Fight bravely the university entrance exam (network picture)
The university entrance exam ended.
As the parent, feel loose to the mouth is enraged?
Completely not right.
Today, I will to everybody throw a damp over.
Share with everybody, after the university entrance exam ends, parents are certain cannot 6 safe problems of oversight.
It is the safety on the mood.
The university entrance exam is a single-plank bridge, can pass it is one part only after all. After the exam ends, especially after the mark comes out, it is somebody jubilates certainly somebody anxious.
Take an examination of well, natural and glad, but also do not want get dizzy with success, beware extreme joy begets sorrow.
Take an examination of badly, the mood is low, sadness is sad, also be normal phenomenon. But the parent must be stood by in time, dredge dissolves the undesirable mood of examinee. Can take them to travel beguilement, go playing game to see a movie, prescind force, in order to kiss the force of affection, alleviate the psychological burden of examinee and negative sentiment. Bear to those psychology especially ability compares the poor, examinee that accuses ability to lose quite oneself, should notice mainly more, do not give them the chance of go to extremes.
2 it is a safety that goes up all right.
After the university entrance exam, it is to grow the long holiday that did not work. Examinee should go out travel, visit one's family, visitting friend is automatical thing. Some examinee may be to give far door for the first time, as the parent, concern is inevitable, but impossible also for company child goes out. So, above all, want those who listen to the child to give a program, helping the child what discriminate is feasible, what is unworkable, take out the proposal of rationalize again. Next, the possible contingency in wanting to help the child analyse a journey and answer measure, consider the way to deal with a situation below good emergency; Finally, want to explain the child to must put person safety in the first place, at any time expedite with the connection in the home.
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3 it is the safety on the party.
The party unavoidable after the university entrance exam. Party of classmate party, teachers and students, friend party, fellow-townsman party is waited a moment, can saying is to have too many visitors or business to deal with. To this, parents must not treat sth lightly. Want to accomplish 4 to make clear: Should inform clearly whereaboutldirection and time coming home, cannot optional and outer pass the night; 2 want to cannot go to dangerous place and not normal public place of entertainment clearly; 3 should not eat and drink too much clearly, do not drink more cannot excessive drinking; 4 should not want drug taking, experience clearly yellow, gambling in group fights even affray.
4 it is the safety on body and mind.
Major candidate for an entrance examination can be loosened thoroughly after the university entrance exam, some people may of all night until dawn get online, chase after drama, game, party, the free time that should lose high school period it seems that uses entirely come back. Face this kind of situation, the parent cannot indulge, must reasonable interpose.
Above all, the parent wants to realise, of inadequacy of the excess load study because of high school period, Morpheus and negative sentiment accumulate, a lot of examinee are the existence psychology problem of different level. The apolaustic psychology after the exam ends is to release pressure, alleviate mood and one kind when maintain health of body and mind answers way. Next, it is clear that the parent should be told with examinee, be without abstemious apolaustic behavior, at loosening profitless, at body and mind harmful. The parent should be taken an active part in come in holiday arrangement of the child, child wanting a side has held this to spend, accomplish loosen and do not indulge.
5 it is the safety on information.
Everybody still should remember 2016 the case of Xu Yuyu of Shandong Linyi girl, this girl of effort is in in those days in the university entrance exam take an examination of smoothly attended college of Nanjing post and telecommunications. But divulge because of information however, by cheater phone of a bilk, cheated 9900 yuan of charge of the university on her, and she herself also is enraged dead by while still alive, it is the lesson of terrestrial tragedy, blood really.
Whats like great master now hair friend circle, the information that this is used with respect to possible meeting among them. For instance, watch of date of standard textual criticism, Id, exam, report, volunteer fill in a form and submit it to the leadership, admission notice is waited a moment, these things may be in we are so called in showing off, divulged important information, also gave cheater with an opportunity given by.
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6 it is the safety on association.
Lengthy period of leave, god-given footloose time, be able to liberate completely by the school and the body that study box up and soul before, examinee people the demand of human society side can become more pressing. Then, netizen, shake the friendly, You You, person around to wait a moment, if be risked like emerge,can come out. Experience of society of major candidate for an entrance examination is little, what know to social the seamy side is very little, what often can underestimate popular feeling is dangerous, easy and credulous stranger. This is breakneck. Parents also should leave mug-up in this respect, give the child more guard a pass, carry remind, much attention child is making the unusual appearance of upgrade external, try in time to intervene.
Additional, in holiday, many examinee can go out to seek a part-time job, with period earn pin money to still can accumulate social experience. This is meddlesome, but the parent must help them clear up at 3 o'clock: It is not to want to be sole purpose in order to make money, the thing of illegal crime cannot be touched stoutly; 2 it is not to want by alleged " good-paying " flicker, enter all sorts of pit that use worker worker by accident; 3 it is the mortgage of labour of identity document action that does not use oneself absolutely.
Hind period of the university entrance exam, not be calm port, however undercurrent emerges the Pacific Ocean that move. 6 aspects that say above me are an iceberg only one horn, hope parents are much give a lot of care, examinee people also want had accused oneself, try hard together, spend the good vacation with this paragraph of god-given life An An, happily flatly.
