In marriage all breaking down, because husband and wife does not know this,be!_News

Common saying says, "Repair 10 years so that cross with the boat, hundred years repair in all pillow Mian " , every are god-given lot to husband and wife. Wedding is the ending of story of every paragraphs of fairy tale, but the final a home to return to that is not the life however, every are in to the couple after the lively, sweetness that has tasted wedding passes, what should boil the ability of joys and sorrows of life that get along to be searched finally together more is satisfactory.

In recent years, divorce rate is to go tall successively, the spitting that drew very much elder from this groove: "Is the youth known namely cherish marriage " , " person not so return a responsibility? Open an eye to close a key point, who following is not to pass too, clean blind do sth over and over again " ... such similar spitting groove still has a lot of, look in older generation, marriage is this from one and eventually, even if be wrong also this one fault after all! But, those who be worth to rejoice is, this times, people had known for oneself work, a few years life is brief, do not have necessary blame and the person that let him hold back bend to be pestered together.

Zhao Qian and Li Lei ever were the suitest pair in everyone eye, appearance of male talented woman, 3 years short time, when hearing the news that they divorce, everybody was astonished.

When we find Zhao Qian, the innocent and optimistic smile on her face is early in former days had lost sign, those who replace is one face exhausted condition, need not ask more, she is mixed in the grievance in this paragraph of marriage struggle already be clear at the heart.

Silent a long time, zhao Qian just slowly mouth, sound Yun Danfeng is light, heart of jab of actually word word: "In every case still can be borne, I also won't choose to divorce... "

"The travel of a thousand li only then at you, the bank of a thousand li breaks through Yu Yi acupuncture point " , detail decides success or failure, detail also smash marriage.

Zhao Qian says, "You say Li Lei is good, only I just know, all these is false appearance. He is enthusiastic really outside complaisant, but bout arrives in the home all sorts of filling uncle, I also experienced those who be less than him to ache really cherish and take care of, it is I am in completely indulge him. Such marriage is too tired really. Such marriage is too tired really..

Here, zhao Qian's tear has seized the socket of eye and go out, but she also is not considered again,went up, there is too much grievance to want to pour out in her heart.

Zhao Qian says, no matter be,help, the friend that wants Li Lei only looks for him, he immediately demur does not say the ground rushs forward, but if oneself are occupied, he is to be able to procrastinate absolutely, have many far hide much further.

Once the stair below Zhao Qian's mom broke a leg, in Zhao handsome heart extremely urgent, but oneself cherish pregnant to do not have a law to go back, want to call Li Lei to go back look, can take care of a few days to calculate a few days, use up heart of portion filial piety for oneself.

When she speaks of this thing with Li Lei, mention lightly ground says Li Lei: "This is too fussily also, I this will delay how many kongfu, you allow your home casually it which kin goes helping is OK that which kin goes helping, I do not go back! I do not go back!!

"Li Lei, that is my Mom, my one's own Mom, gave this kind of thing to should become much force of children giving a point originally, she still lies in the endure hardships on the bed, how can you say such word? You are disrelished irritated, still have which relative can reliable! I at the outset true not should far marry you! I at the outset true not should far marry you!!

Even if Zhao Qian is again angry, li Lei still apathetic, this and friend meet or meet, this card games still also was not delayed, finally still is Zhao Qian left a telephone call is right a phone, the whole thing said a lot of fine words gave brushstroke money to just let a kin agree to take care of her mom.

Zhao Qian says, that is her what experiencing for the first time is be bitterly disappointed.

Always be a lot of husband and wife think, the child is the lubricant between husband and wife, again big contradiction, again big estrangement also will melt in the child's pure smiling face. The person that has this kind of idea can be off base, true matrimony is not actually from get card to be engraved then begin, however from what there was the child to begin between you, truly good marriage can become more sweet because of the child's arrival, and because come and erupt of the child in the round,bad marriage is met.

Woman, must not give birth to the child casually, decide when you unripe child is engraved then, must ask oneself: "If divorced in the future, can I raise the child independently be brought up? " if the answer is affirmative, you are then bold unripe!

Zhao Qian says, he also feels Li Lei is some dot disposition previously, know not quite feel distressed person, she always thinks, it is good to had the child, but those who change is despair. She is bearing vomiting during pregnancy, buy dish to cook a meal, taste of disagreement of meal of in every case, li Lei can throw a chopstick to make fun of complexion; Occasionally meal has been burned, zhao Qian is tired meal of not feel like eating, when waiting for delay to cross interest to eat, turn over the cold broil of incomplete a thick soup that remain only; The fruit cordial that colleague friend sends, when Li Lei eats, won't ask she wants to eat...

After the child is born, zhao Qian put forward to divorce, she knows this paragraph of marriage cannot give her wanted warmth, but everybody persuades her: "It doesn't matter is alarming, you have child, cannot subdue the child " , zhao Qian hates to part with the child really, in the course of contacts is softhearted also, once the heart that can be a woman became cold cover very hard again warmed, give birth to the grievance that has sufferred during the child especially.

Happy marriage is the woman maintains best article, the woman that gets grievance too in marriage resembles is a heart in the decoct in boiler, always have boil work one day when boil, boil no less than going to marriage also came loose.

Li Qian still disregards everybody eventually object divorcing, replacing when everybody when she is regretful, her heart is happy however, need not be in everyday eventually " divorce " with " suffering is maintained " between become choice problem.

In life of husband and wife, small disappointment begins all breaking down. After marrying, a lot of people become lazy, become manage place ought to, because the affinity of two people ignores the feeling of the other side,begin. Such person is too much really! Their one side happiness, good patience and disposition left stranger, bring to bear on the worst one side on sweetheart body, it is only in the nest horizontal. Look in me, such person is true fool, there was this to plant between husband and wife " idea " , morning and evening must leave!

Actually, concern intimately the more, be worth us to spend more idea more, be worth us to take care to caress more, your spouse is worth after arduous business " worked hard " , your spouse is worth in cold winter night " warm hug " ... love relies on to say, should rely on to do more! In marriage all breaking down, because husband and wife does not know this,be!