There are a lot of people to be in the ground hard to work on this world, but the result is not very good however, they often were paid a lot of, those who get is very few however, this also depends on choosing. This should see sunset as you, the direction of sunset is the west, and you look toward east however. You although very hard, but the way of the choice is wrong, your result is wrong certainly, you cannot see sunset forever.
The life is the process of a choice, resemble a playing card in the hand. When you are playing a card, always have different choice, and in the hand that these choose to master in you. You give which pieces of card to resemble choosing which road to be able to produce different final result euqally in the life.
If you ask a person today, ask whether he is satisfactory to his current situation, ask he has compunctious thing in the day in the past, had made wrong choice, I think the answer of major person is negative. Perhaps he had had wrong choice in the past, if these choose the word that can avoid wrongly, his today's life is different for certain.
The person's lifetime cannot make 4 faults. Which 4 faults be after all? Why cannot these 4 faults make? If made a result be met again how?
One, cannot learn bad thing
Person this all one's life the first fault that cannot make learns bad thing namely. If learn a fault, small to obtain employment, arrive greatly achievement life, will get great influence, can move toward another orbit of life because of this even.
It is very difficult to often hear a lot of undergraduates to apply for a job after blaming graduation. The reason with apply for a job very difficult is a country not only the influence of macroscopical element, mainer factor is us those who learn do not match with what we want. What are you learning now, can decide a certain number of your meetings after year get what kind of result. You acquired good intentions, so the get one's own back that you get finally can be fruit of a be apt to; If you learn is it is with the person evil, so the get one's own back that you get finally may be an evil consequence. So same argument, you should become a successful person, so the thought that you are about to learn successful person, how does the society promote his consequence, how does the society earn money. Very regretful is, the person that knows this truth is very much, but the person of real operation is very few. Saw the person beside know, a few people in them go to work complaining income is not high, the life favourable or unfavourable turns in life that blaming oneself is bad, complain to did not encounter Bai Le to wait, but come off work,they choose to read a few dull books however, or it is to sit before the television to look a few news that contain beguiling entertainment property or it is teleplay, below this kind of condition, conceivable still the thing that oneself mean, this is very difficult. 2, cannot follow wrong person
The ancients cloud, "One takes on the color of one's company, close Chinese ink person black " , admonish namely we, you chose to be with what person five, chose the route of a what kind of life namely. Common ground says: You want to become wealthy person, so you are about and wealthy person is together; You want to become star, so be about to star together with those; You want to become the past master that play go, so you are about to choose to be enrolled too with those go ace; You want to become a welcome person, you are about and be apt to is together at the person with other contact with. Be together with different person, you will have different life. Napoleon · rare Er saw Andrew · in Carnegie, they chatted after 3 hours, carnegie invites Andrew · Napoleon · Hill lives together in the home, so that make more thorough length,talk. After 3 days, andrew · Carnegie asks Hill accepts Napoleon · his entrust, go visitting top entrepreneur of contemporary United States to reach a few societies to know a personage personally, study their successful experience and result. Andrew · Carnegie also immediately showed this is expenditure of a need 20 years the long-term sex of above time works, and besides travel expenses, not any allowance and pay.
Want to accept such job, do not have economic respect again aid financially, a lot of people can produce hesitation, the meeting in the heart thinks, the person of my unknown to public, without great standing, how can you visit these old entrepreneur about? Another apprehension accepts next so great jobs namely, cannot get due pay from inside the job however. Pay only without pay, and this job unusually difficult, face a such jobs, I think a lot of people are met sniff, it is to want pay to just wish to work first probably, but Napoleon · rare Er is not, he considered 29 seconds to promise readily to come down only.
In fact, after Napoleon · rare Er spent 20 years of time to interview hundreds top and successful personage, he discovers these people have 17 collective successes idiosyncratic. He wrote down a book to cry accordingly " think become rich " , this has the book of epoch-making meaning originally, issued millions all over the world book. " think become rich " won money of a huge sum for Napoleon · rare Er not only, also gained extensive reputation for him, he is succeeded to learn originator for the world by person. The result of all these comes from the formidable job that does not have any pay at that one.
