A lot of people have the business that does not do busily everyday, not be to say these things should belong to him do, be in an unfavorable situation however the mouth in oneself is lumpish on, when managing to others preach, others always gives him persuaded, darling finally go to what dry while still alive works be free from anxiety quite much also, but the thing with fall good did not concern with oneself, if you also are to attribute this kind of situation, ask everybody to not be in an unfavorable situation again saying to pass a someone on this weakness, remember below the regulation of these conversation, do a clever honest person.
[1] demote the family's word does not say.
If ourselves sufferred others derogate, oneself think state of mind is what appearance, the feeling inside him heart is good bad still, need to suspect to be affirmation is very afflictive inside him heart far from, so clever person too this kind of psychology that understands authority appeals to begged, won't debase a family, saw what can keep only after the family go complimentary and praise be encouraged what can keep only to the family and make interest, everybody must notice the pattern of this kind of conversation, the person study that wants Xiang Congming also wants to substitute similar word with other words, let oneself become particularly clever and special honest honest person.
{! - - PGC_COLUMN- - }[2] the word of jest other people does not say.
Everybody has his proper pride, no matter he made how old mistake, also need to get the understanding of others, so clever person does not laugh at person of say a few parting words, won't laugh at the weakness on person of say a few parting words more, always can reason and objective get along with the person, won't be fastened the influence of the defect on person, so clever person, the word of jest person won't speak out from inside their mouth, they do not have those who speak a word that go to consider others to experience, so their popularity is met commonly very good, clever person considers the sense that shows backside well, let oneself also become a mouth to go up very autonomic person, you are met from the success closer and closer.
[3] after the event does not say if all arrowroot are bright.
After Zhuge of so called moment shines even if family work laboriously did the business, of result and own expect different, a lot of people mock others, say others here incorrect, when beginning there wrong, this kind of after the event is the thing that makes a person very angry if all arrowroot are bright, since you are so clever, what look to the thing is so lucid, are you dry when beginning went? You is this mocking me namely? You is this to be in look down on me? So scarcely of this kind of word wants to come out besides from inside his mouth, occupied say a thing, everybody does not think eventful.
[4] hypocritical falsehood does not say.
He knows clever person everybody of the heart appeal to begged, each person does not want to listen to falsehood, each person wants to listen to the object that each person thinks honest word and he interacts is honest person, tell hypocritical lie so to clever person, won't speak out from inside their mouth, they every speak out a word, it is to use oneself sincerity to move of others, is not to use his affectation to win the credit with temporary others.
[5] if seeing through, do not say.
Those who a word says is very classical, be called see through, do not say to just calculate a good friend fully. Clever person is too so reasonable, the harm that pair of others speak out after was being seen through, so they are standing fast a basic principle, even if was to see through his friend to have a load on one's mind, they also won't speak out, they always are thinking method to comfort them, always thinking method to guide, and won't harm others baldly directly, this are worth us to think over well really.
