In adult world, not " easy " 2 words. Although face negative sentiment, also be the Shu that has arrangement solve and abreact, meet those who let a person see his break down rarely. Before long before, no matter a lot of people are happy sad, can encircle dazzle in the friend; Nowadays, 3 days of visible, friends that do not know when to be updated no longer already even it is thus clear that encircle half an year, had become once QQ space.
Years is true gradually church person is compassionate, it is much in your mood a have no alternative: Although sent friend ring,know very well, do not have any action to his bad mood, negative energy, does the life that can you still give others instead increase chaos?
The friend is encircled more resembling is a notebook, feeling is overall after superpose, still can have comment of a few people now and then, reply to this the comment of a few people, was equivalent to be being contacted secondhand, come 2 toward, the relation also becomes familiar. When, once treated friend circle as the aspiration that oneself share the life, him record to grow, became the presence that concern gives others to increase chaos nowadays?
It is the age that you already passed that to want to tell your to live to the whole world, still changed a place to let his does a person bear Bei?
Serve as 90 hind, I am in everyday receiving: The first batch 90 hind had entered middleaged, 90 hind leap of the pressure that buy a house, 90 hind trichomadesis has been a trend allow him all the time not the message of be in a state of anxiety. See these and oneself be like the relation news that there is not countless ties however by the side of the move, meet everyday the angst of for no reason at all. Especially the friend beside, broke one by one socially those 90 hind do not can not afford a room, can not afford a car, after the opinion on public affairs that cannot become a cause, more delegates of those opposite teaching material in be fear of oneself to become their mouth.
Brushing screen to come down every time is family health job, happy life share, oneself negative energy speech and they are antipathetic, total meeting feels to he is affectedly unconventional and fail. In have a kind " I feel I am not quite wonderful " below condition, slowly a person digested all moods. As time passes, turned an again not zealous hair into the person that the friend encircles. But, sad, angst mixes every time confused when, when he looks for a friend not actively to pour out or seeking a help, the whole world knows without anybody besides oneself he produced what job.
Do not break down in friend circle, always be in however a person when hysterical.
For dynamic to exposing oneself in friend circle person, they are willing to choose other way to go more is to release what his mood and life bring to break down.
Realize " everybody is island of a Gu " this word is right meaning when, major person begins to reduce an expectation to the outside, instead the mood that oneself give oneself is covered went up polybag of black of a close windtight. Others loses sight of him, oneself also lose sight of others. Everybody learned appropriate to treat his life, became the adult that maintain one's composure.
The truth, it is brutal all the time.
The life, never very easy.
If do not break down in friend circle, it is you final stubborn. So, ask your debus camouflage, belong to you alone in this in the space of one person, to the top of one's bent expression is true oneself. After all, the life won't let off us because of our complain tearfully, blow also won't break down because of ours and disappear. We can be pleasant to the eye to be sent our respects to to our care to the friend in friend circle, can experience stranger to rise to he is encouraged and heartening again march ahead.
Escape from inside dark mood, ability sees sunshine. But of a person run alone, playing one start of a race as somebody.
Had looked move free in, have so a word: Want to cry now to the top of one's bent cry, having a lot of time later is you think what do not come out to also cry. In the world of adult, have a plenty of the reason that cannot cry. Because grown cost is,do not allow " monkey business "
Before paragraph time, the friend that goes to work in the airport gives hit a language to communicate, this thinking is the daily life of a family of Lao of two sisters Lao, the result is the news that hears her to part company however. She says the boy friend that talked two years just parted company with oneself. I tell her, afflictive word cries. She sucks nose to say: "Did not cry, will rise early even tomorrow go to work, if the eye became swollen, I am afraid of frightening those passengers. I am afraid of frightening those passengers..
I listen in phonate sound choke with sobs, bearing sad, not be not to want to cry, dare not cry however; Not be not afflictive, however not dare afflictive. In the world of adult, break down with respect to what join a sentiment also need to arrange good time. The following day, also did not see her friend circle has any newses. I think, if not be her,tell me actively, can I know later?
Because always be of negative to having sentiment,oneself ask strictly, do not get angry easily, do not break down before the person casually; So, we are short of lost passion nerve, more missing friend circle. This friend circle is pure dot assist and comment not merely, they pay close attention to their and understand however. Previously, collect underdeveloped still when, no matter be apart is much far, one paper is epistolary also want to share oneself worry and trends each other. And nowadays, having more convenient kind always is to plaint however not at the outset epistolary will so that mix sincerely be worth to yearn for. Of friend circle type pour out more intuitionistic, also let a friend encircle a good friend to know his life more, let them know your live well is bad recently, share your life.
It is the channel that you chose to shut the person that lets the outside to understand his, it is the opportunity that you forgoed be being shown loving care for by more person.
Grow not easy, always won't be alone however. Be kind to oneself please, also let off oneself. Let oneself stretching tight closely no longer the problem of face, do not fear to be treated as to be argumentative by others, inside oneself friend circle, do oneself egoistically please. Before them, true oneself just are at the outset that lets the other side feel is to meet the person that hates evening. Abreact appropriately mood, it is to give oneself reduce pressure, it is to adjust more one of means with indispensable mood. No matter be in the friend sad or circle him general is confused fair at numerous, still burst into tears before the friend, this is we reveal ourselves to the person that loves us the flimsy, one side that needs care, because so straight-out photograph is waited for,also be, we just can become friend, family.
Get Guo Qunshan more 10 thousand big pool, won 1000 army 10 thousand horses, do not forget oneself to take one party scope of operation. Over, do oneself to the top of one's bent. The person that does not care about you cares about you to succeed only, have yourself and the person that love you only, just long to know you are fast happy.
Life once, the life, or oneself are to one's heart's content good.
