Do not know everybody has settle on Zhou Kaibo " us well " , you Liutao and Yang Shuo act the leading role, once broadcast,went up to heat up search, marriage of type of bereft of one's spouse, full-time mom, depressed disease... these topics are heated up to discuss by people.
Popular feeling of straight jab of marriage of type of bereft of one's spouseOf Yang Shuo personate is the boy of a rural one's previous experience ahead, of Liu billows personate searching is a woman that comes from rich home, search to can deserve to go up, hit hard in the city ahead go all out, go all out gave a career one time, two people married.
After marriage, go up as always in the career ahead desperately, search can have full-time wife in family belongs only act against one's will.
"He is 365 1 year days, having 300 days is the hotel in each district, pass in his office even, even if comes home, also keep calling, time small letter, answer mail... he does not have a word to say at all with me. Also keep calling, time small letter, answer mail... he does not have a word to say at all with me..
Although need not go to work,search, but she is joyless. She wants to reflect her value, do not want to be bound by the family, but must do full-time wife in the home again.
"Can I have the ideal of myself and pursuit? The marriage that I had thought should be to give aid to each other, grow jointly. The marriage that I had thought should be to give aid to each other, grow jointly..
Searching after during be pregnant, be born with the child, forward as before busy give evening early to return, of one mind attacks to go up in the career only, she experiences the existence that is less than any husbands to feel, also feel the life was full of dull with inhospitality, housewife life of nearly 7 years, add Yo heavy burden, let her suffer from went up serious depressed illness.
And the husband can understand far from ahead search why to suffer from on depressed disease, he thinks to bear children and handle chore these issues are assumed inherently with respect to this female, the husband makes money it is good to raise the home.
Have very the clue that touchs me is, search have second illness show effect, want to choose the suicide that swallow medicine, before taking drug finally, search give over and over call ahead, and forward reply has only: "Attend a meeting, busy, say later. " search subsequently made a telephone call a lot of times again, also had not responded to again ahead.
The doctor diagnoses the patient's condition that seek to cannot continue to look after children, bring about her mood to break down, review housewife life of 7 years, ego was lost in further and further from the society process.
"The doctor says with me, I cannot have brought the child. I am in everyday now take medicine, eat a lot of medicine to control his, I do not think dead really, I do not think my child does not have Mom. I do not think my child does not have Mom..
A lot of people can mix unripe child postpartum and depressed delimit equal-sign, but however oversight the essence with depressed generation.
Does the woman that gives birth to the child have many flimsy?
This group that is ignored has a lot of people.
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Wind of @ thing north and south - netizen
Have to pass before me postpartum and depressed, the child that remembers so that want not to let be less than 1 year old because of at the outset has salt this problem, produced a lot of contradiction with the mother-in-law, and the husband was not solved actively often still work overtime in the company, I at that time very blame the child, if because gave birth to the child,not be, all these won't happen.
@ Alice - netizen
Have very long the friend that does not contact is abrupt have to postpartum and depressed, she is a very lively and optimistic person at ordinary times in impression. Ability discovery is postpartum and depressed later this thing is not actually often see, be as high as hundred 80 new mother of the left and right sides to appear in postpartum meeting depressed, be agitated, insomnia, easy cry the depressed mood symptom that wait a moment.
@ Huo Saiyan
Program mom is to exceed philtrum to remove his a little postpartum and depressed condition
I just give birth to hum hum when, the mood is met very exceeding bad, I remember my father see me, see the child, the time that keep is very short, after my father leaves, I am in that cries madly, I say he sees the child namely (not be to come to those who see me) .
A lot of people feel to pay no attention to solution,
It is the dearest husband even.
Once some females are affixed maternal label,
A lot of rights and interests of her oneself were not taken seriously.
The be apt to of wife plum benefit that Korea actor willow presses down was become 7 years of full-time housewife, obtained rehabilitative opportunity to be able to continue elder sister of high above in the sky, but without the right person that can patronize the child, in her heart very disconsolate and sad.
Li Huishan asks the husband the opinion how, gotten answer is:
"Did not go, what to have very sad. What to have very sad..
"Discuss with the husband every time,
Heard answer is ' yourself is looked at do ' ,
And the answer that I think to hear is
' if can if you go having a try ' ,
Compared with consideration, what I need now is to answer aid. What I need now is to answer aid..
365 days of husbands that are working and frosty family, mix like Li Huishan search such full-time housewife life to change is doing you can be accepted? I think carefully, I am not accepted, more it is what is more,the rather that all round us more it is wife side side going to work takes care of the child and family.
For the mom of depressed to body defect torment, engrave in some, what they need most is the company of the understanding of family and other in part, depressed not terrible, be not understood, this ability is deadly.
Be in " we had been close friends " inside, search be not understood, the husband's forward state of mind is very typical:
"You are sick I take you to see a doctor,
To you money cures,
The illness that need not care you very much follows condition. The illness that need not care you very much follows condition..
Postpartum and depressed, 60% females are in experience
Investigation data shows,
60% mix in pregnancy to the female of 80% postpartum
Can appear the depressed mood of different level,
Be close to 20% meetings development to be clinical and depressed disease among them,
Suicidal mortality is as high as 15%-30% .
It is by April, I see a news, one woman carries Chongqing oneself the daughter with 4 big months, jump down from 22 building top, fall in the in pairs on 3 buildings platform to perish finally.
As a mom, from be pregnant parturient a phase after can become particularly sensitive and flimsy, postpartum and special easy and depressed, but a lot of people especially the male, cannot understand quite postpartum and depressed be how one and the same, treating it as is a wife pettish, get into a huff, won't take seriously too, do not know this backside has much dreariness.
Wife: "I from give birth to the child to be done not have happy over- ,
Tell the truth, don't you feel? Don't you feel??
The husband: "I do not feel you have postpartum and depressed,
Having you a few times is mood out of control, this I know. This I know..
Wife: "I feel you now is particularly irresponsible. "I feel you now is particularly irresponsible..
The husband: "You are fussily,
Too argumentative, what are depressed ah! What are depressed ah!!
Be not understood to be postpartum and depressed one big advocate because of, some words be all-pervasive, resemble needle of a root same, plunge into so that life aches.
Postpartum and depressed call puerperium depressed disease again, it is to show the puerpera appears after childbirth depressed, sadness, depressed, cry, the Yi Ji anger, be agitated, psychogenic disorder that have the suicide even or fights a series of symptoms such as baby tendency to be a feature, it is a kind of related to female production distinctive serious and depressed disease.
Main symptom includes:
The thing that likes to going loses interest
Isolation family and friend
Have the idea that hurts baby
Feel oneself do not have living value
Be at a loss to the child
Think oneself do not have the ability that has become a mother
One suffers from postpartum and depressed mom to say:
"Be like is I fell ill, but do not have expectorate sound because of me however, know with respect to neither one person I fall ill in the home, but I am ill really very fierce. But I am ill really very fierce..
Postpartum and depressed the is family actually company that they need most and caress, go helping the angst after they improve unripe child, uneasiness and fluster, prop up them to had taken this paragraph of hard time.
Actually every mom can be in a lot of " look be like is bagatelle " run quickly suddenly on the thing;burst;ulcerate;fester, the mom that just produces especially.
The original intention that writes this article is to want to let everybody face up to this thing, unripe after all child is a thing that major female should experience, need everybody to had done sufficient preparation to face these problems, more important is also let the person all round understand you are about to want to face these, also can accompany you to be faced together.
Ask care each mom, give them more a few encourage and show loving care for.
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