Civil / Xia Mo
01
Love is the faery that does not eat terrestrial cooked food, love is 10 show the romance that does not touch spring water lives. Because,the premise that major person walks into marriage is love. Money, do not have very big concern with marital love it seems that.
Money is most be full of lay breath, some people walk into marriage not to want money for love, however oversight if marriage does not fulfil the one congee of alive common on one meal, do not fall of real money use on, that basically is not happy.
The first paragraph of marriage of Xu Yan married her the love that maintains in the heart, she what await in those days, youthful vital energy is filled, see two sweetness that the person gets along only, see the pressure that is less than the life.
Married love abandoned money, so the sweetness of matrimony is temporary only, can be hard years only later.
At that time, xu Yan is hiring the life after the marriage that they began in the house that come with the husband, when love come out flowery appearance, the 100 hole of has the life only 1000 sore that leave.
The chummage water and electricity of every month, each living expenses is beating alarm bell in Xiang Xuyan.
Parental birthday because she is not taken give a decent gift and lie to parents say the company was arranged work overtime, do not smoke give time to go back accompany them.
Once on the weekend when, a few good sisters are being made an appointment with shop together drink afternoon tea, final authority bought the clothing shoes cosmetic of packets of big packet, and Xu Yan's awkward hold the bag.
She explains the thing that says to did not see she likes, it is impoverished actually.
Xu Yan returns the home in, see the husband still lies in the lethargy on sofa, his abdication already 3 months.
Xu Yan urges he applies for a job, he always says not urgent, all the day the nest plays game to perhaps sleep to become aware greatly in the home, lose all life pressure emaciated wife.
How cannot Xu Yan also think of, the love that oneself maintain can enter such condition, see a light that is less than future, the husband before also cannot give her to once lived affirmatorily, clinking Gu suffers from her heart.
The love marriage that does not have economic base is unfortunate, also be brief. Married love, married the person that oneself love, but of money be short of break the marriage that can let oneself to be stained with agonized flavour.
02
Money is marital safeguard, without money, life one cannot say for sure, no matter before it is the other side of how deep love, affection of husband and wife is ground to get a remnant by actual poverty very few.
The building that Xu Yan leases is very damp, the time that live grew, body of the feeling that make swallow has a lot of unwell, she discusses with the husband, look for afresh a little better house.
The man says however: "You are fastened choice, our what condition don't you know? Think fine house, are you rich? Are you rich??
Xu Yan is kneading the joint of because of change of weather ache at the same time, if Li Jian pricks the speech to her,hearing the husband at the same time, xu Yan asks him: "Do you plan all one's life such? I do not want all one's life to live in lease the building that come in, every spend a minute of money to want calculation a long time! Every spend a minute of money to want calculation a long time!!
"Did you regret now? When you marry me at the outset, say not to care about me to have money, also had not feared hard time, did you forget? Did you forget??
In small rented house, diffusing the atmosphere of at swords' points, xu Yan argues with him no longer, she feels their thought has been absent same an orbit went up.
Without money, so the life can resemble is one layer upon layer billow, destroying two the individual's feeling.
Xu Yan uses the time on the weekend to helped others make count of a data, earn the Qian Gang that come to be able to buy bit of thing to parents very much, already one year did not visit father and mother, special ashamed remorses in her heart.
Result husband agreed to buy fund entirely without what pass Xu Yan game equips, xu Yan is interrogatory he when, ground of his not worry at all says: "Is your money my money? Spent you to earn again come back not to go! Spent you to earn again come back not to go!!
The grievance that accumulates in the heart that make swallow and but made her big cry, she looks at mildewy wall, the ashtray of crowded butt and the beer bottle that the corner piles up, her heart grey meaning is cold, chose finally to end the first paragraph of marriage.
Without money, the economic pressure of surface of life square field, bumping to their feeling.
03
Money, it is the foundation of life quality. What cannot say money can decide marriage is happy, but the major factor that money is influence marriage quality absolutely.
After Xu Yan and husband divorce, oneself all time and energy are thrown in the job, each her effort, got due get one's own back.
Not only compensation rose two phase, her working ability also got the company is led approbate with admiration, the leader promotes her to become the officer of business group later.
She tries hard so, do not hope to place oneself future namely go up in others body, also do not hope oneself struggle in the day that does not have money again.
Xu Yan knew a pretty good man Guo Kun in the job, his job is very aspirant, having firm demand to oneself, and loosen of the job quite, make Yan Jiao get two people very in harmony.
Two people interacted one year, wedding was held in sound of a blessing, one in an instant, the life after marriage had gone 3 years, before Buddha compares the copy that make swallow more show young, on the face, it is the smile of peaceful.
Before marry, xu Yan put brushstroke money, and the husband also has certain profitable capacity.
They live in two new houses that the person buys together, decorating children room together, on the weekend when the parents that goes visitting both sides together, enjoying real joy adding up to the home.
And, because at hand is not short of money, the quality of the life also got ameliorative, she also need not not spend a minute of money again and dispute, also need not another individual carries an one picket marriage. Double marital salary is her, let her there is safe feeling very much in marriage.
The 2nd paragraph of marriage is mixed more easily than the first paragraph of marriage instead comfortable, life quality is higher also.
After Xu Yan remarries, understood a reason: Money, it is the germ of happy marriage. Money is the safeguard of the life, also be marriage most fundamental part. To happy marriage, the choice is more than hard.
04
Marriage resembles is to pass through a window to scatter the sunshine that come down, little trifling broil is hot, little one dazzing, still can enlighten however inmost corner, can the heart of warm loneliness.
In marriage, money and love after all which more important?
Perhaps be in everybody in the heart, money and the proportion that love holds are endless and same, it is to be short of however one cannot.
Because of love, two talents have courage to make next Xiang Shouyi's unripe commitment, without the variable of dread future and harships, want to have the company of the other side and support only, all the way rough metropolis turns each other into the ornament in life.
And the attrition that certain economic condition can reduce two people to arise in the life, can make a lot of romance in ordinary life more, express each other feeling, make two hearts more sturdy.
Money, just be the germ of happy marriage. I am not to encourage a woman to become do obeisance to gold, babbitt, let a woman must think before marry however the economic condition of the other side and working ability.
When the woman chooses a partner, believe love brings his happiness only, and do not go thinking the economic condition of the other side and working ability, it is blind, also be not responsible to oneself future.
Feminine oneself has certain economic base, also know maintain economic independence, can gain the favour of fine man more, can harvest high grade marriage more.
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