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There always are a lot of people in the life shy, do what thing to feel embarrassed, make oneself living imbroglio.
The friend lends his money, he feels embarrassed refuse, the money that has a meal oneself lent. Result other people does not return money, he feels embarrassed again ask, then he a can hungry abdomen.
Bagman introduces a product to him, he feels embarrassed decline, drew out money to buy, buy unlike, oneself give birth to skinful fuggy.
Kin introduces a boy or girl friend to him, he does not want to go obviously, feel embarrassed not to give kin outer part again, toughen one's scalp-brace oneself goes Ga talked about a hour, come back to regret a long time.
Feeling embarrassed is human weakness, the person that often feels to feel embarrassed, eat easily to have a deficit greatly.
The friend has told a such stories, she has learn younger sister to know a netizen on the net, those who grow quite handsomely, fall in love at first sight. Two people are very fast good, when be together, she does not have have the nerve to put forward to want to make contraceptive step, result girl accident was pregnant.
She feels embarrassed again tell him, also feel embarrassed to lend money to the classmate, go the net borrowed thousands of yuan, after doing perfect man labour to abort, part-time the hour that worked a few months, still just go up this money.
Later, the boy fell in love with other girl, put forward to part company with her, she all feeling embarrassed, buy sheet by oneself finally. Feeling embarrassed is a kind of chronic suicide, you work to work hard again, feel embarrassed the issue that raises treatment endowment, be about to suffer poor pain silently.
Encounter favorite person, feel embarrassed profession, he can become the bridegroom of others.
Feel embarrassed to miss a lot of things easily, for instance first love, friendship, love, good luck, that is not bashful also not be self-effacing, however foolish.
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Guo Dong is faced and Mai Gongmei once had performed an essay, cry " occupied you talk " , what he acts is a sodden good person. Who is occupied ask him to help, he is patting chest to say, occupied you talk.
Spring during carry, the train ticket is bought very hard, guo Dong faces boast to say he has acquaintance to be able to buy a train ticket, then more and more people ask him to help buy a train ticket.
He feels embarrassed refuse, carrying station of quilt reduce internal heat on the back, rectify what constellation rectifies constellation to queue up to buy a ticket, it is suffering can'ts bear character really. Beside us, face such number to be counted deeply like Guo Dong, he wants to please a whole world, be looked down on instead however finally.
This kind of person is flattery character, he longs to be approbated by everybody, sacrificial self-respect will cater to other, be mocked instead. Everybody should have his principle, do not feel embarrassed be afraid of malefactor, you are afraid of more malefactor, offend a person more easily, feel embarrassed without what.
I have a friend to live north 5 annulus, she returned old home, be in dog dog fosterage pet hospital.
Often call next the dog that lets me see her, I live in south 5 annulus, go by subway 5 annulus need north 3 two hours, need 56 hours back and forth.
I have my life, put down everything far from possibly, sit the dog that the subway of a few hours goes to seeing her. I rejected her, she expressed to understand at once.
Lot also needs between the friend, the friend that is you does not run, the friend that is not you does not stay. Everybody wants to hand in to be defended so that live bottom line, have oneself principle, not not flattery, adulatory, know reject others, but the friend that loves to help a person again.
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Feeling embarrassed is potion bane, if go up to dare not refuse in life important matter, consequence is very serious.
Watch elder sister of the friend shaddock is returned 28 years old in those days is lone on the west, go dating via friend introduction, far look at that man, shaddock is opposite on the west his the first feeling is bad.
Shaddock face about wants to leave on the west, but think of be friend introduction, feel embarrassed again leave. Be forced to sit down, in the man honey-tongued below, she feels OK to consider.
Got along for some time, xi Youfa shows man mood to change serious, little bagatelle can explode the sort of. Shaddock thought of to part company on the west, the man is in to the utmost redeem, she felt to feel embarrassed again, the decision gives him the chance again.
They still married finally, shaddock gave birth to marriage hind on the west two children, the man's nature also was exposed thoroughly. He can send disposition one day a lot of times, the table did not clear away him clean to get angry, the ground did not sweep him clean to get angry, the child is not obedient he is angry, the mood is changed come home badly to him, children hide.
On the west shaddock is very fast have to depressed disease, taking the child to go out to lease a building, take child to do a design in the evening by day, raise two children alone.
The condition that she faces now is, broken bits male living cost of a minute of the house property before the marriage that sold her, cash does not give, the child also without giving thought to, still the divorce lawsuit of blood of a dog is waiting for her.
Family suggests shaddock can want a child only on the west, abandon another child, but give mood devil the child, she is not at ease.
On the west shaddock very regret, if she at the outset far the first when see him, when feeling impression is bad, it is good that face about leaves, it doesn't matter feels embarrassed.
When they talk about love, shaddock discovers his mood on the west often out of control, part company stoutly with respect to this, is not to feel embarrassed give him an outer part, the result takes this lifetime went in. Regrettablly life cannot be answered, you feel embarrassed say No, be about to bear the consequence that Yes brings.
"Feel embarrassed " it is a kind of chronic suicide, of its please is others, those who hurt is him however, also meet those who appreciate you to pay without the person finally.
Fasten so foolish, it is to be an upright person for the first time, it doesn't matter feels embarrassed.
