Have on the net so a word: "Silent, it is a person's oldest cry. It is a person's oldest cry..
Means says, person silent, be by life efface edges and corners, it is a kind of compromise to the world, it is a very sad thing.
I feel however, if you are silenter and silenter, do not want to say more and more, this is not cowardly, not be compromise, mean however, you look a lot of weaker thing, look down on a lot of people, you become more and more mature.
Bright and not dazzling, softness has power very much however.
1, see the person clear, be inferior to a person look down on
Young when, like to argue with the person particularly, special care about others the view to oneself, encounter the issue with bit of large sesame seed to also like to look for person complaint.
Later, be brought up slowly, discovery likes silent sense more and more.
Wear urgently no longer dispute with the person oneself view, understand gradually, not be everybody lives in same a sea mile, experience is different, 3 view are different, regular also to the view of a thing meeting differs somewhat.
Path travel together together a paragraph, the method is different do not be seek.
No longer oneself all feeling place the body in others to go up. Feel to be together with who comfortable, with respect to great society, if feel tired, the choice is silent, be far from slowly is.
The life is already such and hard, should not importune oneself to go surely please who, who to cater to.
There was pain in the life, also fool urgently no longer fool the ground to look for person complaint. Because of oneself suffering, only oneself understand. Say more, others can feel you are argumentative only, be inferior to seeking a quiet corner, seek an issue that makes oneself happy, alone cure injury, hush jubilates.
Person this lifetime, can encounter a lot of people after all, and each person that appears in your life, have its sense.
Love your person, give you warmth and courage; The person that you love, let you learn how to love with share; The person that you do not like, church you how good-tempered with esteem; Do not like your person, let you institutional self-communion and grow.
Life travels like, some people get off in this one station, some people get off in below one station, can travel together one Cheng, already was greatest lot.
When the person that accompanies you should leave, although be not abandoned also this heart is put appreciate, learning look down on, wave to fasten next.
We are the passing traveller between heaven and earth, thing of on the world a lot of support of the people, we cannot be done advocate.
Hill and water are OK two two-phase forget, day and month can be without association. On human society road, we should walk alone eventually, look down on, the talented person will be happier.
2, see through the thing, be inferior to seeing the thing weak
Half a lifetime already passed, you are silenter and silenter, be clear nevertheless, a lot of things imagine without oneself medium so important, want, calculated, chose then silent.
A long time ago, a king wants to seek a word, this word should let happy person listen sad, sad person listened glad.
But he spent a lot of time to ask a lot of people, did not find.
Until one day at night, one is in in the dream wisdom person said a word to him: "All these can go! "All these can go!!
Affairs of human life is like smoke, time brings a great change to the worlds, no matter be good,still be bad, doing not have a thing is lasting and changeless.
Do not appear to those seeing, the matter that drops hard, silent it is best weapon, time is best antidote, can let all pasts.
Do not know from when to begin, I liked wildly to go up this word: "Remain indifferent to other's opinion, the flower before idle views law court blossoms fall, go staying innocently, free along with universal cloud cirrus easy. Free along with universal cloud cirrus easy..
It became my life admonition almost. Every time I am sad and sad, when be not being arranged by person misunderstanding, job, I can come with this word him encourage:
Life tens of carrying, what we care about now, of dispute, already got, did not get, it is the very brief an instant in life endless flow nevertheless;
A few years or farewell crosses a head to look after ten years, everything is as transient as a fleeting cloud, completely undeserved Yu Huai of our be troubled.
Survive of in the future, tell oneself, happy also, break calm also, see each thing that produces in weak life, silent and quiet, shallow laugh peacefully.
3, like silent, because,be nevertheless more and more mature
Had looked so a word:
Nobody cares about you how be late night cry bitterly, also nobody cares about what you should toss about to want to boil a few autumn, alien sees a result only, oneself stay a course alone.
Waited for you to understand this reason, won't be affectedly unconventional before the person, recount comfort of in an attempt to everywhere.
When you silenter and silenter, do not want to say more and more, should be you more and more mature, a lot of works look weak, look down on of a lot of people.
So, when wanting to argue, want, calculated, chose then silent. Also resemble no longer junior when in that way, wanting how to blend in the world of others constantly. Age grows gradually, like to go up slowly quiet and be in alone.
Idle will do not have a thing, prepare fine eat point to oneself and domestic person; Clean a house, place the interesting little thing that oneself buy; Wearing headphone, listening to favorite music to take a walk in the park; Hold a book in both hands, wait for quietly afternoon. . . . . .
If you see a person aloof, sit up corner, shallow laugh peacefully, not blatant, not make public, he is done not have not happy, just feel, silent condition, better off.
A person is again clever, also cannot at every turn is seen through; A person again wisdom, also cannot everybody is understood.
Truly mature person, if clear past flows, the condition with best life, not be clamour of escape car Ma Xuan, plant in the Xiu Li in the heart however chrysanthemum.
Survive of in the future, wish you are not contended for do not grab, do not be troubled by not angry, neither haughty nor humble, silent in order to be opposite, hush jubilates.
