Traitorous backside has the child's every time more specific reason. When the child is traitorous, the directest and effective method is concrete analysis child's traitorous reason, solve a problem actively.
I am for instance small behavior has the daughter recently some " traitorous " , be like you to call her to do a lot of businesses it seems that she has resentment, I believe a lot of parents had encountered this kind of situation. This kind of moment the behavior the child how can be end often done for traitorous parent?
For instance the child plays outside, do not be willing to come home, you dissuade him to come home he is not willing to listen, think this is in namely traitorous period think in parent heart " what does this child do to follow me intentionally now oppose " . The parent that thinks so often is not to use force of violent, pretty to go back child detain forcibly, use all sorts of advantage temptation children namely, angle the child.
Although the thing is temporary,was pressed to come down, but you think, if the child encounters each problem,the response that he gets is menace or bribery, can he still learn correct settlement the method of the problem?
If you are the attitude that adopting requirement of backside of understanding child behavior, you may crouch to say to the child: "Our come to an agreement or understanding went back at 5 o'clock, you can tell me why to call you, you so not happy? You so not happy??
The child says: "I want to play again a little while, of here amusing too much. " the demand that knew the child, countermeasure also won't simple crude, you can say " the project with this amused park is to have a lot of, but... "
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