Encourage records says
What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger, stand A Little Taller. Every cannot destroy you, make you powerful surely.
I am in an university one grade that year, be without ground of be concerned about to eat his into a fatso.
Not be the sort of huge fat person, upright however of Yu Zheng compasses fat with the awkward bodily form between overstaffed, weighed 15 jins than standard type of build or figure. Then, my whole undergraduate became the movie alive " butterfly effect " series, that butterfly hefts 15 jins.
Above all, my the ceremony of proclaiming sb a Buddhist reduce weight. I can drip one day full water is not entered, next the following day midday, lunch eats in a hour continuously, it is two meat or fish every time 9 rice increase one millet coke, resembling is one individual spore dissension gave patient of 3 guzzle disease. Next, because or is hungry,100 claw flinch heart, or is maintained so that sleeping and eating installs hard, I turned a day and night into confused person, plus feel oneself are very dingy and ugly, do not be willing to see a person, desert a lot of classes. Thirdly, escape of the class let me spend many time net to buy emptily, beat the electric business customer of 90% above of countrywide, with express the knot issued deep friendship. Bought great majority is the dress, the dress is worn again do not enter, ashamed and resentful is become hard, continue the ceremony of proclaiming sb a Buddhist reduces weight.
Anyhow, that is me a few very joyless years. Because accept oneself hard, crouching so, reject other.
Ability knows after I am very long, the person uses the cerebrum margin system that comes from abhor, had formed in childhood moment. But, use him channel, excuse oneself, the wisdom that makes oneself become powerful, the age that often ought mature in us however, still do not have.
The youth of each for generations is flimsy, sensitive, suffer other easily to affect. And for the generation of young to be in move, this challenges unconventional however hardship.
The film " the world of Hunan door " put forward a hypothesis, and corresponding solution: Under the pry that lives in everybody when a person, how should he do? The answer is, he runs away, gain freedom. However, if everybody, under the pry that lives in everybody, so, how should escape again? This is not hypothesis, what happening sadly however is actual.
Our all the time is absent friend circle, small gain, stick, the life that oneself show on individual homepage, in the meantime, also go up in same platform the life of pry other. The ground is not engraved to be absent when we are not had evaluate another person, in the meantime, also accepting the assessment of other. "Individual character make public " the appearance that is bully people by flaunting one's powerful connections only, to conceal self-abased what kill with narcissism as one falls, photograph loving each other is flimsy. We admire envious another person, also decorate oneself life hard so that let other envy jealousy.
We are too sensitive to the opinion of other, intolerable not by " dot assist " life.
The core of gregarious network depends on " gregarious " , gregarious motivation, it is to stem from people intolerable loneliness; People intolerable loneliness, because,be people cannot torturous oneself.
But, sooner or later, we should stand before the mirror, discover we are not him creation comes out that interesting, lovely, charming, capable person. So, do you still like a mirror in oneself? Or, in the mirror you, still like oneself?
Whether does this world praise you, envy you, love you, going up somehow is a crammer that expands ceaselessly. Crucial question depends on, you are right oneself are enough and honest, and accept honesty later faulty.
I now and then go to an university lecture, the link that communicates every time can encounter " how to do " problem -- " ideal and reality have difference, how to do? " " interest is liked and solve dress warmly and ear one's fill to contradict, what course to follow? " summary becomes a word, namely: The road of life, how to go narrower more? But, the road of life, how didn't you go to know narrow? These painful doubt, just pointing to horizon to cross two hilltop to still have the place of 10 lis of ground with evaginate, inquiry there whether to have a bramble.
True contradiction, what to depend on " ideal " with " reality " , and the uneasiness that depends on a person and cowardly: Want to receive terminal award already, do not wish to go again that road; Want to love already, fear to love brings disorder and harm again.
Those who part is the lost anguish, anguish that is rejected, anguish that is harmed, painful, they are so conspicuous on the road that ground horizontal stroke goes afore, let figure escape be full of to that " assist " in visional world. However, we are people, go in one goes up to sepulchral road from the cradle, young during transit, old during transit. Must produce connection with real world, is not to still be the thing that has not produce and scared. Must produce all sorts of impacts with real person, is not to be like a Gu island that can look at far away only.
Painless is stream of people, not be life.
Those are killed not dead our anguish, they can make us more powerful sometimes. Resemble making us be benefited most person, often not be good teacher and helpful friend, however those once harmed us hard but the person that if wish,fails finally.
The times lets a person become more sensitive, but person hard the change of changeover times, go up in him body only, overcome this times. This is not to point to derisive coetaneous person, or it is ego banish the condition to nobody. Take the advantage of however young, be defeated to rise, go experiencing. And make everything cheerful with not cheerful, can alimentary heart, generate composed judgement capacity.
The premise that holds to ego is to find ego, such ability resist trifling life is opposite quite the person's fritter away. In the meantime, resistance lives sensitive, resistance lives sensitive brought fear and shake, live more soft and toughly in instantly, fine long hair has taken this world without misgive ground.
