We always are saying, the person often should conceive the heart that be thankful, what such ability go is farther. Everybody needs to be thankful have a difference, some people are thankful parents, cannot break off because of the favour that foster; Some people are thankful the motherland, because the nation is not powerful, why does people come happy; Some people are thankful friend, because of the company in alone hour, than what important; Some people are thankful good prospect, because of the land of country broad, total meeting gives a person with the biggest good-tempered. These give no cause for more criticism, but total also somebody likes to say, thank those people that once injured me, this kind is thankful to look very exalted it seems that, when Ceng Ting crosses a lot of successful personage to face camera lens, we also say acknowledgment once injured his person, but we want carefully to be able to discover, this word is very false really.
Our person is a person, because affection can think,be, so love also has regret, have liked thing, also have disgusting thing naturally. We should like to ask is in reality, injure your very deep person to those, can be you accomplished really do not hate? Retreat one pace to tell, calculate you to be not hated, but can be you sent really from the heart go thanking? Can have many all one's life brief, should go why false living? Is simple point bad?
First gear program has seen before, when famous compere Chen Lu pleaseds and 2 people of person of Guo Degang, Yue Yunpeng division talk, old Lu Yu ever asked about Yue Yunpeng, the person of special hate is had in your heart. Yue Yunpeng is very candid say to have, and return hate to now, although went ten years, he still is hate. Next old Lu Yu is very open-eyed ask him, why to follow other the person conversation after becoming famous covers a region different, should not be the person that acknowledgment injures you that, let a person grow because of the sort of harm?
De Gang of this moment Guo says, no matter be celebrity or Everyman, common feature of everybody depends on is a person, as long as it is a person, that has hate and desire 6 be about to love the enemy that hate feeling, love is love, hate is hate. Obviously of the gnash in the heart, can say to thank however on the mouth, this is not hypocritical!
Not come singly but in pairs, as Yue Yunpeng still have famous singer Zhang Shaohan. In some " the congress that spit groove " go up, zhang Shaohan said a paragraph of such words as the honored guest: I won't appreciate those people that once had injured me absolutely, harm is harm, without those harm, I still can become best oneself. This paragraph of word caused the heat of a lot of netizen to discuss on the net undoubtedly, but most netizen or choice support Zhang Shaohan, because be in everybody's heart such wanting.
Life generation, very not easy, can less anguish has been god-given very, having more happy nature is good. Those injure your person, by what should be thanked again? Yes, we are an upright person to need breadth of mind naturally a few broader, but you also should understand, the harm of some people is inadvertently lift, but some harm, that does it intentionally namely. Everybody is same person, why must make excessive demands the National People's Congress that bears to kill is spent a few, is the person that condemns those applying to grant to harm?
Say like Zhang Shaohan, was being harmed is harm, this is fixed fact, can the person that the calm says to hate loves in giving him heart, it is straight-out and trenchant, it is to devoted to at least the person of own heart. You also do not need to be afraid of the anguish in people says you are small-minded and concealing him heart and hate, it is good to you to speak out, to audition person, also be comfortable, because look in them, somebody of in every case can speak their aspirations, that is God.
So, I am sorry, can forget those people that injure oneself and thing, but won't thank.
