Appeal to
Ms. Sun 49 years old of officeholder
1
The heart is more confused than last year
I make the mistake that the hand shakes again, last year is at that time such, the hand trembles badly, everyday the job wants gnash one's teeth to hold to. Cook in the home, scoop is not taken, I always am scolding myself, can be not controlled namely. My heart is compared this moment is more confused last year, be at a loss more.
The child the achievement of the university entrance exam is not ideal last year, it is me those who think is not ideal, if be put in people look, should be pretty good. My kink very long, final decision lets child answer read. I know, to a child, come again again tall 3, that is how difficult issue. People answer read unripe cry " Gao Sisheng " , that is to compare tall 3 a more difficult year. I am for long-term plan of the child, attend a good college now after all, still be very important thing. My son still is an obedient child, this also may be I am in charge of more severely to him as a child, cause him to do not have him definite idea, everything listens to me to arrange. Final, he is compliant my opinion, answer read.
Now is to be not advocated answer read, so, do not have in average middle school answer read a class, want answer read, can teach an orgnaization only. A summer vacation last year, I run in all sorts of education interagency, consulted a lot of people, inspected a lot of places, which I feel " not quite severe " . Finally, looked for how many relatives and friends to help, just send a school with an around particularly famous city to go the child answer read. At that time, a lot of people persuade me to be not done so, because this itself also is to violate compasses operation, do not know to be able to have a risk, and, also the effect that may not has had. The child also does not want, after all he had not left the home, oneself live to suit not to say first, he fears such disagreement regulations go going up answer read a class, can have future trouble. But, I can gamble, firm is cruel-hearted sent the past the child. Because I do not have time to accompany,read, give a kin of local the child. The child ability of every half month comes home one day, I go with respect to every half month, reunite in kin home and child. Look at the child to work hard more than last year, because of school work pressure, the environment changes, do not be free from anxiety again in the heart, one every day angular, I feel distressed so that be no good really. But the thing has been squeezed to arriving here, turn round impossibly again. As the university entrance exam is closer and closer this year, I was overcome again, this kind of present insecurity, even more violent than last year, because of what pay this year too much.
2
Irritated last year thing is too much
The study of my home child, should saying to return is pretty good, last year the judgement according to the teacher, he last good schools are unchallenged. To the child grow, my utilitarian heart is stronger, my entire painstaking effort and hope are on child body. Above all, I am a single close mother, his pa divorce has I and child 56 years, people says, well-advised least of all divorce is in child teen-age moment, but my former husband pursues only oneself are delighted, be in charge of the child far from grow and domestic responsibility. When divorcing, I think, must live so that resemble an appearance, must make a son outstanding, after, let him regret to go.
Have again, myself knows, I am a person with quite common and limited ability, it is to be in the unit no matter, still be in relatives and friends, I am too common, too easy by person oversight. The colleague of unit Li Tongling, still have home of relatives and friends the person of about the same age, have many children very outstanding, classics regular meeting makes the central point that other people envies, so, I hope the child can become my pride all the time. Of course, I also am to be child consider, although say an university,not be what tickler, but should attend a particularly good college, not easy still however.
Last year before the university entrance exam, my intense rate is a lot of higher than the child, insomnia, alarmed, hand trembles... I went even a lot of medicine, alleviate oneself pressure. The child takes an exam two days that, my god is not defended abandon, the first day sends the child to go examination room, forgot to carry wallet, there are the card that take a car and pocket money on the body, the subway does not have a law to buy a ticket. Last staff member knows I send examinee, let the green channel that I take. This small episode lets my soul-stirring, I feel this is not a good start, in the heart at odds. After the first day of exam, there is an old person to die in neighbour home, the voice of the come and go in corridor, footstep, let me listening to be mixed Jing thunder is same. I go out to let their bit sound ceaselessly, say my home child wants the university entrance exam, still be fallen by a few numbers: "What does the university entrance exam have marvelous. " rise with respect to conflict then, the son says very impatiently to me later: "It is so good that you do not want. " it is bad that this thing lets me feel the son's luck is true again, take an exam this time, how to encounter so much irritated worry.
The likelihood is me so " cuss " , the child the following day exam position is particularly bad, and it is crucial manage put together the following day, the child goes examination room mood bad, this makes me so afraid that be no good. Urging child answer case, appraise to divide all the time in the evening, but the child does not want to see that result at all, if the ants on a hot pan is same,get me urgently, entreated many times, last child is urgent, get on room door lock not to let me enter. I know, such circumstance, positive result is good not.
