Recently, netizens are spreading this story, say a father fears the daughter was brought up far marry, to prevent a daughter far marry, hit " promise father to be brought up absolutely not far marry! " agreement, give the foot of bud treasure daughter next imprinted go up.
See this occasion, also do not know this father is to stem from sincerity to still copy heat. But the comment of netizens is bright however!
1, persuade to was not married girl people, really had better not far marry, far marry should think carefully really, think carefully, think carefully!
2, marry provincial is really foolish, cannot use up filial piety not to say, him accent should change, dietary convention should run, habits and customs is consuetudinary should change, this is how old pay, doesn't periphery have good man?
3, now traffic so developed, if encounter good man really far do not marry?
4, we that village, far marry what I know incoming daughter-in-law to have 78, left finally, remnant, that one also is to quarrel every day two ground live apart. Far marry have as follows bad, the first, contradiction of husband and wife has the pain that leave one's native place, the 2nd, hair is small reach a friend to be broken from now on, sensory resembling broke line kite, the 3rd, folk-custom culture difference, especially phonetic difference, let far married person suits very hard, if him disposition is bad, be isolated easily. The 4th, celebrate a festival visit one's family, always a thousand li rushs about, this and we all the year round outer work it is very difficult to want to come home be the same as a manage. Marital hidden trouble is very so big.
5, only daughter is transient, make good plan before it is too late, in case the daughter is far married, go the city that the daughter lives buys a house that lives quite. Not too close, be afraid of disturb. Also do not want too far, wanted to look!
6, my cousin is married 5 years ago Hubei 10 lasher there, the head is returned every year two years come back, do not know how to had not come back 3 this years anyway later! My wife is pregnant at present in if be a daughter,I also do not make her far stoutly marry.
7, actually everybody did not say, my wife also is far marry, come home by turns spend the New Year, be in one year husband's family, be in home of him pa Mom one year, also do not say slow-witted how long, I do not believe you female can stay in husband's family how long, also not be a hope hide far!
8, informal! Complete China so much is married of this locality, marry of the other place! ! It doesn't matter! Wanted to be able to marry the man that still loves her than old father only! Was worth! ! !
9, never mention it it is good to want a man only go, also do not carry sincerity, also be to be able to become sincerely, when loving you, you are treasure, did not love, you with respect to what not be. The person is to be able to become, you are willing to be far from parents, bet that one sincerity?
10, encounter it is not easy to can be together. If be brought up to because do not think the daughter is far,be married later,break a pair, it is a kind of harm to both sides.
11, neighbor daughter marries a person, still heard neighbour aunt to call her to get up in the morning that day have a meal, is encountering her to ask she is such-and-such midday to marry a person? Aunt laugh says: I forgot... look at her
12, far marry have uncertainty really, without back up of person of a married woman's parents' home, husband's family waits for you very not bad, otherwise clean be deceived.
13, my elder sister is far marry, although be same a province, but be apart a thousand li, drive to want 12 hours nonstop, fortunately my home parents and I am a teacher, summer vacation or winter vacation must accompany her a few days, spending the New Year is at the same time a year, up to now already 56 years, can be brought up gradually as the child, parents also went up age, do not know to still can see every year really, alas! !
14, be, I am far marry have pain can him pharynx! Husband's father and mother is the cancer of my marriage, because of these two cancer my love died, marriage 1000 sore 100 aperture, the life does not have a bit sth hoped for and likely to happen!
15, though do not want to control child freedom, if the child goes better place,development also wants to support. But do not hope the girl is far sincerely marry. I marry a daughter, if be in this locality, I meet car room stay to the daughter. I can give corresponding betrothal gifts coequal and dotal. Just do not want to let husband's family take these to say a thing farfetchedly.
16, LZ this word says rightly. Of course if be encountered really appropriate. Oneself also consider to feel afterwards or should be married repeatedly. That is married. Far after all it is very easy really to marry give an issue. This is very real thing. Far the possibility is dialectal and distinct after marrying, consuetudinary and different, without oneself intercourse circle, perhaps say to blend in intercourse circle very hard, and have very much person look down on foreigner quite. You are far after marrying, you are the foreigner in family eye, if meet last bad husband's family, that is awfuller. You there can rely on with respect to nobody at all. There are many people beside me anyway such, marry nonlocal daughter, ran femaly, the child does not want. This probability is to compare those who marry local daughter is tall very multiple. The friend of my other place (Guizhou) also said to be in them there no matter be to marry,come in, still marry go out. As long as it is far. The result is common bad. Of course, this kind is not absolutely, there also is those who marry nonlocal daughter beside, pass possibly. Also female friend is married foreigner (in us here the job) , husband's family becomes her of own daughter. It is probability only apparent on the low side. Feasibility condition is such. Do not want as far as possible so far marry what also do not marry an other place as far as possible. This is in one kind namely originally current and special right think of a way.
17, there also are a few to be married far over there us, husband home is not rich also, do not return a married woman's parents' home several years, was equivalent to be being raised in vain really
18, you are male, cannot understand a woman to leave his native place for husband, have consanguineous dear one besides child neither one, please the life of the family of husband even. Having contradictory others is for the man forever good.
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19, the external condition that traffic developed to just come true to come home, but Where is subjective condition? Calculate traffic to develop, the distance of the on 1000 kilometers below major case gets 1 day of time, go to work outerly how many time do you have to come home? Does every month approve the boss do you ask for leave? If work overtime much, follow a dog tiredly everyday same, do you have energy to take a car to come home again? Come loop expends a person nearly 1000 money, do you rise beautifully?
20, you go back one year 45 days hurriedly not bad, have a lot of people, cannot answer a married woman's parents' home and parents a few years to reunite, not be not to think, it is to do not have time really, nevering mention it is excuse, yourself just think, go back so that want the two time of the day, back and forth the time with respect to 4 days, which have so much time? Need not work really? Be still a boss does the holiday that can you approve half month really give your mothering coming home?
21, so say, not far marrying is to get angry only when it is bit easier to leave home to come home nearly, so no matter be apart from far and near, what is used?
22, everybody has courage, but if you have a daughter,be married provincial far 2-3 year just come back to see you, are you willing? To you old miss a child, you or now this view? These see more beside, not be the problem that brave enrages, the old person is in the home, the child is married provincial, the old person thinks the child thinks mad!
