Recently, dong Qing spoke of his former unripe family on some new book news briefing.
Dong Qing's father is an intellectual, his only daughter to oneself very severe and slashing. Father ever asked she cannot look in the mirror, do not let mom buy new clothes to her, also cannot attend any recreational and sports activities. From tall one supreme 3, every cold summer vacation should go to Dong Qing work, cleaner is done in guesthouse, can earn one yuan everyday. Dong Qing still is asked to begin to wash a bowl to do chore from 7 years old by father, everyday the playground runs 1000 meters, poem wanting a back carries ancient prose on the back to wait a moment.
Dong Qing says, father's slashing to her education means is to come from at him in one's childhood experience, father lives in Shanghai to esteem bright county in one's childhood an impoverished farmer family, should fish early greatly catch shrimp, classes are over finish household ability does work, in so difficult environment, father still takes an examination of department of news of Shanghai Fudan University, changed oneself destiny thereby. Dong Qing's father thinks, the person must be to bear hardships, the person got suffering too there just can be wedding day at the back of the day.
Father's severity and slashing the one's own daughter that ever let Dong Qing suspect he is not parents for a time. Until one day Dong Qing's father lifts goblet to apologize to her, the education that Dong Qing just understands to his success follows father is not divided, it is father let her learn to hold to.
Dong Qing says frankly, educational means of father caused negative effect to his disposition, let her feel her is inferior to the child of others home. Although had been done very well in the Dong Qing in people look, very successful, what but Dong Qing still feels,do is not quite good. The regular meeting when her has self-abased sentiment, what only oneself do is a lot of a lot of better than others, take a life to go even wrestle, ability can have safe feeling, ability can feel dependable.
When the reason that the kind of this kind of education that becomes the father that be asked about is Dong Qing success, dong Qing says frankly, the difference of everybody is very big, cannot grow oneself to teach a method as a kind with experience.
American famous family treats Great Master Sadiya to think, a person and his former unripe family is having the concern of countless ties, this kind of connection affects his lifetime likely. Serve as parents so, wanting hour to remember present family is the former unripe family of own child, every parents should use up him can, for the family altruistic pay, provide better environment and resource to the child.
Although give birth to a family to be able to be opposite formerly the disposition nature of a person and even 3 view have main effect, but there is perfect child on the world, also do not have perfect parents, more nonexistent perfect family. The thing has double-faced sex, everything also should see good one side. An impoverished family perhaps makes child heart self-abased, but also church the good quality that the child struggles difficultly; An irratable parents, ever perhaps made the child scared fear, without safe feeling, but after oneself experience its are endangered personally, meeting learn a lesson has patient, double ground to pay more to his family.
Without giving thought to the child that what family is born, life is inferior to the thing of meaning nine times out of ten, do not be inferior to oneself meaning attribute a fault to arrives to give birth to a family formerly, because of the past had gone, we cannot change parents and our former unripe family, want to seek the account that seeks oneself more, change oneself, ability has better life.
