Contradiction of husband and wife, off the rails, sexual life contradiction of disharmonious, wife and mother, career and family cannot give attention to two or morethings, Yo bemused. . . . . .
Had looked so much the article about marriage, the network that negative news is full of lets a person see the how many happy move that not clear marriage brings almost.
But, let a person become besides those " face is hideous " besides the thing, the without what desirable place with true marriage?
Not be of course, otherwise, why to have so much person again " advance wave upon wave " those who enter marriage " sepulchral " ?
Of course, we want to realize above all, the marriage that does not have a problem completely is nonexistent.
And because those marriage are off the rails and the person of occurrence problem, major metropolis is mentioned " safe feeling " this word.
Why to meet somebody is after marital occurrence problem still impenitent, repeatedly " commit the crime " ?
Because one party does not have trouble back at home outer and wanton absurd is, because cannot hearten,just change the current situation and shrink back step by step.
Both sides gave one party too enough safe sense to marital current situation, make be betrayed so that oneself suffer very easily instead.
The cost that err is too low, do not have the including of the bottom line just, those who change is an again and again necessarily draw small bottom line.
" if can love so " in female advocate of boudoir sweet cherry experience lets a person very easily hold bad view to marriage.
Conscientious the wife that looks after children in the home, be opposite for the job in the home without any consideration the husband, mood is bad subsequently and the home that come is cruel.
Actually, this is to build the gave the husband too enough safe sense base in cherry over.
She abandoned the job and friend for the husband and child, be in even by the other side " the home is cruel " later choose to excuse as before, of the again and again indulgent the other side is right oneself disposition, do not respect even cuff and kick.
When cherry the husband established too much superior move in the home, the in the home position hard to avoid of cherry is in inferior position.
What the man of cherry is saying all the time is: "Do not tell good fortune in blessing personally " .
Because he feels, of cherry depending on he lives, it is him can the palm accuses to be beside " belongings " .
Be in so of cherry put forward to recall the work, want to make him much accompany when accompanying the child, he can say: What do you still want?
The love ending in ideal is romantic happiness, but reality brings us always however one ground chicken feather.
But, why be still somebody can be in chicken feather of this one ground obtain happiness?
Above all, want to know marriage to withhold modest crisis move.
You need to let the other side know, even if you had established relationship of stable husband and wife with Ta, but even if is to leave Ta, you yourself can live independently as before;
You still must let Ta know, what principle and bottom line are absolutely cannot of lay a finger on;
Of course, you still need to let Ta know, once appear problem, you can let Ta assume due price.
