The importance of a lot of mention person arteries and veins in the book, think to accumulate person arteries and veins to be able to score a success, actually I discover even if with a few successful case goes of derivation reason, this is misdirect person, also be a wrong kind thinking. After all the person arteries and veins that your colleague is you, I can say much is not, your fellow worker that so you do not need to please will get person arteries and veins, because be so,do not have resultful.
Had thought, why your flattery does not have action, become you only because of him good person, when he should want to work, you want to say not to want originally, but the mouth is silent however come to an agreement or understanding. When others needs you, whether do you feel a colleague rejects to you can feel embarrassed? In the heart that uses you namely actually, because he feels,you are a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle.
On duty field, get along with the colleague everyday, encounter the trouble that is bothered for certain, or is:
How is this project done? Can you teach teach me?
How is this plan done? Can you help me be done?
Does the system break down? Can you help the computer below my reshipment?
Actually a lot of things, not be the thing of our one's duty, if be the limits of the capacity that exceeds oneself, it is the time that holds oneself so, go helping him finish, so oneself job imply can be dropped, help him finish, oneself? Oneself job can be done bad. Say a conte, small red He Xiaotong is a colleague, small red it is an a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle, small phoenix tree and tung tree wants him to help can be helped for certain every time, once small red too much issue wants to do, rejected the demand of small phoenix tree and tung tree, small phoenix tree and tung tree says: "When you help me every time, be free, why be free this? " the help is done not have alleged, if long-term help can become obligation, he can feel you are should. The time that uses oneself goes helping others, it is the job that takes pain to not to please, oneself job is done instead bad.
Because the relation that competing exists between the colleague, a lot of people are very much to colleague help, but in the end cannot get others to like however, even an acknowledgment is done not have, such help is cheap help. Do not feel you reject him, had met badly, calculate you to help, others as before cheesy, be you only help can make him little do bit of thing just.
The 4 be mixed that there is an interest after leaving one's postAfter leaving one's post, I discovered what work in the same place so to had deleted me, because do not have an interest, the relation between us is already so broken did not have, the help previously has become the past, unless can business goes up,be come-and-go, otherwise this paragraph of relation already, weak be like water.
Bad to please others, true friend does not need to please, the society rejects others, it is good to had done his.
