1, rely on others to do not have prospect forever
The person appeals only at oneself, one is unreliable, there is honest person on the world, connect your parents, the children that joins you cannot lean, rely on oneself only.
If oneself do not stand up, hope others depends on others, it is the person that does not have prospect forever.
2, of the person ritzy, very normal
Actually, the association of person and person, the communication of human thing, ritzy it is its normal. Say morality and justice only purely, disregard ritzy, it is exceedingly abnormal. Content with rare for expensive, this so of morality and justice absolutely and commendable.
3, implement spend decision height
The bearing of everybody, knowledge, limits, mind, different. You should become extraordinary service, establish great cause, those who be about to foster oneself implement degree, big in that way like the sea.
4, doleful enjoyment
I tell you an experience: When in the still of night, a person walks to the high mountain to support go up or in big desert, very halcyon, oneself tear does not know how meeting shedding comes down.
This is not sadness also not be to like, that is a kind clinking halcyon comfortable, each part opened the body naturally, the anguish in the heart, vexed whats were done not have.
It is the ancients so called " empty Shan Yeyu, 10 thousand noise are breathed " . Hear the rainwater in empty hill to flap only the sound of the leaf, other whats are done not have. That is doleful enjoyment, not be gold can be bought get.
5, empty clever talent is free
If one the individual's thought, implement spend not empty spirit, that was over, be equal to take a cup to be become in the water of small hole boat, be not moved forever.
Have Gao Yuan, vacant state, ability can be between this the world, in this universe, fly footloosely, ability gets free.
6, can have all the time without what
Always good everybody hopes it does not change. Resemble human feeling, we hope to love a river always bath, hope it does not change; The age also hopes not to change, forever youth is waited a moment. Visible person is so foolish forever!
If we knew this truth, know to there is fixed object between heaven and earth, changing is of course, changeless? Do not have this to return a responsibility!
7, the person that become a major issue needs flexible
"Achievement sees change " .
The great person on the history: The leader of first-class wisdom, knowing is how to change next, lead a family to change accordingly, stand in the thereinbefore that change forever;
Secondary person is meet an emergency, you change I also change, change accordingly;
Person of third class is a family after changing, he still stands in place to be not moved, the someone went by he is in behind scold: "Case father you become so fast, I had not prepared you to change first! I had not prepared you to change first!!
8, restrain oneself with belief
I discover a person that has thought belief, his achievement differs absolutely, when a person is in charge of him without what, fail very easily namely begin.
9, the energy of life comes from " static "
From where the sources of energy comes? Come from the static state, from what come for nothing. Why are we about to sleep in night busily? Because the person also needs a static state, brains is no good nonstop.
The person's life often forgot static, use up oneself instead as far as possible with trends.
10, the more difficult, want delay more
Handle the issue of a complex difficulty occasionally, 100 think of do not get its to solve, suddenly oneself thought says, such doing can solve a problem, this is static action.
So you should handle the issue of complex difficulty, want first certainly static next hearts come whats do not think. You wanted to turn your brain to rise the more more, all nerve turn rise, not dead finally namely ill.
11, true cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine is human society experienced heart
True cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine is not merely on hill, also be not merely in temple, more in the society. Want to live in cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, in the cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine in the life.
No matter you pursue what profession, want to blend in your cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine in your job, face sex of temper with fire of state experience accident, to person refine heart.
Do not be afraid of encounter the obstacle that violate a predestined relationship, it is OK all previous refine your heart sex, enhance your arrangement, grow your wisdom.
12, state of mind is good, the world just is met good
Everything does not consider him only, want to consider for the other side. Have take out only selfish, from benefit, self-love, your talent is quite free.
How do you treat others, how can others also treat you, always not be blame everyone and everything but not oneself, always do not carry the defect of others, see others not pleasing to the eye, want not always to change others, had adjusted oneself state of mind first, foster cordial relations between states oneself heart, all situations can turn along with the heart.
13, so-called cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine -- amend oneself
If you accommodate everything with broad bosom, include everything when, you won't have the thing that wants to be illogical, seeing all people is good person, seeing all things is meddlesome, treating all conditions is good place.
Often can search oneself defect, can ceaselessly take out my hold, this is cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, what to repair otherwise?
14, reading is to be an upright person, is not to fend
A factitious what should read?
The rightest answer in the tradition, it is " read reasonable " 4 words.
Reasonable, it is to want to understand the reason that be an upright person first. If want to ask the Chinese nation, Chinese the education of always what to the purpose is? Let us repeat again: It is for " be an upright person " , is not for " the life " .
