The darling clear of home of colleague small king just 4 years old, grow very lovelily, speaking of a word to come also is clear and logical, let a person look to like. But small recently Wang Que very headache, because clear always is chased after,be behind him, want pin money with him. Clear is blinking the big eye of spirit of fresh and juicy every time, very serious telling Xiaowang, the joyous joyous child next door, her father mother can give her a lot of pin money, can use these money try to win sb's favor happily happily next much more delicious, so clear also wants, want a lot of a lot of money... but Xiaowang feels the child is so small still, it is good really to give her pocket money? If give, how many appropriate?
Believe a lot of parents can have this kind of doubt, the child is making a noise to want pin money, oneself are pained very, feel the child is small still on one hand, insufficient to monetary acknowledge, do not know how to spend money, after giving him money, be afraid that he is spent in disorder, feel the money that should rear the child as a child really is watched again on one hand, let him can have a correct acknowledge to money, can be the sentence that calculates, had given more or is skimp good?
One, the consequence that parent mistake gives pin moneyChild age is small, do not have correct acknowledge to money, do not know ability considers how many money much, if you give the child a lot of pin money, the child also is not known knowingly, can depend on oneself be fond of only, buy all sorts of things that oneself mean, spend these money light immediately, stretch his hand to want to you again next. Actually, money is not a key, the key is you give the child a lot of money, can let the child feel Qianlaide is very easy, can use shop to the top of one's bent, as a child the habit that nurturance chaos spends money, form extravagant shopping style, this extremely go against what correct money watchs the child to form.
To avoid to produce this kind of situation, as far as possible skimp child pin money is not to give even, can good to the child?
2, if the parent does not give the child pin money or those who give is very few, how be met again?The child also can vie, if you do not give the child pin money, what perhaps give is very few, the child and other little girl are compared, see those who be inferior to others the pin money in him hand is far, others wants to buy what to buy, oneself are canned not afford however, this meeting lets the child produce self-abased move. And, generate shopping demand when the child, and when the money on the hand cannot be satisfied however, this kind of weak feeling and the strong demand to article, can let the child be full of to material as a child hold read aloud, exceeding goes after material to satisfy, this kind of circumstance also is very bad.
Should give the child pin money? To how many? How to give? It is really very let the parent headache, want to find accurate method only actually, pin money can make the optimal way that allows the child to build correct money to watch.
3, how should the parent hold measure, give pin money reasonably?After 1. child is 3 years old
Most child can control the interest that generates pair of money in 3 years old, at this moment the parent is OK timely guiding, helping the child what understand is money, help them establish a correct monetary concept.
Before 2. child school age
The child before school age still compares faintness to the concept of money and commodity, also not be to understand very much to use concept of money, and the place that should use fund is less also, because this need not use child pin money, the child has what demand to be able to tell the parent, let the parent buy. And the money given to children as a lunar New Year gift that when they spend the New Year, receives, the parent also can help them keep for you, but should tell them, oneself just help them keep temporarily, wait for them later again some growner, sensible, can give them.
3. child 7-9 when year old
The child arrives about 7 years old 9 years old when, have very big promotion to the cognitive meeting of money and commodity, also meet in the experience that consumption spends money in the life grow in quantity, accordingly, they are met to the understanding of money and content more and more essence of life is accurate, at this moment the demand that they can generate pair of money. Right now, the parent should give the child a few pin money appropriately, satisfy them daily a few spend money basically demand. In the meantime, also should tell them to want reasonable spend money, do not want random flower, give them the space that spends money independently, also can question the use of their money appropriately, prevent them to abuse.
When 4. child is again a few bigger
When the child is again a few bigger, the parent can consider to give the child certain pin money regularly, because right now child has had the administrative ability to money, can better administrative money, deal with money, at that time the parent should exercise economy capacity of the child, directive child is reasonable manage money.
A kind of just develops their money concept to child pin money method of level sex, money is not a key, the key is the acknowledge that passes pair of money and use, side child builds right monetary idea.
4, how to develop the child's correct money concept?1. money hard-earned
The child is small still, their money comes from parents give, do not know to make money through labor have much trouble, not allow more easy, know to follow mouth of parental Zhang Zhang to be able to get money only, when spending money, meet extravagant, do not know to cherish. The parent should engraft to the child as a child a kind of concept, it is money exchange through labor, work is very hard, because this is spent,money should be cherished.
The consumption with correct 2. is watched
The child is very small, shop occasionally lack is rational, see other little girl had new toy, oneself want to buy, see other little girl has a lot of wasteful articles for use to look at high-grade and luxurious, oneself also want, did not think of oneself like really at all, suit, it is need. So, the parent should help the child establish right consumptive idea as a child, tell the child to want rational consumption, follow suit not blindly, do not vie each other, suitable ability is best, want the goods that in oneself the choice inside capacity limits suits him, do not want extravagant become the order of the day, buy the thing that a few gewgaw things and him financial capacity bear not to rise.
3. learns conduct financial transactions
The child is right the acknowledge of money that does clarity of respect neither one, think the flower is spent, the flower was over to look for the parent to want, the program with long-term neither one is arranged, lack the sense of conduct financial transactions. Accordingly, the parent should help the child establish this kind of concept as a child, how has the society managed his money. The parent should tell the child, want to make good deposit to oneself pin money, at ordinary times cost also wants brushstroke brushstroke write down, accomplish beautiful to money where know fairly well.
4. gentleman loves money, those who take have
Even if money has 1000 kinds of use, the parent also must tell the child as a child, gentleman loves money, take have, money must be exchanged through his labor, cannot obtain illegally, let the child have an accurate knowledge to money as a child so, can prevent the child to be on wrong way to get money later.
Monetary view is the very important one part in philosophy, how to handle money, often be a person how approach life outside show performance. People is advocated now should undertake to the child conduct financial transactions is taught as a child, want to let them know namely, what is the essence of money, what is the action in Qian Zaisheng work, to money should the manner with what kind of hold, this pair of children henceforth grow crucial, accordingly, parents must notice to develop the child's correct money concept as a child. Mom of treasure of each treasure pa, can you give the child pin money at ordinary times? You are how to hold to be consumed with control child reason, value money? Welcome everybody and fruit berry mom to be discussed together!
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