Night of side young woman is read
26 April 2019
" the person that does a major issue truly, know this thinking "
Person all one's life what is the greatest pleasure?
Become you namely senescent moment, still a flock of associate still travel together together with you, company is controlled in you, I think this is the greatest pleasure.
Then we had thought, why when you are old, can you have the person that so much travels together?
Because you learned an assignment with the mainest life,that is certainly: Be in an unfavorable situation.
Why to have some of person, their relations with people is good, can you do accomplish sth? Love to be in an unfavorable situation because of them namely, get along to not be willing to let others be in an unfavorable situation with others, time grew, meet beside them gather together a batch of people, because they know to get along with him, won't be in an unfavorable situation. We often talk altruistic, confabulate quantity, do not let others be in an unfavorable situation namely constitutionally actually, want you to taking such state of mind and thinking only, so no matter where you walk along, can suffer other welcomes and entertain.
Be in an unfavorable situation is a kind of foresight
Actually, so called cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, it is the dribs and drabs of the life, you are others consider everywhere, consider the benefit of others everywhere, put others on the heart constantly.
True far-sighted person, he is met certainly the feeling of mature others, on the basis that has become oneself, also can benefit other people, have a kind of consciousness that serves another person forever, know be in an unfavorable situation is a kind of foresight.
I remember my university the first year, our class has the quota of people of fellowship of annals of two countries encourage, his bonus 5000 yuan, at that time, my achievement is very good, the count as one of the best in the class. 3 people enter into an election contest these 2 quota of people, the counsellor asks us 3 people: Who is willing actively to abandon this quota of people, let others, take again next year? 5000 yuan learn to say natively to us, it is the living cost of one semester, temptation is very great, contend for with do not contend for, choose very hard, contending for is honor and temptation, be not being contended for is to put no less than mixing to fear to be couldn't get later.
A person chose actively to abandon, and I am the person that that choice contends for, but I admire him very much momently in that, because I am not done in those days, he became me later special the friend that be close friends. Big 3 when, he became a squad leader, obtained this scholarship next, to now we concern very good all the time, keep in touch all the time, I also acquired to him: Do not contend for, criterion nobody can contend for the world to it.
Be not being contended for is one kind is in an unfavorable situation spirit, it is a kind of foresight, transcend the self of instantly, character is established at a draught rose, love the person that be in an unfavorable situation, he has foreground and appeal more.
Be in an unfavorable situation is a kind of state
Why be cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine? Cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine actually very simple, with respect to two thinking, the first, want to open oneself heart quantity, let oneself learn to be in an unfavorable situation; The 2nd, want to change oneself wrong intention, unscramble this world correctly. If a person is staring at the gain and loss before only, so he is in basically all one's life live period wander, all one's life drift from place to place, at fend, suffering can'ts bear character.
Be in an unfavorable situation is a kind of thinking, also be a kind of state.
Alleged be in an unfavorable situation, it is to achieve long-term goal better, no less than that one word: Person abasement, because the goal is ambitious,be. If we all the time a mu for oneself 3 distribute land be in an unfavorable situation, so your pattern and border are so big also, a person with a very limited outlook of no less than, feel the sky is such nevertheless all the time.
I like Li Jiacheng's way very much: One pupil meaning, we can take 7 minutes, take 6 minutes, our Li Jia takes 4 minutes only, this is the requirement of our Li Jia, come down so for a long time, the person that cooperates with you will be increasing.
Think now, this is how great wisdom, is human concern not such?
Let people sense forever when you, cooperate with you, work together, always do not allow the word that the other side is in an unfavorable situation, so your person arteries and veins is wider and wider, the relationship is better and better also.
Break through the ego in human nature and selfishness when you, the society is in an unfavorable situation, you will be on a circuit of life, this circuit, the view is better, the thought is taller, the person is more exiguous, this is the pursuit with advanced human nature, this is a kind of advanced life cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine.
Accordingly, when oneself face the choice of life, must tell oneself:
Be in an unfavorable situation is a kind of habit;
Be in an unfavorable situation is a kind of foresight;
Be in an unfavorable situation is a kind of state.
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