As the good progress of socioeconomy, the pin money in child hand is increasing, the net is bought, shift pays more and more convenient. In last few years, direct seeding platform is in life circle of the youth more and more fire, there is no lack of among them minor.
Open these APP, can see dress up peculiar advocate sow people sing, dance, jest, simply omnipotent, repass is hit later admire, the form such as gift, red bag acquires certain interest. The event that about child mistake consumption, prodigal money gives parents, family to bring an influence happens time and again.
Marital funeral expenses disappears without trace
On April 24, henan makes the introduced from the northern and western nationalities or from abroad lady of prosperous say, 50 thousand in the mobile phone disappeared, classics the discovery after checking, its son of 10 years old uses these fund in dozen enjoy game advocate sow.
Introduced from the northern and western nationalities or from abroad lady expresses, this Qian Zheng is marital funeral expenses, and oneself still contract rectum cancer.
"Ursine child " dozen admire female advocate sow a flower 160 thousand
Inside two months, 14 years old " ursine child " small Peng Tong pays platform too, seamed parents secretly 10 years the jeans earns those who come 160 thousand multivariate deposit makes award completely direct seeding platform female advocate sow. Pay from what Peng master offers see on detailed list, mere from September 2 before dawn came 0:13 that day 16:19, xiaopeng traded through paying platform early or late 9, among them 5000 yuan 4, 1000 yuan 5, add up to 25000 yuan.
Insanity of 8 years old of daughters is hit admire female advocate sow brush smooth old father 80 thousand 8!
Odd dear father Mr Cao of Liaoning iron mountain works in Shenyang, he encounters a thorny issue: 4 pieces of his credit card are overdrawn to be as high as 88 thousand yuan by insanity!
Be informed accidentally unexpectedly through investigation, all daughters that these money are him 8 years old are brushed, utility is to give a net to go up advocate sow elder sister insanity to hit admire!
"Dozen admire the door " incident in quick succession in recent years, as Internet direct seeding, game young age change, similar " dozen admire the door " incident common occurance:
6 years old of female Tong Tong cross small letter to log onto some video software directly, buy " diamond " to advocate sow content of give sb a present, the flower dropped 20 thousand money;
On the sly of 8 years old of male Tong Lele installed software of some direct seeding on father mobile phone, when seeing ace play Wang Zherong to boast, dozen admired advocate sow 24080 yuan;
8 years old " ursine child " after filling game first, admire advocate sow a flower to drop more than 10000, the parent a monthly magazine two alarm!
The netizen sees the message expresses to worry very
Also appeal the parent gives the child at the same time
Establish correct consumption to watch
Dozen award the money that go out, whether get back?
Platform just should give superintend
Basis " civil code general principles " the 19th: The minor of above of 8 one full year of life is to confine person of civil action competence, can have the civil activity that suits with his age, intellective photograph; Other and civil activity acts as agent by his legal agent, perhaps ask for those who get his legal agent to agree.
The 20th: Malcontent the minor of 8 one full year of life is not to have person of civil action competence, act as agent by his legal agent civil activity.
Accordingly, what happen to minor is great and donative, it is ability considers the authorization that should have father and mother effective, can ask to return otherwise still.
Of the child imitate force, memory to exceed strong, when the parent is using these software, it is good to want proper escape child, protection pay treasure, small letter the password, avoid to cause pecuniary loss.
In this kind of incident, platform just regards responsibility as one of main body, should have relevant responsibility and obligation. But how be opposite advocate sowed of all kinds behavior undertakes administrative all the time since a focus that is people controversy. Platform just should is aimed at advocate sowed behavior has a standard, what behavior can have, what behavior can not have, come out clearly. Right advocate the respect such as standard of sowed professional morality, profession raises a requirement, put an end to minor to be hit in platform thereby admire, " come to user privacy hang out " behavior. Disturbance is ceaseless, how to run the child's hand: Direct seeding platform superintends not do one's best, must correct, but the parent's education, also not allow to ignore.
Value monetary education of the child
A lot of children can extravagant ground is hit admire, because do not have a concept to money,majority is. You put 10 thousand cash to be before him, he still can have intuitionistic feeling probably, a number is in the mobile phone.
In growing period of the child, undertake to the child correct money is taught, not be to guide the child " everything looks to money " , establish proper monetary view, spending outlook as a child however.
3~5 year old the child wants to know: The thing needs to spend money will buy, money is to pass what labor changes fetch, either " want " can get immediately.
Can from " the game that brush card " begin, guide the child to know " money " . Darling can discover: Sit public transportation, by subway, drive to want to brush card into the garage; And once forgot to carry card, making money also is possible;
Also can pass " defer satisfies training " , let darling learn to await. Tell the child: You give him a cake now, but if he waits a little while more, you can give him two.
Kiss efficiently child company
Sow to obtain a winner " Da " , the child spends money to search self-identity to feel from the outside, this also refracts a child's empty inner world.
① develops the child's interest.
Interest drop of the child cannot be released in the life, meet put time and energy probably on fictitious network, accordingly, the parent should pay close attention to life be fond of of the child, accomplish timely response.
When speaking favorably of to the child's behavior, want to be encouraged more and be accompanied, for instance, the child likes to dance, the parent can let the child become pupil teacher, teach oneself acquired skill, can enhance self-confident heart of the child already so, communication of can promotional affection;
Say to the child " not " when, give child demonstrate a way with the means politely of the proposal please, is not dozen of move " good for you " name is restricted forcibly, bury below " traitorous " seed.
② understands the child's heart.
Strengthen the communication with the child, the parent should understand their heart through the eyes and behavior above all.
Expected eyes, state the child needs to help, the parent can crouch next bodies to listen attentively to; Lower one's head not language, show the child has a load on one's mind or make a mistake, the parent should guide with moderate tone...
Want to make the child clear, compared with invisible, feel the fictitious network that does not wear, parental company will get truer, warmer.
Should let the child know more, inherent without the person meeting becomes father and mother, but we can become good father and mother hard.
(the article is reprinted from date of small letter public " in the center of the Youth League " , integrated from Yo of scientist front courtyard, message of evening paper of platform of student safety education, Qian Jiang, Yuan Pingxin)
