Right good man, won't injure these two kinds of women!

01

Marriage and feeling, what we go after is a kind of free He Zhongcheng. This that is to say, we choose what kind of feeling, choose what kind of marriage, it is a choice with freer ourselves, everybody cannot interfere us. But at the same time, this kind of freedom is worn by faithfulness and concentrated tie again, we cannot be planted because of this free, wanton casually our feeling, think with who association interacts with who. Especially after marriage, we should are opposite more marriage is faithful. Otherwise, we harm marriage, marriage is sure to harm us...

02

Have a such netizens, will appeal to my hair, he says:

I meet a girl, be done not have in me and knew before wife marriage. Await in those days, the girl has had marriage, still have a child, the child follows former husband. I do not know her at that time these circumstances, she is very young, I think she is maiden, after be together later, just know after understanding. But at that time, my people does not agree, object I and her be together. Family dates with my arrangement, met my present wife. Nevertheless I and that girl also has society all the time, after marrying, also had not broken.

Now, I follow my a young married woman, two people do not have emotional foundation, disposition shoulds not, after marrying, often quarrel. There also was a child now, because this child is worn in hold together,our marriage is in completely, recumbent this responsibility is being maintained. I also had carried me to think divorce and that girl marriage with the family member, family does not agree, but, that girl also did not abandon me all the time, follow me all the time. Don't I know how to should do?

Wife and my relation is bad, the relation with my parents is bad also, now, we are moved did not live together with parents. I am very irritated, it is the person that waited for me 5 years at the same time, it is to do not have emotive wife at the same time, want to leave do not leave however, very irritated really.

03

Seek advice from division as marital family, I reply to him so:

I feel you can appeal yours information hair comes out, seek advice publicly appeal, I feel your courage is laudable, hair of this kind of thing comes out, reckon the odds that get a scolding is very big. Where is yourself without the issue that has considered you? Be what caused your today's situation?

One, irresponsible. Meet a girl before marrying, although understand this girl to had had marriage later, had had the child, but you also did not mind, interacting all the time, you want to marry with her, be objected by family however, then, you follow with respect to the irresponsibly date the object married. This is the germ that brings about misfortune.

2, betray marriage. Anyway, since had married, ought not to interact with that girl again. Calculate her to follow you without any consideration, because you have marriage, also cannot violate moral principle, go doing the business that betrays marriage. This are you cannot be sympathized with, the place that cannot be accepted.

3, did not take on. Since marriage is unfortunate, do not go down too, that goes down without necessary bad news. Cost continues, what maintain marriage constrainedly is complete, it is irresponsible to oneself, also be pair of wives and child is irresponsible. Or concentrate on more serious things passes well, or does not go down to divorce too, object with respect to person calculating the home, even if feel for the child, but do not make good have an easy time, can come loose well only.

Above at 3 o'clock, you think over well issue oneself. Needless irritated, so called irritated, because,be of yourself have an insatiable desire for and selfish. What want because of you just about is too much, just do not know what to want so.

04

Actually, there are such a lot of men in the life. The appearance of a pair of innocent fall victim, marital misfortune ases if like the business that oneself do marriage of a few harm with respect to this. And to the person that ought not to fall in love with, it is the about that a pair of deep feeling weighs affection, let a person feel this man has affection justice. Little imagine, right man, two kinds of women that should injure least of all, one is willing not to have the wife that blames the life that do not have regret to be together with oneself namely, one is loving his woman all the time namely.

When these two kinds of women exist at the same time, it is a man, must make a choice, do not choose even if injure two people. Right good man, the person that or selects to love his hand in hand all one's life, the person that ought not to love is fallen in love with outside or marriage no longer.