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Give birth to the Zhao Liying after the child, like disappearing it seems that, very long did not appear in public eye shot.
About her recent situation, still disclose from mouth of peak of Feng carry on.
When the wife is being mentioned when Feng Shaofeng is being interviewed recently however, mention, produce child the Zhao Liying mood after becomes not stable.
Have second when he is holding the child in the arms to nurse, bout head discovers Zhao Liying cried actually, cry to still say to him at the same time at the same time: "Can (adopt the child) a bit lighter, a bit tenderer ah. A bit tenderer ah..
Everybody never thinks, so firm girl, after giving birth to the child, also become so sensitive and flimsy unexpectedly.
Remind Feng Shaofeng with respect to somebody then, "Can clever treasure be to get depressed disease? " , the hope can take seriously as him marital rise.
Really, after when the woman gives birth to the child, become the mood was not stabilized, it is postpartum depressed augural.
Let her cry, it is the husband adopts the child only it seems that such bagatelle, but because,also be such bagatelle, final force a woman very likely to the brim that break down.
A word says, female this effeminate, for Mu Zegang.
Can be to those women that give birth to the child character, "For Mu Zegang " , just be most pulled chicken broth!
Everybody feels they should be firm, who still can be cared about do actually they also have sensitive and flimsy when?
The mom that each normal and clinking looking, once had shed tear countless times in the late night.
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Should say doubt is like Zhao Liying postpartum and depressed, have mark completely actually but abide.
When wait for birth, "Lie essence of life " " elder sister of do the splits " the appellation that waits for each to be full of ill will, be gotten on to her head by the coronal.
After giving birth to the child, face the network force that blot out the sky and cover up the earth, can be imagined to the blow of a woman that just produces.
Besides the influence of the outside, "When Mom " hind the change that go up to the body of a woman and brings on the heart, do not have method to ignore more.
Feel the most painful not to pass before unripe child " childbirth is painful " , after can giving birth to the child, ability discovers, "Lactation is painful " just be most of VIP life.
The man cannot understand to be fond of what degree after all, feel fussily even.
Zhang Ziyi is in " the romantic journey of the wife " in had said: "Play is patted to had sufferred the pain of so much injury before, be not a patch on goes up the pain of the grandma. Be not a patch on goes up the pain of the grandma..
Does Zhang Ziyi pat play to many go all out? Ligament is torn off, fingernail hits Feidouyi sound not throat, nowadays however the identity of an a n experienced person tells girls, go up the grandma just is her this all one's life has sufferred the biggest painful!
Not only it is Zhang Ziyi, zhu Dan also has said, every time when the daughter sucks the breast, be in in her heart defy, "A bit slower, a bit slower, do not come over... "
Know that is that darling obviously in the heart, should go be very fond of her, but body susceptive is painful let her treat the child instinctively however " great scourges " .
Not only bear hard sorely, more those who make a person helpless is, the woman is the full time oneself was meant to dedicate after giving birth to the child the child, 24 hours circulate indefinitely, let you minute minutes break down distrustful life.
Know a netizen describes so:
"My resembling lives in a sealed polybag, the opportunity that breathes freely even is done not have, whole person as expanding hind, rapid and shrivelled balloon. Rapid and shrivelled balloon..
And compared with these even bloodcurdling, be the husband do not show sympathy.
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Before paragraph time, first postpartum and depressed medicine comes out, but in small gain however scamper boiler!
Because the price of this medicine is very high, cure is about 200 thousand the left and right sides.
The someone in the comment says:
Give birth to a child just, as to? You are to cure, the family is depressed.
Want to admit, this word is thought in countless men heart really, it is to give birth to a child nevertheless, what to consider ill? Is is it worthwhile spent 200 thousand go treating?
Mention lightly a few words, feminine place susceptive ache and affliction are obliterated entirely, in his eye, you not worth this 200 thousand.
In video of a commonweal, a few hear the wife says he had postpartum and depressed man to express the opinion with him real heart:
A wife keeps back tear says he longs to help very much, try to let the husband understand the sentiment with him depressive heart.
But the man says however: "Your mood is bad because produce,not be, I feel you this is not postpartum and depressed. I feel you this is not postpartum and depressed..
