The novice does small business, how many meeting has a few perturbed, because concern earns,just not be less than money, still a lot of things can feel to feel embarrassed.
Feel embarrassed make a person witting oneself are doing small business, be afraid of be asked about by acquaintance, always fumble;
Feel embarrassed group send or send a circle to disturb another person, measure of or hair circle is true too little, or screen is too much person, do not have a few people to be able to see;
Feel embarrassed to market a product to relatives and friends, the mix into in afraid feeling enters monetary interest, can affect each other feeling;
Feel embarrassed to adulterate in the communication with vermicelli made from bean starch too much sale part, be afraid of too strong promote an intent to be able to cause client allergy;
Feel embarrassed pull concern with the affection of vermicelli made from bean starch nearly, fear to bring more social responsibilities to oneself and the other side;
Feel embarrassed to talk about money with the client, when fearing to clinch a deal, talk about money to chatted to die;
Feel embarrassed to just ask for oneself to client, superior and brand should earning, fear to be thought dispute small as the head of a fly is small benefit;
Feel embarrassed to consult skill to successful elder, concern is looked down on by him.
"Feel embarrassed " 4 words, did not know to feel new hand of how many small business, let them take countless roundabout way, affect the outstanding achievement of early days even, bring about them to abandon small business career quickly.
Have so a view: The country is acquaintance society, the city is stranger society.
Be like with and so on, I define two kinds of gregarious state of mind, acquaintance state of mind and stranger state of mind.
Classics regular meeting feels " feel embarrassed " person, it is to be being used actually " acquaintance state of mind " do socialization; And the heart is powerful, the person that won't feel to feel embarrassed, it is to be being used however " stranger state of mind " do socialization.
"Acquaintance state of mind " communicate in socialization namely in, with the other side can mature person is premise, guide oneself communication, behavior, manner, produce limitation to his behavior thereby, fear ultra behavior can destroy gregarious relationship.
And " stranger state of mind " it is the principle that holds to oneself and purpose, this valued is respected, should strive for strive for, the business is the business, favor is favor.
If feel,feel embarrassed so, below a lot of circumstances, still not be acquaintance begins to worry about the thing after becoming friend, this is blind worry about; Had been the friend with very close relationship, can worry about all the time the thing after relation burst, this is serious to each other affection relation not self-confident.
Feel embarrassed ask for help, it is the principle that cannot hold to oneself, often put oneself end after other issue.
And the person with powerful heart, won't feel to feel embarrassed, because be in their heart, it is clear to be mixed more sturdily what do oneself want, only such ability reach his goal, gain a success.
If you are small business novice, feel to feel embarrassed when deal, suggest you review your gregarious state of mind, there is valued in this at the same time, hold to oneself principle and purpose, do not subdue oneself.