Civil | Small do not nod
Be in at ordinary times in the process that husband and wife gets along, bilateral hard to avoid can produce a few brawl, to having the child's father and mother for, quarrel at ordinary times bicker also is unavoidable, a lot of parents can notice evasive child, let the child feel parents quarrels to had never happened, some parents always make a noise before the child's face rose, the impression that gives the child is they often quarrel.
? Parents often quarrels, what effect to have to the child? Many people feel to quarrelled to make a noise, but after the event special regret, and the decision can agree to cannot quarrel before the child's face again next time after two support of the people are good, be opposite actually for the child, parents quarrels have 4 big " conceal harm " , each hurt baby very deep, just a lot of parents care nothing!
1, parents quarrels make the child self-abased
The child's disposition gets environmental influence, and the biggest factor that parental company is influence child, the child with hopeful sunshine of a lot of nature the family with very sweet and happy out, the relation between parents also can produce very far-reaching effect to the child, if parents often quarrels at ordinary times, the child can diffuse in all the time " brawl " in atmosphere, the parents that sees others every time is very harmonious conjugal love, the child can feel self-abased, as time passes is very adverse also to the child's disposition.
2, parents quarrels reduce child happiness to feel
Parents is the child's example, in the process that in them childhood grows, father love gives the child safe support, mother love seems the company of water to child tenderness, two people are caressed jointly and accompany ability to let the child have a happy childhood, if parents often quarrels, the child can feel insecure, feel unfortunate blessing, and present child early is sensible, a few children fear all the day parents divorces, look for a stepfather, stepmother to oneself, the imagination lives deplorably after the move, their happy feeling also can all gone, so parents wants as far as possible little quarrel, if quarrel,ask escape child.
3, parents quarrels make the child disappointed to the family
Delicate concern can let the child produce a kind to expect to the family between parents, if parents special conjugal love, the child also can want to be brought up early, oneself also establish a little family that belongs to oneself, live harmonious and perfectly together with beloved person, but if parents did the opposite to set an example, often quarrel the family that can make the child right did not come feels disappointed, even self-distrust, marrying anyway also is to quarrel, still be inferior to writtening guarantee, this kind of influence is very long-term, also be the harm that conceals type.
4, parents quarrels reduce child sense of responsibility
No matter be boy or girl, the sense of responsibility that parents is about to foster them as a child and take on feeling, and best education is set oneself an example to others, if brawl often quarrels between parents, very good surveyor's pole action is less than since, the child also can become mix without sense of responsibility take on, it is later was brought up, become very easily also " craven " , parents is so right of the child " the family is taught " very important still.
A lot of moment are between husband and wife " the head of a bed quarrels bed end and " , they think very normal thing, have a lot of harm however to the child's pure heart, if there is the child inside the home, did not quarrel before the child's face please!
