Encountered domestic Yo doesn't dispute know how to be solved do how? Might as well will look!

The a bitth: Encourage a family to reunite, reach consensus

Often cannot see grandbaby or the grandfather grandma that often see grandbaby and have pressure very much too can have trouble.

If grandfather grandma lives around, sit to discuss with them, how to reunite to just can let they and you feel appropriate, reach an everybody to feel comfortable plan.

If you are very busy, the time that reunites with grandfather grandma is very few, should discuss this issue with them more. Explain to them you hope to maintain close relationship with darling, and how does the plan come true.

Can see them afternoon Saturday regularly, have a meal together on the weekend, go to a park taking a walk together, play game together, bake biscuit together, travel together.

If grandfather grandma has enough time to take care of darling, the problem is they were familiar with too, is not too unfamiliar.

If you do not come to feel very uncomfortable via the announcement to grandfather grandma, should speak out -- this is the method that can allow them exclusively to understand you experience. Will in order to be full of the means of love explain your demand to privacy, such you can be visit ready-made.

at 2 o'clock: The society accepts difference

You may not agree with father mother or kin friend is opposite Yo the view of the problem. Remember, when making the decision that fosters a respect about darling, those who have final power to make decisions is the parents of darling.

To avoid ceaseless attrition and brawl, your manner should be made clear and sturdy, but should stress some of strategy.

To your parental explanation, they had fostered you very well, you have confidence and ability to had reared your child now.

Tell them, you listen to their proposal very gladly, you also can listen to the proposal of doctor, other expert, book, but you yourself must make a choice.

at 3 o'clock: Some more agile

Toddle period is capable also to handle the different regulation of different family. Darling can know before long, cannot put the foot on sofa in grandfather grandma home, and TV can watch after dinner.

Want the most crucial principle to be able to keep consistent only, self-effacing grandfather grandma. If you very oppose their broken regulation, so before you make response, think repeatedly.

Explain rationally to grandfather grandma calmly why you should set regulation, and it is important that their esteem has many to you.

at 4 o'clock: Not angry

The Yo that accepts others gracefully to be offerred actively the proposal is very difficult, no matter this proposal is to come from the beautiful lady on the bus, still be the ill-mannered salesperson in cheeper things shop, or comes from your mother.

Even if " darling should wear sweater " , or " you should not say him when he cries " , let you possibly feel disgusted very much, make you angry, let you produce conflict.

React however too intense can create the tension with human needless relation only, should accept the proposal of others kindness so, have what change, without increase strive to do what is beyond one's power.

at 5 o'clock: Support open attitude to learning

Although your Yo style and the option that raise darling are different from someone else completely, also do not mean you cannot from the grandfather useful experience is acquired over there the grandma.

So, will listen attentively to the opinion of others with open manner, think in you they are correct or point out when the mistake come.

at 6 o'clock: Educational parents

A lot of years ago, people thinks darling sucks big toe is the show that the mood has a problem, and people thinks this is a kind of normal ego comforts a habit only now.

People thought catch a cold may cause a cold generally in the past, and people has known those who cause to the cold is virus now.

Compare in one's childhood with you, a lot of Yo had changed thoroughly with sanitarian knowledge, idea, unless grandfather grandma is paediatrics doctor, otherwise they do not follow probably to go up situation.

Accordingly you can read this book through encouraging them or other concerned Yo book, let them also understand contemporary Yo knowledge.

at 7 o'clock: Obtain other opinion

If grandfather grandma is bigoted, make you cannot decide whether you are correct, can seek the help of this darling doctor, book.

You understand morer, the confidence that decides to oneself is fuller.

at 8 o'clock: Unite your opinion

You and sweetheart should unite Yo opinion, no matter whether is grandfather grandma disturbed. And should consider, you want all to answer your parents together not only, answer other family even.