Li Bai once had been written " the day yesterday cannot leave the person that abandon me to go, random my heart person many days of irritated care now " we can feel be harmed is constant some thing.
To once injuring your person, the person that injures can be divided will unscramble for 3 kinds, the first, injure your person of purpose, the 2nd person that injures you innocently, the 3rd, it is you feel you got harm only.
Intended harm stems from the contention of the interest normally, nonego namely he, I do not have him, was thought the interest can harm you painstakingly. The 2nd kind is to be harmed innocently, all bias and ignorant metropolis cause harm, alleged racial prejudice, bias of record of formal schooling, age bias belongs to this kind, this cannot be changed almost. Last kinds are pair of others is intended what look innocently is too heavy, oneself harmed oneself.
To injuring your person of purpose, should decisive strike back, everybody is for others existence, who don't have to should be aimed at painstakingly. Return good for evil is a kind of ideal state, complain ability to suit Everyman with straight newspaper.
To injuring your person innocently, you had better leave far place, accomplish stay at a respectful distance from sb, bias won't be changed easily. Taking bias to go the person of thing of look upon outside, why is not to taking chains.
To the harm that oneself cause, want to be good at introspection, the problem that is oneself changes, not be oneself problem, do not ascribe to too much oneself, what thing can be not importuned. Your located phase, decided you measure the important rate of a problem, once thought to had weighed all matter, perhaps looking again later is a bagatelle only actually.
The harm influence that others brings you has how old, continuously how long, be in completely your horizontal discretion. Han Xin need not find out the disgrace below hip, because he was surmounted,be former oneself, if you are ant, the foot that steps on you and step on you and distinguish without what, if you are roc, the person that can cause harm to you and thing will be very few.
After you walk out of harm, those harm changed your nourishment. So called excuse and thank, all without exception is explaining, they also cannot harm you again, you are firmer than once upon a time. Not can not contend for friend the world to it.