Weak force, corresponding at carnal force, formal name " spirit is violent " . This kind of force it won't hit the child a bloody nose and a swollen facely, but the heart that enough lets children gets hurt. This kind of rough stuff has an apparent characteristic: His potential risk often is ignored by the parent, even the parent is met the task this kind of behavior is of course, with respect to this so educational child.
Weak force is right like a rainstorm of seedling like destroying, can produce a lot of bad effects to the child:
1, let the child lose self-respect, let the child more fear to interact with the person.
2, to the child negative psychology is alluded, cause huge to the heart negative effect.
3, to the child that err, can let the child do not know him fault is in only, how to go correcting. Slowly, produce self-abased psychology.
In domestic education, how to prevent weak force.
1, undertake good communication with the child, when the child errs, hear the child's opinion first, not rapid move sticks label, put a label on sb.
2, esteem child, give the child the chance of the choice, help child grows in fall and erring.
3, reduce a demand, do not have too slashing demand to the child, the thing that allows the child to meet others becomes him to know, after all, the place that each child is good at is different.
The child's health grows is not to make sure good material is possible, the health on the heart also is very important, when the child errs, parents should teach the child with accurate method, force can harm the child only, can not have what effect.