3
Not be me really cruel-hearted
The thing is expected like me as expected, achievement of the university entrance exam anticipates under mine, this makes me particularly disappointed. And, the university entrance exam 2018, the 00 children after follow " became spirit " same, achievement is gotten high unusual, competition was increased at a draught. See the rank of one archives of whole town, the child does not talk to go up at all advantage. From take achievement to arrive fill in a form and submit it to the leadership is volunteer, I every day besides get angry and drop tear, with respect to without what other measure. The son holds the post of by my rebuke, also hold the post of by me " strike a head " . The son's teachers gave out many ideas, suggested a few schools, actually the child school of last one this academy, have a good major, strong even " sexual price is compared " high 211 schools are hopeful also, but, my target is this far from. See the has candidate for an entrance examination likewise work in the same placing beside and relatives and friends again, the family feels achievement is very good, going straight towards oneself good university, the volunteer watch in our hand was not filled tardy.
Passed a few not the night of Mian, I still decide to let child answer read finally. I am in all sorts of examinee group go up with parent forum seek advice, great majority person is not to support those who let child answer read, of course also a few people think, if be the child temporarily play is abnormal, can consider. Still have a few " destiny " identical parent, make an appointment to go together answer read an orgnaization " make an on-the-spot investigation " . Each let the guardian that child answer reads, did not feel distressed actually of the child, know, let the child repeat one year again such life, too bitter really, but competition is so intense, not firm is cruel-hearted, be no good.
Child answer reads this one year, I was not one day not of anxious, be afraid that he is incommensurate, be afraid that his mood is bad, be afraid that he can fall ill, be afraid that he can be gone against return... the time that the child says to have a meal repeatedly is to press minute of calculative, it is the problem that does not become everyday. This year, my comparing is more nervous last year, because this is planted answer read mix again in the school " normal student " different, a lot of formalities even oneself go doing, did not have the teacher's guidance, the encouragement between classmate parent, what unforeseen event produces during for fear that again... anyhow, eat bad, sleep bad. Last year when son the university entrance exam, because I want to assure his nutrition, add oneself one insecurity wants always to have a thing, weight increased many jins 10 instead. He is not this year beside, I everyday insecurity must not want to have a thing, also do not want to cook, at a draught thin many jins 20. Draw near more especially exam, fear more in my heart, made the mistake that the hand shakes again now. Talk in whispers in my heart, is this bad adumbrative? Myself whats do not have the courage to think, can petition only the son is lucky, do not give what issue again this year.
Scene emersion:
Wei Ran: "Now this moment, hope you calm first state of mind, everything arranges its nature. Everything arranges its nature..
Ms. Sun: "Alas, I do not love to listen particularly now arrange its nature this word, a lot of person and I so say, I listen to feel to be like our child to be taken an examination of again bad and same. I listen to feel to be like our child to be taken an examination of again bad and same..
Wei Ran: "Not be this meaning, the child experiences the university entrance exam the 2nd times, believe he had had certain experience, also do sufficient preparation, hope you do not give the child too great pressure. Hope you do not give the child too great pressure..
Ms. Sun: "But I cannot control myself namely, occasionally I also am to regret really. See the classmate's parent sends the life that the child is in an university before the child, have achievement of a lot of children and us about the same, the family passes now but relaxed and happy. The family passes now but relaxed and happy..
Wei Ran: "Had chosen, and took an exam immediately now, do not think so much again. Do not think so much again..
Ms. Sun: "I am afraid that hardship of this year wasted again really, if in that way, I feel I wanted to break down. I feel I wanted to break down..
Wei Ran: "I suggest you had adjusted state of mind, let the child complete this exam calmly, at present only can do this. At present only can do this..
Ms. Sun: "I think, gave so big energy and financial capacity, this regular meeting has a good result. This regular meeting has a good result..
Wei Ran path comes:
It is season of a year of the university entrance exam, write down so that also recieved before the university entrance exam last year a lot of pour out, have stories of various the university entrance exam. The university entrance exam is in the person's lifetime, really very important, but it is so important to also be done not have really. This is experience only, face well, had been experienced, grow namely. May a lot of people criticize the way of this mom, and the angle that stands in her, the university entrance exam this thing, challenged her limit, she gives oneself and child production pressure, the likelihood still can go down continuously all the time. We have to say, the competitive pressure that present children face really very big, light consoles the parent " not merely the university entrance exam a road " , the likelihood does not have what effect to a lot of parents. We can say only, annual the university entrance exam, those who take an examination of is the intellectual level of children not only, it is the ability that the child and parent answer all sorts of questions more. We pray the children that all hard paying, the university entrance exam this year is successful, also say to all parents at the same time, after the university entrance exam, person way out of the child is very long still very long, what doing not have is motivation of more follow-up than destroying the child study and interest more dread.
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