The leader is fed up with a person, not be his err completely what, however he touched influence sensitive dot, let him feel influence is browbeaten, work wrong, still can accept, touched influence sensitive dot, leader psychology can have a thorn. Sima Xiuzhi touched Liu Yu's influence to abstain from entirely namely:
[provenance] " endowment control a warning " the 116th Jin Ji 38
[textual] Sima Xiuzhi is in Jiang Ling, get quite river, Chinese common feelings of people. Child Qiao Wang Wensai is in build health, the gender is fierce and brutal, good connect light a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct; Too Wei Yu is evil. March, arrogate to oneself of the thread of ideas in writing of achieve having department beats the official that kill a state, instruct kill the thread of ideas in writing of its Dang Eryou. Cease over scanty offer an apology, the place that ask solution holds the post of, must not. Abundant hold the thread of ideas in writing sends rest, your from example severe, appetent rest kill; Rest but the watch abandons the thread of ideas in writing, and with abundant book Chen Xie. Abundant by it is vinegary,
[translation] the Jiang Ling that minister of the Eastern Jin dynasty rests holds a post, very the common feelings of people that gets Jiang Han to take common people. His son Qiao Wang manages Ma Wensai stays in build health, disposition is fierce and atrocious, like a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct of associate with all corners of the country person. Too Wei Liu Yufei often is fed up with him. March, about the branch do sth without authorization of report minister the thread of ideas in writing beats dead the government official that seals a country, the at hand v/arc corvee that killed him instructs below the imperial court, absolved Sima Wensai alone alone however. Sima Xiuzhi is shown on scanty achieve requests to punish, admit fault, ask to remove his present post, imperial court must not. Liu Yu captures Sima Wensai, send Sima Xiuzhi, let him himself penalty of example give up, means let him Sima Xiuzhi kill the son. Sima Xiuzhi go up only the rank of nobility that expresses request depose Sima Wensai, write to offer an apology of Liu abundant explain. Because this is very grouchy,Liu makes rich, appoint the first month of river state feudal provincial or prefectural governor Huai Yujian city of comfort holding the post of superintend and director 6 county, use guard minister to rest.
[analytic]
1, have common feelings of people
Influence has two source, one is ranking gift, the 2nd it is the common feelings of people below. And serve as a leader the power source that what be fed up with most is subordinate is not come from oneself appoint, because have the power of common feelings of people, can say to have cry with superior board opposed ability, any leaders are willing to see this least of all. So, one has the Sima Xiuzhi of common feelings of people, make Liu Yu very uncomfortable.
Tactics politician is in when servantchoosing a person for a job, like to let hellion do middle-level, the relationship of such person and masses is very poor, one does not have the person of common feelings of people, the control of special facilitating superior, let accredit can call in at any time. On Chinese history, a lot of accredit close not to come back, use the common feelings of people of influence translate into in the hand because of subordinate namely. Invite a leader somewhat dread and cannot call in influence.
2, have dead person
Average person thinks Sima Wensai, namely like to fight 2 generation confuse the officer of affray, actually otherwise, such person, have extremely strong politics objective actually, he likes to interact with personage of all corners of the country, what can collect a batch not to drive sb. to his death is dead person. Any moment move these people rise, it is terrible violent group. Pair of can strong power generation are minatory. This is not to mix, this is to collect violent resource avowedly.
Force is yuan of regulation of political influence. All influence is to build on force. Especially modern office field, once those are disobedient regular person, or it is the person that has contradiction with the leader gathers together, such opposition the mood is ignited very easily, once these rock-bottom person moods are used, very big level makes the gun in Jesuit hand. Kill the criminal case of staking boss is not minority socially.
3, influential
Sima Wensai beats dead avowedly the government official of at hand, this is not a general criminal case, this is one clears the process of dissident, any leaders consider centralization of state power, meet, but, when handling this issue, the imperial court treated participation person only, did not handle leading Sima Wensai however. Very apparent, this list is clear, sima Wensai already compose proposed extremely strong politics interest.
Alone wooden difficult Cheng Lin, one individual capability is strong not be the most difficult do decide, it is inaccessibly most, form politics factional, one the individual's behavior, once by politics factional place shelters, this invites a leader in processing such person is met somewhat dread. Wary hold back from taking action against sb for fear of injuring others. Because of a person, carry pole with its load of collective put down, do force the king or emperor to abdicate, which leader also is overcome. So all through the ages, lead exceeding to the factional behavior of subordinate blow.
4, have the capacity
Sima Xiuzhi, can saying is the person that royal family of the Eastern Jin dynasty has talent and ability most, this to Liu Yu character, a such identity, outstanding person, this itself is Liu Yu ask summit of vessel influence summit inevitable stumbling block. So, liu Yu must give Qing Dynasty to get rid of this stumbling block. Of Sima Xiuzhi any act is met by Liu Yu excessive unscramble, cause influence jealousy thereby.
In the school everybody likes to make friend with outstanding student, but duty field is not however, outstanding talent, matter especially the talent of setting, can say, can become the obstacle of others. If such outstanding talent does not know conceal one's true intentions, can be murdered very quickly by all sorts of people, because, your existence itself can depress the progress of others, so, everybody can resolve an obstacle ahead of schedule.
5, have confrontation
Liu Yu gives Sima Xiuzhi to handle Sima Wensai, and allude him Sima Xiuzhi killed a son, xiang Liuyu expresses compliant attitude. But Sima Xiuzhi, intended dissimulate, express one's thanks to is expressed on, favour of Liu Yu that does not kill, such act, let Liu Yu touch soft nail namely, influence is carried out be dissolved in the dark. Such antagonism, make Liuyu exceedingly grouchy.
Influence most cultured carries out jussive namely expedite sex, once produce block, without giving thought to any reason, what can cause influence is vinegary. The leader won't have big rejection normally, ability is painful next killer, have a tiny bit of confrontation however, can be in by snuff budding condition. Occasionally, you rejected to pour a cup of water to the leader this bagatelle, the likelihood lost the faith of influence instantly, and lost all chances.
Father and son of Sima Xiuzhi, Sima Wensai, can say, the influence that touched Liu Yu completely is bit no-noer, abundant letting Liu from " evil " , "Vinegary " , arrived further " of equipment " , one step by step upgrade malcontent. Their destiny is destined to want to be cleared away by Liu Yu next actually. If we are to make follower, those who understand this to was about to do one's utmost at 5 o'clock avoid, some words also are not led to discover. And as superior, kept alert at 5 o'clock to this certainly, such ability allow his authority quite, manage the position in safety forever!
