Favour misfortune good fortune lives after the marriage of a woman, should depend on not just the man is right oneself after all how, still depend on the appropriate processing that concerns to wife and mother. The stand or fall that wife and mother concerns, can produce tremendous effect to life of husband and wife greatly.
Wife and mother gets along is one of relations with our the most unmanageable country all the time, if want to have concern of a paragraph of harmonious wife and mother, can get painstaking care below one time, the flower nods idea. After all each paragraphs of relation is to need to be managed attentively, relation of wife and mother is not exceptional also.
When should hearing relation of a paragraph of wife and mother gets along badly, a lot of people will be subliminal feel: This height daughter-in-law may meet a Diao Man to be done hard " evil mother-in-law " , common saying says " feminine why bother is embarrassed woman " , meet such " evil mother-in-law " , those who do a daughter-in-law can be very pitiful really.
"A hand is patted not noisy " , is it possible that the relation is bad between wife and mother, the problem that is a mother-in-law certainly? Actually a lot of moment, the happening of contradiction and conflict does not do not have a reason, it is both oneself is put in the problem likely.
Relation of wife and mother is abominable, the problem that is a mother-in-law? "Evil mother-in-law " so honest.
"Evil mother-in-law " think: Relation of wife and mother is bad, because,basically be daughter-in-law too not sensible, do not respect elder.
"Filial piety of 100 be apt to is first " , this kind of idea is early already thorough popular feeling, to those already parenting, especially already for the person of full hall of children and grand children, more care about junior to respect He Xiaoshun to theirs.
Went up the person of the age, can hope to be able to get care and be takinged care of quite. But a lot of do a daughter-in-law, because the age is puerile, the not proper on the likelihood processing in a lot of things, the work that of one mind is considering him business only is corrupt perhaps play, the care to elder and take care of insufficient. They calculate and elder sits together, also be absorbed in lowering his head to play a mobile phone, your elder is looked at very not happy.
"Evil mother-in-law " say: Relation of wife and mother is bad, daughter-in-law should ego meditates him clodhopping behavior, see elder greets sb, accompanying elder to chat should be accomplished, but a lot of daughter-in-laws are done however,be less than this.
"Evil mother-in-law " think: Relation of wife and mother is bad, still have a very big reason -- the daughter-in-law is too lazy.
Look in elder, the youth is should young, is not everyday slouching, feeling at any time very weary look. Such daughter-in-law is looked at make a person nest fire.
There are a lot of youths now, especially singleton female, it is as a child high-fed grown, nurturance the bad habit with lazy a suit. The dirty clothes conveniently that takes off at ordinary times is lost entered washing machine, more do not carry wash clothes cooked.
A lot of do a mother-in-law, had taken pain before, for person diligent, most youth of not to be exposed to a pair of lazy about.
Because the daughter-in-law is too lazy, do not pay attention to sanitation, so hard to avoid of a lot of mother-in-laws meets pair of daughter-in-laws to see of purpose.
"Evil mother-in-law " think: Relation of wife and mother is bad, still spend Qiantai extravagant because of the daughter-in-law.
After all years is different, that time that the mother-in-law is born, economic condition is finite, must want special economize, dress warmly and ear one's fill of ability enough reluctance, so their nurturance economizing good convention.
But now nowadays, the consumption level of people is higher and higher, a lot of mother-in-laws see not youth of be used to spends money the appearance of extravagant.
A lot of mother-in-laws think: Since had married, the place that needs beautiful money in the future became much went, and such extravagant spend money nowadays, put next enough savings very hard to come at all, feel oneself daughter-in-law won't get along.
Actually a lot of be considered as " evil mother-in-law " mother-in-law, in also imagining in that way " evil " . They can have contradiction with the daughter-in-law, have a reason mostly, not be ornery.
Actually wife and mother concerns difficulty, because lack communicates communication between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law,be likely, can not understand more each other a bit, this ability is brought about produced a lot of needless clash.
Relation of wife and mother is abominable, the problem that is a mother-in-law? "Evil mother-in-law " so honest, demonstrated oneself view. After all the times is different, the idea is different between wife and mother, think of a way is different, the method is different, can agree very hard, also hard to avoid can produce contradiction.
Get along in wife and mother in, institutional seek common points while reserving difference, the society is respected and understand the other side, the society is consider of the other side more, come so, the feeling between wife and mother just is met more and more harmonious and harmonious!
