Father's younger brother of article Piao Bin
Say advanced area
Socially the person is mixed, the person that we are met everyday and differs is contacted, let what you are like Mu Chunfeng have, have with what you become a friend sincerely; Also have get along for individual purpose and you purely, returning some is present a backside Lilliputian,
Want to had punished a person, should spend very energy, having a lot of people is 9 type thing good to him, the fall out on the horse is less than like wanting to have only. Have a mean person more, want you to displease him only, he will be lifelong bear grudges, backside bespatter is absent when notting have you, think all method to let your be utterly discredited, always foresight getting you is better than him.
But live in social environment, you are impossible that ego closes make it world of a vacuum, put an end to all people that you do not like to enter ring. Without method, can learn to plant with this only you do not like the method that helpless person gets along:
One, get along with the person of different point of view
The view to the thing is different between person and person, invite everyone impossibly approve of your idea, even if be your viewpoint correct. But the indicate even if can listen to different person opinion after one individual maturity, admit he says, as to be being done by what do not say according to him still is yourself decision.
2, get along with bad-tempered person
Come up against this kind of person to listen to say less more namely, the word that does not grab him, disaccord he argues. You are soberer, he also is met calm.
3, get along with the elder member of family that does not like and leader
No matter you have what kind of view to elder and leader, maintaining respect and courtesy is the basiccest principle, do not show despise and informal, what also do not do is awe-stricken with lowliness.
4, little stimulation the person that you do not like
Everybody hopes his viewpoint is agreed with by others, because oneself mood belittles the person that does not like intentionally,do not want in communicate, the weakness that cannot take others more regards as assault weapon.
5, institutional ego dominates a sentiment
Do not like others when you while, also somebody does not like you. Somebody can use a language intentionally or the action irritates you, can transcend the bottom line that you endure even. Wanting to strike back instantly, you can be used temporarily evasive, adjust oneself mood, topic of active perhaps draw away, avoid direct conflict.
6, the person that does to have ticket
Always challenge your bottom line ceaselessly when somebody, can tell him with euphemistic mood, your footing has been encroached, also can go through tripartite pass on a message, demonstrate your attitude.
7, offend do not rise, hide
If above is insoluble problem, maintain a distance with him. Hit not an accost, thorough go communicating, can not attend those who he attends any activities, perhaps spend paragraph of time the position that he also knows you, can change a kind of good way and you to get along.
Everybody is not perfect, some population straight heart is fast well-meant, some person surfaces are respected but in one's heart often envy and hate you. Not be your happy event does not like others, however others happy event does not like you.
Can get along well to become a friend well with the person, talk not to come with respect to stay at a respectful distance from sb, little contact both sides of a bit lest is added. Anyhow, get along with the person happy had better.
