Yesterday morning, small static the telephone call that receives nursery school teacher, saying is darling is in the school attend a lecture is not serious, still fight noisely with other little girl on classroom, not careful accidentally injure classmate, listened to her to go rapidly nursery school. The teacher tells small static, darling is in the school often piquant make trouble, almost a class comes down to be able to discover him many times not serious. In the life, very much darling and this kind of situation is same, do a thing to lack dedicated power namely. To every parent, hope him darling does a business can absorption, but in the life, often their a few involuntary behavior, slowly the dedicated force of finish darling, e.g. below these 3 things, see you had been done?
Give darling a lot of toys every time
Every time when darling plays, the parent will be chronic cast him a lot of toys, feel to one pile darling of toy for company to play, affirmative meeting is particularly happy. Little imagine, the dedicated force of darling is destroyed in this moment little namely, see so much toy, he is sure the meeting is dazzling, do not know to want to play first which, the result that bring about is 3 minutes of heat to every toy namely, do not have method to focus attention at all.
To do not destroy the dedicated force of darling, proposal mom gives him a kind of toy every time, had better be to choose the sort of beneficial wisdom kind toy, go all out for instance build building blocks. Building blocks can optional and medley, darling is in the process that employ, can be developed freely and imagine, and the harmonious ability of returns what can exercise him cerebra and limb. Nevertheless, type of the building blocks on instantly market is very much, mom can choose model to darling distinctive, the building blocks with lovely figure, for example the good friend of the forest of big eye series, bud bud modelling, can arouse darling imagination more, science and technology is interactive, arouse creation fun, different setting lets darling happy amid.
Of course, the be fond of of every darling is different, mom also can choose the dinosaurian good friend of big eye series to him, bud bud modelling, company darling joy grows. Big grain building blocks, go all out easily build, do not injure a hand, stereo setting lets play building blocks to become more interesting. Often play building blocks, can foster darling not only dedicated force, return the right head that can develop him, promotion is intellective, so mom must not miss this good method.
Exorbitant cares darling
In the life, a lot of parents had done such business, it is darling is in absorption when doing a business, the parent is met from time to time enquired darling in the past, thirsty? Hungry? Tired? Though the parent is done so,be to care darling, but the thinking of this moment darling is being nodded at on, this moment is interrupted suddenly they, relieve a sick or injured person affects the creation of darling and think of a way directly, affect dedicated force thereby. So, when darling absorption when doing a business, the parent must not care overly, after waiting for a thing to finish, go caring again not late also.
Press the requirement darling that oneself think
A lot of moment, the parent always likes to force his idea to darling. E.g. , darling is going all out attentively build building blocks, what some parents see darling joining together is incorrect, can tell him directly, this is incorrect, cannot go all out so or be direct begin side darling mends his ways come. This kind of practice is incorrect, when darling is spelling building blocks, be according to him the picture that imagines in cerebrum comes only joining together, it is incorrect probably, but be themselves creation however. If the parent just asks darling is done according to his idea, can reduce their interest to the thing not only, return the dedicated force that can destroy them.
The following to darling study and development have dedicated power very main effect, the parent must be fostered seriously as a child. To above these destroy darling the thing of dedicated force, the parent does not want redo.
