Speak of headroom to throw thing, believing a lot of people is detest, it is called " those who in the sky be hanged in the city is painful " .
In abusive pop chart, calculate absolutely going up is the first place. Because of this besides it is a kind of uncivilized behavior, still can bring very great society harm.
Recently, village of some high level has ursine child to run to 32 buildings to support to throw a brick downward, just an aunt takes child stroll to bend within an inch of to be broken. And child parent responds to however: "Did not break a person again, put the child rapidly, scaring my newborn animal. Scaring my newborn animal..
Rebuke every time almost the child one stir up trouble, can cause whole society to condemn condemn. Argue comes dispute goes final end arrives the child is a piece of white paper, wrong is backside " Xiong Jiachang " , how is the child that unqualified parental belt comes out likely not Where is ask for trouble?
Not true " ursine child " , only true " Xiong Jiachang " .
Writer Yibanxingtailang has a word very famous, he says, "Think of parenting need not pass an exam unexpectedly, feeling true is too terrible " .
Like human nature, we are limitted very hard with a standard, after all what kind of parent is absolutely and perfect, can teach good child absolutely. Can come through experience lesson only depict goes out, what kind of practice is incorrect, what kind of him parent is unqualified.
The People's Daily once summed up 18 kinds of unqualified parents, be called " Xiong Jiachang " behavior checks a watch oneself, will quickly look up, in seeing you have, enrol?
These 10 kinds of behavior, bad child of easy be used to!
1
Give the child special treatment
The child is in the home positional a cut above other people, get everywhere special take care of, if eat " feed alone " etc, if things go on like this, the child can become selfish, did not sympathize with a heart.
2
The child errs present be partial to
A lot of parents with " not too severe, TA is small still " the mistake that is child of reason be partial to, this meeting makes the child devoid dispute idea, cause child disposition twist.
3
Notice the child overly
The all the time does not care the family the child, can make TA thinks he is a center, family should turn round TA.
4
Satisfy easily ask without reason
The child wants what parent what to give, such TA meeting nurturance are not known cherish, stress creature comfort and the nature that do not show consideration for other.
5
Permit the child the life is slack
Allow the child to carry feed, sleep lie-in, amuse oneself is done not have abstemious etc, such TA lack the desire to do better and willpower easily, be an upright person drift along.
6
To child beg
If the edge fools an edge to beg the child to have a meal, promise TA to take 3 stories the meal again. You jump over beg, the child jumps over behave coyly, not only unidentified differentiate dispute, the parent's authority also is met extinct.
7
Monopolize replace
Some parents never ask the child works, 34 years old feed a meal even, 56 years old still do not do any household things. Able and the laborious goodness that such children won't run necessarily, aspirant.
8
Spoffish
When the child falls ill, the parent is panic-stricken, blindly coddle, final meeting brings about the child not to let parents leave one stage, become cowardly and recreant.
9
Privative and independent
Contain in the mouth to be afraid of melt, spit will be afraid of fly away. Such child is met nurturance depends on psychology, often become " door tiger " , in the tyrannize in the home, to the outside cannot say boh to a goose, form disposition blemish.
10
Fear to cry be troubled by
Fear the child cries the parents that the father and mother that do is incapacity, if indulge child beats and scold parents, next selfishness, merciless, capricious seed can be sowed in TA disposition.
These 9 kinds of mom, be unqualified!
01
The mom that does not keep good faith
The work that promised must be accomplished, otherwise mom's authority can disappear, the child can become more indocile Yo. Of mom break one's promise behavior can establish inactive model to the child, let the child have the possibility that break one's promise at any time.
02
The mom that speaks ill of father
The child's half comes from father, the half comes from a mother, deny still parents among them one party, be equal to aeriform in the half that also denied the child.
03
Love vying mom
What always take the child's defect and others home child is a bit comparative, blame the child, can make the child ill-affected feel disgusted even, adverse also to developing the child's individual character and self-confident heart, still can let the child feel mom loves me far from.
04
Always say " I am good for you " mom
A few mom always have the heart that does not hold it seems that, but some just are being hit " good for you " banner, the life of child of program of do sth without authorization. Some want him child to enter namely, this is the life of TA, do not live for TA.
05
Do not respect the mom of child privacy
When some mom like to chat with friend, neighbour very much, announce the child's privacy at numerous. Every child needs to have his private field, even if his parents also cannot be interfered at will.
06
Grumpy mom
Some mom do not divide pair of faults to should vent one's anger the child canister, can let the child produce self-condemned psychology, he causes child fault thinks mom is grouchy. If things go on like this, the meeting after the child is grown is self-abased.
07
Love the mom of go about telling people how hard up one is
"It is not easy that you know to raise you to there is many? " this word special harm child. You can tell the child what can be bought, what cannot be bought, why cannot buy, but say not always " do not have money " , " can not afford " .
08
Too " abasement " mom
Reveal oneself when the child most the length of expert when, sometimes mom always says before the face of other the child is done badly, with showing oneself abasement. Actually, proper encouragement more be helpful for the child grow.
09
Always play the mother of the mobile phone
Because play a mobile phone,become mother and oversight the child, the child can feel mom is to be perfunctory oneself, also do not wish naturally to communicate with its. Close child communicate by block up, the child can become dissocial, shut oneself.
These 9 kinds of father, be unqualified!
01
Irratable father
If father is grumpy, hit person, name-calling easily, the child is possible also such, even rate is later. Father is disagreeable and irritable, cause the child possibly still to form low-down, cowardly disposition in fear.
02
Irratable father
If father is grumpy, hit person, name-calling easily, the child is possible also such, even rate is later. Father is disagreeable and irritable, cause the child possibly still to form low-down, cowardly disposition in fear.
03
Do not know the father that makes allowances for mom
Some father are right of the wife pay be accustomed to sth, shift the responsibility that teachs the child to mom even, this meeting lets the child lose safe sense. And the child's biggest safe move, come from parents be deeply attached to each other.
04
The father that absent child teachs
From father body, the boy can be acquired manful, the girl can be acquired how to get along with the opposite sex. As father, again busy again tired, want to assume a responsibility that rears the child, not let sb down " father " this appellation.
05
Be without the father of sincere letter
The father that suit the action to the world, it is the example in child heart not only, it is best to the child education more. Regular acceptance of eat dishes without rice or wine, can lose authority not only, also go against the responsibility consciousness that rears the child.
06
Control is about to cross strong father
If the idea act of parent of child total basis, do not have oneself option for a long time, they are met pressing want to go out independently from this home, and send more traitorous.
07
Preachy father
A few him father do not love to read a book, teach the child all the day however " do not watch TV, go quickly reading a book " . In fact, father is " manuscript " , the child is " Xerox " . Father hopes how the child is done, want to be made from oneself first.
08
The father with undesirable habits and customs
Some males notice the individual is wholesome not quite, do not love to bathe, brush one's teeth, the child won't differentiate to the fault, can learn accordingly only. Like smoking, drinking father to be able to bring the child the influence of exert a subtle influence on more.
09
Severe father
If father is opposite with stern face all the time the child, time became long easy generation estrangement. One but the child has what problem, can appeal no longer at father, also won't discuss with father, make wrong decision very easily.
The family teachs the lifetime that affects the child
Weigh a result, heavier process
Parental there is no shirking the responsibility
Origin │ People's Daily small gain
