How should parents do with meaning marriage? 4 action help you solve a problem
Want to realize marriage is the thing of two families
We want to know, marriage is not two the individual's things, however the thing of two family, we cannot be in only love when pursuit is happy. Romance and stimulation, highbrow love won't have a result after all. If if we want to marry,parents does not agree however, we should learn to come down calmly, want to know parents meets us guard a pass for certain, parents does not agree, the point of view that explains they are using a n experienced person is analysed for you, at that time so we want reason to think, cannot treat love as simple two the individual's things.
Should comply with parental arrangement
We want to know, no matter parents said how offensive word, how to browbeat you, the move that how much made make you embarrassed, if they saw the weakness of the other side, saw you do not have the defect of discovery, we are about to comply with parents. Because be in this for a short while we are general brains is calorific, can discover the virtue of the other side only and cannot see weakness. Probably defect is met when after marrying, just discover, so if parents is analysed reasonably, we must comply with they.
Cold treatment period of time
If your parents does not agree with your marriage all the time, we are OK and sober, otherwise the result is not your compromise, it is you strong callous marriage and father and mother are real " break with " . The result affirmation of this appearance is not happy. Marrying is happy thing originally, is not the tie keeps in the heart. We can drop the matter temporarily, give each other a paragraph of time that thinks calmly. Every thing has settlement method, just be the problem of time.
Reason analyses your marriage
If your parents objects your marriage, have antagonistic reason certainly. As parents, the marriage that can worry about him child for certain whether can the object give him child happiness, the child that is afraid of oneself is subdued. We should know parents is older than us, deeper than our experience, of experience much also, so parental word also has their reason. So, we want reason to analyse our marriage, not actuation.
