Do not solve this problem, the child's study go up not to go forever!

01

Learn and take an exam, the student times in the child is the lie across one catastrophe problem between parents and child.

A lot of parents ask me, mr. Xiao Ling, idea of my home child is far from on study, how should do?

Before resembling before long my student, he is obsessed with at network game, but the parent understands far from why game can make the child such be obsessed with.

Can helpless send me here, hope child returns to the road of study at an early date.

02

When small Zheng Gang comes, there still is a mobile phone to play game in the hand, his parents very feel embarrassed, looked to had taught him a lesson all the way, but effect of it doesn't matter.

I wait for Xiaozheng patiently to hit that one, ask him again, what just doing.

"I am playing promotion game. " there still is excited look on small Zheng face.

"Is this promotion competition very fierce? " there was a background probably in my heart.

"That of course. Only my person has our village take part in the match qualification. " Xiaozheng looks very self-confident.

"Do then you just have the place that has acquired? "Do then you just have the place that has acquired??

"That of course, I guided our group to move toward a victory. I guided our group to move toward a victory..

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Through the communication afternoon, I understood the origin of game of small Zheng indulge probably.

Small Zheng achievement all the time not quite good, when delivering report every time, be unavoidable parental rebuke. Did not progress all the time plus achievement, psychological hard to avoid is disappointed.

Be in till him of the friend guide below, begin to play game, him discovery is very easy with respect to begin, and be said by the friend fierce, his inner first time had feeling of a kind of achievement. Be called by everybody occasionally even when great mind, oneself can feel very happy. Jump over in network world fierce, he does not want to read more, also more and more detest an exam, achievement is more one low again low.

03

A lot of parents think the child does not go on child learning, because the child does not try hard,be, did not read seriously.

Not be actually.

Because the child cannot enjoy study,be, the feeling in cannot learning and taking an exam is made feeling and happy sense.

Namely leader power of the parent is insufficient. The child is disobedient the parent's leader. Very may much parent had not heard of the view that heads force, but the parent also is need leader force, need lets the child be below your leader force, better absorption parental experience, learn better and grow.

04

The parent leads force to include square respect range, the feeling in how letting the child is learning and take an exam is made feeling and happy sense.

Only the child experiences joy and success in study, they just can produce the power of study, learn independently thereby. Mr. Xiao Ling also offerred a few kinds of methods to make the child is learning to be made feeling and happy sense with the feeling in the exam here

To the achievement of child how terrible, do not want anxious rebuke child. A piece of examination paper changes truely however instead showed the child to return gaps and omissions what knowledge. Accord child is affirmative, affirm the part of his oppose. Undertake communication with the child next, find out won't dot of fundamental sex knowledge, undertake checking leakage fill a vacancy,

Do not want to the child's target too tall, want to have the promotion that progress is level sex only. Set the ascensive target of little every time, do not give the child too great pressure. Proper award should give when progress.

In the process of effort, progress perhaps is slow, may be degenerative even. But, our parent must maintain enough patience, go accompanying the child's effort.

In the best course that learns in the child, guide the child to sum up the study method of that division. Strive for use other subject, suit oneself study method, often get twice the result with half the effort.

The feeling in learning only is made feeling and happy sense, the child just can have the power of study, learn independently thereby. A lot of parents do not understand this reason, blindly press child learns, can be just the opposite to what one wished only.