15, follow more beneficial oneself person interacts
Follow the person come-and-go with character maturity, reliable moral more, help you grow, misfortune when reliable. Mix more old people come-and-go, can learn knowledge of a lot of experience.
16, forget personal favour, do not forget person favour
"Shi Hui does not read aloud, suffer favour not forget " , these two words are very late to my lifetime influence, it is the spirit of Buddhist, Confucianist, Taoist school.
Helped family, advantage gave a family, write down in the heart do not write down, want to desertion. "Suffer favour " , get a someone a bit advantage, want to remember forever.
17, content with one's lot namely rich
Make a person work want leave some leeway, meddlesome, petty gain does not want to be occupied more, occupy what can have a trouble more, alleged " content with one's lot person rich " .
18, devoir is an upright person
Know oneself devoir, also know time and condition, destiny listens after using up devoir, be an upright person accomplish such, this ability resembles a person.
19, on time work and rest, just be the person's life
On our person body everyday climate, from night 11 when begin, arrive all the time the following day in the morning at 12 o'clock, it is in relief gas; Belong to shade gas afternoon.
City is very much now youth, it is in relief gas insufficient -- rise in the morning dippy, a bit spirit is done not have; To next siesta a lie-down rises, spirit slowly good; Come to night life, mind is better and better -- these people are shade gas very fill...
This life does not make night life, it is ghost life, day and night is conversed.
20, best friendship
The Chinese is told make friend, "Of gentleman hand in weak like water " , the good friend is not fair-weather friend, not be to come and go every day, common very insipid.
But this is not to say chill callosity, the friend encounters difficulty, or fall ill the thing of and so on, he came. Be indifferent to usually, perhaps the eye looks to calculate greeted sb, but have true glow.
21, do person air, ability somebody is angry
Young should notice a bit, if want to make a career one time, should know " money gets together the person comes loose " truth -- money is in your pocket, human concern of the society is little, not " true friend " ;
"Money comes loose a person get together " , meng Changjun is such, money scatters leave, resolved the difficulty of others, oneself money was done not have of course, but the friend is much, human impact is much, had affliction, the friend helps.
22, social essence
Strict to him requirement; wrong to others, when blaming a family, do not resemble be opposite oneself are so earnest. Such make conducting oneself in society person, to magisterial it may not be a bad idea, to colleague it may not be a bad idea, to following it may not be a bad idea, resentment is little.
Contrary, a social conduct, arrived random times, often be heavy to others requirement, light to him requirement; Requirement others is particularly strict, excuse oneself easy to do.
23, life is a false play is done really
If life makes fun of with, play already begin, you are about to act go down, but you want bright it is white, clear to understand know, you are to be in act in a play...
Want to had performed your role already, do not want false play to take seriously again, actually the world is not our native place, all living creatures just is hasty passing traveller just, what to have but persistent, what to have but of dispute, say less can how? Remove one condition can how?
24, swallow this tone
Have an idea very simple, if you are accomplished, wrap you to have use.
When you should get angry, you do a qigong at once, mouth a piece, spit first at a heat, reoccupy nose is sucked at a heat, pharynx goes down, want not to get angry besides.
That has gas Ye really! When life is enraged, just have at a heat, not be false.
25, do not work together with the good friend
Some people are OK classmate, young it is good to do friend pretty, but take a way together without method and him, can not work together certainly course of study. If have a cause, consider as a good friend, pull together do, come toward in the future the friend becomes enemy, true not be to one's profit.
26, be content with insipid, the most god-given
Some is content with comfort and pressure, some is content with poverty, some is content with insipid. Knowledge is the most difficult it is insipid, be content with insipid person, what career can be done.
27, help be not helped too much
Chinese countryman has an adage, rice of pipeful sending a person is benefactor, send a person one rice is personal enemy. Give a friend help, relieving in his difficulty, he is appreciated forever; But the help is too much, he never is satisfied.
28, lust hurts a body
When be in in riches and honour, do not harm oneself with raising. Contrarily, between poor and lowly, "Not with benefit weary look " .
The person is in poor and lowly, be about to make money for the life, but also cannot cross minute of ground lust, alleged " factitious money is dead " , exorbitant lust, cross minute of ground overworked, what can damage the body no less is healthy, and endanger life.
29, assume work easy, it is difficult to allow to complain
The most difficult is " fatigue and do not complain " . Big the daily life of a family says, work should allow to complain, experience tells us a fatigue is easy, it is difficult to allow to complain, the much work that make a point is a bit tiredder did not concern, do finish sth still get a scolding, this with respect to be unable to stand.
