to acknowledge a mistake in earnest only, she can excuse you for certain, your present girlfriend, will cheat your money namely, otherwise can every day so does extravagant spend your money?
Former husband denies readily, either, she wants to get along with me sincerely. You look I took her to come home that day, I cannot think of, she did not cold-shoulder me, help me clear away a house, clean sanitation, still help me wash briefs to wash a sock. The tear that I touch at that time is in eye socket, how may she cheat my money?
This word is passed in Wu Qin's ear, former husband is tear only in the revolve in eye socket, dan Wuqin's tear cannot help however the ground flowed.
03
"Mutual affection of husband and wife, 30 years do everything, result not as good as the woman that he meets half an year. " saying, wu Qin's tear more couldn't help. Be! Just wash the dress to you, clean a room, you are no good with respect to what touch, and that washed 30 years of dresses to you, cleaned the woman of 30 years of rooms, were you touched again?
Ability discovery, person and person still are different after all, know to have difference, but never also think difference is so big. Wu Qin says him to do everything, not exaggerative.
So old, oneself resemble a baby-sitter same, turn all round round he and family, child everyday. My woman is carried have that home, how much to pay, he once touch?
Still have, oneself are hated to part with eat, hate to part with wear, the family does not know to touch, the result takes a family to ramble now brand shop, buy famous brand, the eye also does not blink very happy still look. Be together with oneself, did not mix flexibly not satisfactory wanton to oneself abreact, be come to namely by what that woman breathes out however now of brandish go namely, impatient without also.
The person compares a person, gas the dead. Once girlfriend and former husband are troubled by part company, former husband is sad arrive in the fast in the home. Should think of here, feel oneself 30 years that pay and sacrifice, wasted for nothing really. Mutual affection of husband and wife how? Is finally also not as good as does an ability know the girlfriend of half an year?
Even, not hesitate for that woman, be troubled by break with with his one's own children.
04
Remember a conte, a child and mother quarrelled to run away from home, abdomen became hungry do not have a meal to eat, as a result boss of inn of a face sent him a bowl of face, he said a thank at once. Next face inn boss asks him, your mother was done to you so many meal, did you say to thank with her again?
After the divorce, the man handed in a girlfriend, and be opposite the girlfriend is very good, love very much, what doesn't this have originally actually. Can explain only at most, he does not love before, he does not care.
Perhaps most of be bitterly disappointed letting a person, because of the girlfriend good and touch, what forgot to touch ex-wife a few years however is good. Feeling is inequitable really, but hard to avoid can make a person sad with despair.
still one is plant likelihood, his itself is ruthless person, just because of new move, because this is touched,just meet. If will marry really, calculating that woman is to want to follow him to get along together sincerely, when what was used to her when him is good, after elapsing when new move, can you become and same before?
Must say a word here, it is too good to a person to do not want, when what because become him,was used to you is good, also do not feel yours is very a kind good, forgot to touch thereby, still think that is you should. Better to a person, he can feel you do not have value the more. Resemble the coolest do not cross popular feeling, most humbleness does not cross feeling.
But thing already so far, without what the woman is very acedia also, should rejoice instead, in the following day, had adjusted oneself state of mind, go pursueing the life that oneself want, make oneself a bit happier as far as possible, do a few businesses that oneself like. Life is very brief, do not want him treat unfairly.
Had subdued oneself go up half a lifetime, did not subdue next oneself half a lifetime again, encounter right person, OK also and bold sincerity loves second, do not meet right person, spend the time of a person a bit more suitably.
Want to say finally, resemble youth marriage, need not comply with surely parental arrangement, but must static the opinion that next hearts will come to listen to parents. Same, if have have female, the child's idea and opinion also should hear without fail when remarrying, the marriage that can get children is blessed, just can pass more flexibly.
Person, always have old when, do not be in young when, appeared the heart of all people that love you to the injury.
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