Dot compares gluttonous, so classics regular meeting is pestering mom to buy various fruit juice, drink to him, to most parent, drink these things to be inferior to letting the child eat bit of fresh fruit more healthy, so mom also rambles via often can bringing the child supermarket.
The fruit category in the supermarket is all ready, from the orange of a few money, to ten yuan firedrake fruit, strawberry, the Durian that goes to a few yuan again, taller is about a hundred yuan car a unit of weight child, these fruits are corresponding at different consumption level, not be everyone has to rise so, but if the child must eat the most expensive fruit, can be you bought to him?
The daughter wants to have car a unit of monthly interest rate child
Ramble a few days ago supermarket when saw this one act, mom is taking the child to buy a fruit, daughter special said in a low voice: "Mom, I want to have car a unit of monthly interest rate child. " result mom should not hear, continue to selecting cheap apple, but see big red car a unit of weight child, the child cannot help really, said again: "Mom, I want to have car a unit of monthly interest rate child. I want to have car a unit of monthly interest rate child..
Mom is direct growl: "What to eat, car a unit of weight child a jin hundreds of you eat to rise! We has ore deposit or how, to give you last good nursery school, mom is hated to part with one year buy a new clothes, do you think money is fresh gale is blown come? Do you think money is fresh gale is blown come??
After the daughter listens, silently low first, not throat ground follows mom to go, the repetition that the edge walks along to listen to mom by the side of, there is a word only in her brain, "We is poor, eat not to rise! Eat not to rise!!
The son wants to have car a unit of monthly interest rate child
A lady is to taking the child to buy a fruit likewise, the son saw the car a unit of monthly interest rate on the side child, say to mom: "Mom, last the car a unit of monthly interest rate that my classmate takes child very delicious, I also want to buy brought her to eat " , mom sees the child chose the most expensive car a unit of weight child, hesitated, because she wants to buy strawberry originally, but see the son wants to eat, and it is to want to be shared together with other little girl, she hesitated.
Through reflection of a few seconds, mom says to the son: "Mom can buy car a unit of weight to you child, but this kind of fruit is very expensive, it is OK that are so we bought only? " the son listened to jump gladly, "Mom, wait for me to be brought up earned money, buy car a unit of weight to you every day child eat " , after mom listens, make mind in glad.
The child does not have a concept to money, when shopping, be not to see the value, like which kinds to be able to tell mother, two children are to want to have car a unit of monthly interest rate likewise child, but mom's different decision, the effect that causes to the child is different also, the relation of the child and mom also produces a change slowly.
A mom is engrafting to the child all the time " the consciousness with our very poor home " , child of another mom criterion church " share with others " , the pattern difference of two children stands now, if you encounter this kind of situation, how can you do?