The person that the major issue does on the history is to be able to assume work, still can allow to complain more, should assume the world even complain and not regret.
30, call end more, poorer
The person does not call end. The person that calls end is very photograph of poor and lowly. The person calls end, it is insatiable, when perhaps wanting alms giving, hate to part with take out gold to come and call end. So cry, god gives him poor magnetic field, the result is poorer and poorer.
That person wants riches and honour, want content with one's lot above all, content with one's lot is photograph of a kind of achievement. Want content with one's lot to what thing, slowly the life is met more and more riches and honour, meet otherwise poorer and poorer.
31, it is oneself namely for others
Everybody feels good for oneself, it is better and better that he is met. Little imagine, too nice for oneself person, often cannot get blessing newspaper, also with respect to worse and worse.
Contrarily, not good for oneself, think the move is good for others, that God instead won't treat unfairly he, and he can ameliorate slowly rise.
32, do not play a trick, just be astute
Have highest cordial, it is the most successful person. So I often tell a youth the fellow student, do not play pattern to play a trick. . . . . .
What person is successful in the future?
A woodenhead, one does not play a trick, work to the person very cordial person. This is the law of heaven and earth.
33, hypocritical person, without good end
Conduct oneself in society with false passport feel pretty is good, but result scarcely will be good, even if also be very " luckily is avoided " .
But " luckily is avoided " be extremely one of thing, the behavior of sex of this kind of gamble, risk is too big, be not of be to one's profit.
34, be inferior to meaning, just be life
The Chinese has two logion to say: "Be inferior to meaning thing constant 89, can not have with person character 23. " ... " 10 have 9 to lose the world job, 100 without one gratifying go-between. 100 without one gratifying go-between..
A person is in this alive socially, think him reputation is good, achievement is high, all the way successful, but that is impossible.
One has the person of the path truly, at this society, the grievance that often has a lot of, affront, painful, without method to person complaint, only oneself instigate come.
35, best travel filial piety
The world has truly is not parents, but cultivate one's morality wants a filial piety first, and travel filial piety can not be implicit only. Can use up filial piety again, the fault of ably penitentiary parents, just be true " think of a thing to need not not tell a person in person " deep desire.
36, do not have enterprise ability is terrible
Youth lifetime has a cause, not be a problem; Have enterprise all one's life, just be a problem.
Although have enterprise, can not do so that become a cause certainly; But if do not have enterprise, the examination paper that takes wastepaper basket as been lose is same, this youth is to discard as useless almost.
37, affliction is meddlesome
Extraordinary service always is become in human history, establish the great undertaking, person that does a major issue, it is from difficult in those who stand up. And from difficult in the station gives comer, just know world human sympathy.
Be opposite so for one the individual's achievement, occasionally young suffer more, endure a bit Qu She hardship more, it is a favour.
Should become extraordinary service truly, establish the great undertaking, person that does a major issue, must have rich life experience.
38, put down but do not abandon
Each have each predestined relationship, each have each blessing cable.
You are persistent what, what can harm you; You are persistent who, who can make you sad. If the dream is like unreal,everything should regard as, put down all improper thought. But putting down is not to abandon, should do go doing even, had done even.
39, had done the person, do the thing right
Knowledge is not literature, the literature that the article is this person very is fine; Knowledge is broad and profound, the knowledge that is this person is broad and profound.
As to knowledge, even if do not know a word, have knowledge possibly also -- it is good to make a person, work right, absolutely good, be opposite absolutely, this is knowledge.
40, gentleman not blame everyone and everything but not oneself
The person can accomplish for knowledge knowledge truly, do not blame a weather, not blame person, with respect to him ask in reply, why do I stand not to rise? Why didn't I achieve this goal?
The knowledge that is oneself, accomplishment, practice a variety of problem. Oneself are most sorrowfully introspection, in him heart not the thought of contain blame everyone and everything but not oneself. Take present idea to say, this kind of psychology is the psychology of absolutely health, such ability are gentleman.
41, negative heart is a scholar more
Occupy me a few years this experience, to now more two words that admit the ancients: "Generous every from massacre dog generation, negative heart is a scholar more. Negative heart is a scholar more..
Sympathize with, those who have pity on other is a poor, poor talented person can sympathize with a poor, the talent in anguish can sympathize with painful person, massacre dog generation kills a pig to kill a dog namely, had not read what book.
Intellectual knowledge is tall, him thought explanation is more, when not be willing to do, he can try to explain painstakingly. The person with low knowledge won't explain, friend! How to go? Do not go without reason for the friend, because his thought is not complex.