To avoid to follow wrong person, it is very important at 2 o'clock to still have:
1.Do not pick wrong friend
The person needs a friend, the person is the easiest be affected by the friend beside, so, you should pick pair of friends. Relation of the career achievement of a person and his person arteries and veins becomes direct ratio, relationship of person arteries and veins is better, the career succeeds more easily; Relationship of person arteries and veins is poorer, the career succeeds harder. Confucius says: Beneficial person 3 friend, caustic person 3 friend. Among the friend, good friend has caustic friend likely also, helpful friend brings the positive effect, person that brings great help to your career to your thought namely, caustic friend is the person that those thoughts that meet you only bring the negative effect, career to you to bring resistance, so, you should make helpful friend more, make caustic friend less.
2.Do not choose complex drill
Everybody needs a coach successfully: Handicraft person need master, the master is a kind of coach; Read in the school need teacher, the teacher is a kind of coach. The athlete needs a coach, commerce needs commercial coach. Renown division gives Gao Tu, the coach's level decided the bulk that the player makes, so, if you want to score greater success, be about to find a better coach. Tennis player Ajiaxi found Anthony of the first potential coach of world · Robin, below the guidance of Anthony · Robin and training, a Jiaxi becomes giant star of tennis of first of the rank on the world.
Read 10 thousand books to be inferior to road of travel a thousand li, road of travel a thousand li is inferior to reading a person countless, read a person countless be inferior to a Shi Kaiwu, renown the person that Shi Kaiwu is inferior to succeeding acts as a guide, I think this word won't have too much person to object. Do not know how to walk, best means is ask the way, the means with best ask the way is somebody is taking away you. The person that have a success is taking away you, can ensure you take roundabout way less.
3, cannot choose wrong profession
The industry has a lot of kinds, have the sunny industry that promotes gradually, also have industry of downfallen with each passing day the setting sun. Choose sunny profession, the trend that the industry rises can push you to advance; Choose profession of the setting sun, you give again much effort, also have hard serve as greatly.
Besides, when you choose a profession, choose to oneself like and be good at even. The mistake that a lot of people make the most easily is a basis income chooses the job, the income of group where seeing is gone to high get in which group, and oversight oneself close after all improper make this group, when when him disclosure does not suit this group, do not agree to turn round for face problem again, conceal all dissatisfaction and anguish. Come so, the job won't have good result, the life also very won't happy.
Chinese common saying says: "Male be afraid of wrong travel, female be afraid of marry poor man. " should choose pair of professions, premise is understanding ego. Knowing ego is not a simple thing, proceed with of the interest that wants him foundation, specialty, hobby chooses a profession, such opportunities that you gain a success are gotten greatly much.
4, cannot seek wrong partner
A woman, if look for a fault spouse, so likely the happiness that of finish is lifetime. If a man looks for a fault spouse, so the can be him lifetime not only happiness of finish, and very possible him finish career and future, it is a familial happiness and development even.
Of life family satisfactory the foundation that is a success. Female choose a fault male, live in misery all one's life, because the man is feminine support, when this support is fluky, the day that the woman lives in misery began; Male choose fault daughter, the influence is familial 3 generation, because the child is this woman place is strange, the mother is the child allow teacher.
As the girl, how to pick a boy friend? Provide the standard that picked a boy friend at 3 o'clock here, offer reference only: ① choosing has intense emotion, have energy, have ideal, have the person of fight. ② picks the person of heart having filial piety, not filial to parents person is opposite very hard hello. The person is disobedient without in order to establish a person, filial piety is placed in the first. ③ choosing is consistent, the person of do what one says. Do what one says is one individual sense of responsibility reflect.
As the boy, how to choose a girlfriend? Provide the standard that picked a girlfriend at 2 o'clock here, offer reference only: You like ① she, she also likes you. Yue of two affection photograph, ability is possible happy and infinite. If just just like other one party, such love and marriage are not easy firm. ② choosing is understanding, support your person. The person says successful man backside has a great woman, this word is very reasonable. An understanding woman can bring cheerful sense to you, bring good intention feeling to you; A person that supports you will bring the support on the career to you.
