In the person's lifetime, have lots and lots of branch road mouth, go possibly not carefully wrong, take a false step, can leave disaster and regret to life even.
Confucianism the nation that Shi Daojian builds learns Great Master Na Huaijin to had said: The person has 3 basic errors cannot make: It is favor is small and honour, 2 be wisdom small and seek big, 3 it is force small and allow to weigh.
South master this lifetime reachs the world ancient codes and records and world manage include at the heart, he this one word, nature is accumulate contained great wisdom.
Mitzvah, be the base oneself upon of a person is essential, get along with the person when, the talent of this person and ability often are not so important, the most important should belong to a mitzvah, we since ancient times praise highly: Thick heart holds thing.
If you think, a mitzvah does not pass the person that involve, stand on perch, he cannot be taken already numerous, the likelihood returns what can covert to profit for oneself, who is those who have a rough time? It is the person that is managed by him.
From " favor is small and honour " , the life that we also can associate to aperture old master to say 3 big misfortune, the first is teenager achieve one's ambition.
"Teenager achieve one's ambition " with " favor is small and honour " those who have different in approach but equally satisfactory in result is clever, whether doesn't here decide the ability of teenager person and mitzvah, say to although the day is not afraid that the ground is not afraid of,calf is born first however, but after all experience is shallow, experience is little, rushed uprise, be afraid of is inappropriate.
The person is expensive have self-knowledge, honour have the moral conduct that deserves to go up first surely, just meet at every turn flexibly.
Wisdom small and seek bigWorldly person, can have bit of ambition more or less, can not deserve to go up when your talent when your ambition, you should not go the business that a few Yao cannot reach covet, should sink however next hearts will exercise his, this namely cannot " wisdom small and seek big " .
A person with finite talent, go conspire thing of an essential impracticable, as " the tiger gulps a day, the mouth below have no way " , "A mantis trying to stop a chariot-overate oneself and try to hold back an overwhelmingly superior force, overrate force " .
The Zhao draw together of be an armchair strategist is not a typical case, grow smooth battle an issue confused orders, bring about Zhao Guo to be killed by Bai Qi hole 400 thousand person, stun the world!
Say so, do not take china work without diamond, do not have that talent fastens total scheme important matter, talent and success become direct ratio forever.
Force is small and allow to weighTalent and achievement become direct ratio, force and responsibility also are direct ratio, toward small say, you can hold a 100 jins thing in the arms, but must hold 200 jins in the arms.
Toward big say your crop common people, but you must save the world, do you feel this is likely? Simply too cross unimaginably queer.
In the life, do not lack bombastic person, they are saying big talk, it seems that oneself are the world the first general, bagatelle is not done, wanting to do a major issue unluckily, final result often is " those who bump is head broken and bleeding " .
Still be that word, the person should have self-knowledge, one pace sureness comes, without that force, to penates of your 10 thousand be linked together you also are not defended.
Place of Mr. Na Huaijin says this at 3 o'clock, solid it is to give people to ring alarm bell noisy, in life, these 3 kinds of mistakes cannot make absolutely, hardheaded, just be to obtain brilliant correct path slow and steady.
-- editor blame celestial being
