A few days ago, the bank that I work organizes middle-level post contest to hire. Colleague plum Yue is old stuff, the age is appropriate also. Think formerly meeting in hand, did not present list however finally, her be indignant, think the leader makes intentionally stumble to her child.
To this, the leader also is helpless: Had recommended energetically, but examine integratedly come down, she still was brushed.
And those by the person of pitch on, it is the excellent staff of each subbranch of a bank. Some dot bank note, Chinese character is typed wait for high degree of professional proficiency of business technical ability, it is frequently in the match bear the palm; Natural resources of some person arteries and veins are extensive, the resource with can carry on better for the unit; Finance of some pass an entrance examination kind certificate level is tall, phyletic much, academic knowledge reserve is enough...
Watch Li Yue instead, index of her business pen number, task wanders in middle reaches all the time, qualificatory certificate also is to cross a line constrainedly. Her largest dominant position may be everybody feels she very hard, did not ask for leave almost record, never be late leave early. But so old, she is taken year after year " full attendence award " , never had taken outstanding achievement example however. Boiling in bar of a gleam of from beginning to end so, cannot get tardy promote.
We often discover, some people surface looks be like very hard, take the gain that gets skill without what however actually, accordingly more resembling is " bogus tries hard " . Revolve of the place in the false appearance that if you are in all the time,this plants hard, time is long, oneself lose motivation and way easily also.
2
The cousin goes to work in a company that has dimensions quite, working overtime is common occurrence, season holiday also turns even the axis to rest ceaselessly. The cousin's think of a way is very simple, the talent of effort has an outlook. But the cousin of such effort, come 3 years into duty, position firewood proposes a toast and do not have how old change.
Later, I am accidental was informed a few she " can't bear put sb in a very important position " achievement. The cousin is the undergraduate of school action, it is technical major, take a company, lead intended education. It is to let her be in charge of later period making first, but her start is slow, the effect is not ideal. Later, considering her person young, thought is much, let her make mobile plan again, the plan that makes as a result always shuts nevertheless. Finally, the company opened number of public of a small letter, she requests a cord from the emperor -submit a request for a military assignment automatically go operation, achieve day to do not have get over more formerly a month breathes out greatly be unable to stand.
After the event, I remind a cousin, get one ability gift deep one ability, read to be carried out more more, do not want patronage to wear blind is moved without work for. Cousin glibly agrees, immediately buys a book on the net, sign up for network course, say to prepare to fluctuate in the plan kongfu. Think she found ongoing way eventually, a few months ask about this matter again afterwards, I just knew the book that she buys to pile one paper box, the curricular study plan of the newspaper still is less than 1/3.
She says to read a book tiredder than working, attend class to still make her brain arduous than going to work. She what maintain no less than going to in study, be fond of however rush about in all sorts of busy and trifling help with farm work, fire of fast-moving wind wind, the effort that uses oneself exhausted him explanatory note goes all out in work.
Cousin such circumstance is on-the-job in field not scarce. These people often won't try hard effectively, seek the target that is less than hard and way, use up through exceeding labor then, cause strenuous up false appearance. With the invalid effort with paralytic ego, will get the ego of contented current situation to comfort.
But, such effort result, besides touch oneself, do not have how many good.
3
Had seen a paragraph of word, feel very reasonable: Hold to no less than going to hard, because only oneself repeat in brain,be and disappointing step. And accomplish somewhat hard, because the eye is being stared at,be all the way scenery, give oneself feed in raw material ceaselessly, just let the life become wonderful much appearance.
Those " expect " , it is the ego pressurization that overcomes comfortable area, it is the Kui pace after orient is accumulated, it is the course lasts to think and relapse the outspread smell of deliberate, be more knowledge and skill master on the foundation of in one's power. The effort of all success will come when conditions are ripe, it is thick the essence that accumulates thin hair is entered.
Resemble those who say having a word: The value of effort, it is the one part that makes happiness. Do significant to oneself thing, let oneself become more good namely. Because, hard itself, can have spent this lifetime according to his intention for us namely.
Not be a pet phrase hard, it is somewhat drive, break through somewhat, somewhat essence of life is entered.
To effort, what we should do above all is to arm oneself brains, examine oneself current situation, the direction that essence of life follows him fixed position, successive ability have a definite object in view. Follow not blindly from, do not originally the pace is self-given, do not deceive oneself as well as others, be brave in to break label pattern " pretend hard " , reductive a true ego.
Without inherent overmatch, more it is ordinary hero.
Leave " bogus tries hard " , you also can be gotten alive clearer, more wonderful.