This wife memory removes him most when breaking down, ever had said to the husband, " I take extreme kind only, can you just regret to did not take good care of at that time I? " .
Did not think of the husband that is the same as experience is such answers to a bit cannot feel at that time, he says: "Go, I also did not want to live, we goes dead together! We goes dead together!!
Also the wife says him each days to be full of negative sentiment, she treats herself as is domestic burden, spend again already depressed.
But the husband believes far from " postpartum and depressed " this kind is ill, he thinks this deceives people on the network toughly, "I feel what this has ah " .
In his eye, she is ask for trouble, want too much...
"Does your where cry depressed? You are too argumentative "
"Is people born the child? "Is people born the child??
"Do you know I am propped up outside it is not easy to remove this home to there is many? "Do you know I am propped up outside it is not easy to remove this home to there is many??
"How are you mixed like changing a person, I feel you are very unfamiliar... "
Hear such word from the person mouth that loves most, increased a path cut again on the heart of dripping wet of female people blood again undoubtedly.
Affliction of your place susceptive, never the person can feel with experience.
You are arrived to was about to break down by torment, he still feels " you are too argumentative really " ;
You had raised small knife obviously, does he still ask in reply you " you as to should want work to death so? Does he still ask in reply you " you as to should want work to death so??
He did not commit murder, gave a knife to you with one's own hands however.
This year in March, a young mother of 28 years old is in Hangzhou to feed grandma hind to the child, jump down from 23 buildings, die on the spot. Before this, she has sufferred from went up postpartum and depressed disease.
Her husband is in the accident at that time which unknown, but because,he is met necessarily of the wife regret all one's life to death.
Why be she herself is in to breathe out until weep by torment of late night child breathe out to sleep greatly?
Why be her mood out of control to him complain tearfully when do oneself blame her to be affectedly unconventional instead?
Why are oneself always so busy? Busy be about to jump to her building, oneself are foolish still foolish do not know...
Before she is dead, ever also appealed to him, it is he did not detect only.
If a man is in the wife is postpartum, had given her the understanding of the oldest rate and help, the person that loves most so has not loved enough, whose be willing to part with or use goes dead?
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We want to admit, all people that had not laid the child, right postpartum and depressed those who know is very little.
Data makes clear:
Be in China, every 10 puerperas, 1 contracts postpartum and depressed disease. Occurrence mood is low, sensitive the puerpera of the depressed symptom such as uneasiness is to be as high as 50% above more.
In female death incident, the suicide brings about have 20% postpartum death, and depressed it is to bring about a female the first cause of formation of postpartum death.
This number makes a person shocking simply, so the husband should understand: Her postpartum and depressed not be argumentative, it is to fall ill.
What you should do is to give her to show sympathy and be encouraged of the oldest rate let her recover, is not to have no feeling for invective even photograph to.
Zhang Jia Ni He buys the marriage that exceed very sweet it is clear to believe a lot of people, buy super- for a time in order to bestow favor on wife famed.
But the man that bestows favor on you to love you again also can have lax when, zhang Jia Ni ever was mentioned in interview, after oneself give birth to the child although Laogong is already first-rate, but two people still can quarrel.
"Because he cannot understand me completely, can feel only: I already for company you, do you still want me how? Do you still want me how??
But even if is such, buy exceed or learning to make allowances for a wife, not only prepare food personally cook Bao soup, relative still strength helps the child change make water to nurse in person piece, won't invite her be put into trouble as far as possible.
If love your person truly, even if cannot feel with experience, also not be willing to part with or use lets you get the grievance of a tiny bit.
Taking care of the child is not mom one the individual's thing, however the responsibility that wife and husband should assume jointly, also be the obligation that you are fulfilled together.
If postpartum and depressed to the woman character is a catastrophe, so as long as beside somebody is accompanied, they cross disaster peacefully with respect to regular meeting.
Finally, na Muxi hopes authority is clear:
Should understand most postpartum and depressed, not only it is every are about to upgrade the woman that becomes mother, still have married or maiden man somewhat.
If you feel she bears children for you,be manage place ought to...
So you go doing one's best, the appearance that she bestows favor on everybody to be envied, it is manage place more ought to.
