Why the child at ordinary times achievement is very good, pay no attention to to the exam want? Be fear of psychology to school work generation even, how to do?
One, concept: When the child is nervous, can use " Sen Tian therapeutics " answer
Often we remind ourselves the more not nervous, however the more nervous, how to do? "Dark cropland therapeutics " can help us alleviate intense sentiment. "Dark cropland therapeutics " remind us to want to learn to accept namely.
The character 8 guiding principle of dark cropland therapeutics is: Arrange its nature, should be place, learn to accept to oneself mood and thinking, do the thing that oneself should treat as. Accept oneself intense sentiment, do the thing that instantly should do.
The insecurity when taking an exam for instance, you say to oneself: Come, go ahead regardless, insecurity goes. Begin to take a pen next, begin to keep a name first next, write learn name, in front these are written first, begin to become a problem next, while your discovery should be place as oneself, oneself intense sentiment is automatic disappeared.
2, problem: Why when some children take an exam extraordinary tension?
When some children write line of business at ordinary times very loosen, have a thing a little while, go up a little while toilet, do a little while make petty action, without time sense of urgency. Arrive when the exam, unexpectedly insecurity rises, play is wrong as a result.
When some children write line of business at ordinary times very quiet, the parent was built for him too too ideal study atmosphere, the result takes an exam from time to tome the teacher is to-and-fro the ground is perambulatory, have other fellow student clang the sound that with a clang translates examination paper, even some classmates shift to an earlier date hand in an examination paper also can affect him.
Because exam environment and the environment that write line of business at ordinary times are very different,these child exam insecurity are be caused by. When writing line of business at ordinary times so, be about imitate exam condition.
3, analysis: Reason of unfavorable of child exam achievement
The first, child exam achievement is not ideal, because,the likelihood is he won't. If so, that parent should notice, whether does the child practice not quite at ordinary times, want to increase the chance of study for him.
The 2nd, be because,careless? Development of some child visual sense are undesirable, can have " the vision shakes " phenomenon, the parent should notice to control the child to see the time of electronic screen, encourage the child to move more, practice ball games more especially. For instance the spherule such as ping-pong, badminton moves.
The 3rd, because,the child is only nervous.
4, answer doubt: The child likes to hear music when writing job at ordinary times, influential to him?
When some children write line of business at ordinary times, like to hear music, but when taking an exam, listen without music, when attending class, listen without music. When having so, the child attends class make tired, the exam makes tired, exam carelessness, perhaps meet obviously, but was unable to call to mind, because the child hears music when writing job at ordinary times,these are.
Why can think at ordinary times, meet at ordinary times, because when the child is keeping operation, like to wearing headphone at ordinary times, the concert wakes up cell of some a few cerebra, but there is music when taking an exam, the child can appear sensory cerebra is very tired out, very Mondayish, and seem to be unable to call to mind even the circumstance of some something.
5, method: At ordinary times how imitate exam condition?
Open the door when writing line of business at ordinary times, the parent outside OK and normal activity, wash the dress, cook, read newspaper what is OK, let the child on the side of the habit the condition of somebody.
Music does not hear when writing line of business at ordinary times, and when writing line of business should clutch time, form time feeling. Him child wants know exactly about sth in the heart, becoming a problem is a minute probably, 3 minutes still are ten minutes. Do not have the problem that thinks out at a draught, had jumped first, do below one, the title that waits for all meetings to do was finished, return again become the problem in front. After all exercise are finished, reexamination. Want us only be used to with the environmental condition of the exam and behavior at ordinary times form agreed, our exam achievement can resemble same at ordinary times good.
